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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not getting any meets? Wonder why? Have you ever investigated the tools of the site that might help explain it.
I live in the southwest, I just did a search with quite specific parameters to demonstrate a point to a friend of mine and I was quite surprised by the results. I conducted the following search
Men looking for women - pictures on profile (perving during research is allowable under an EEC directive)
15 pages of online now - so that's 15 pages of men looking or a woman in the southwest region (from Cornwall to Wiltshire)
Next I did the following search
Women looking for men - pictures on profile (yum)
Less than one full page "online now" in the same geographical region
So that's a 1 to 15 ratio, not withstanding distance, sexual preference, the ability to accommodate, smoking or non smoking, age preferences, body type preference etc.
Couples was even less (about half a page).
So my singleton friends, next time you are having difficulty getting those elusive meets, run the same search, it may help you "justify" the difficulties you are having.
How can you better your chances? Profile, Pics and Approach. The better your profile describes you, the more chance you have to stand out. Pictures, well hopefully the ladies on the forum can advise. Approach, read the profiles you like, respond to the person in the profile, not the person in the pictures
The numbers are against you, but you can say the percentage chance, by having a good profile, pics and approach.
I would like o add, my profile is not perfect by a long chalk, neither are my pictures and as I don't send the first message, my approach is non-existent. This is not me saying "woohoo!". This is me offering advice in he swinging advice forum. Good luck and happy meets!
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but i really dont think you needed a search option to tell you that when every new female or couple after a couple of hours of joining write something like theyve had 100 or 200 messages and to basically stop mailing them for a bit 
