FabSwingers.com forum: First time 3sum advise

By *ugass2104 OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thinking of have our first one soon any tips as in does and don'ts it will be mff in the 3sum

By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Remember it has to be fun for everyone, the extra f isn’t just there for you and your partner, she will have her own reasons for wanting to play with you both, make sure you cater to that and make sure that she has a good time.

At the same time don’t forget to pay attention to your partner (particularly applies to the male) especially if this is a male driven fantasy the last thing the female wants is to spend an hour watching you fuck some other woman.

Most of all have fun, that’s what it’s about. Have some drinks, talk, enjoy each other’s company and let it progress naturally. Saying that, remember why you’re all there though, and don’t get nervous and spend the whole night dancing around the topic of playing and just spend 4 hours watching lord of the rings or whatever.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equal way dynamics is the key, everyone on an equal footing, everyone’s needs & wants fulfilled, you as a couple are not there to put the single lady on a pedestal and she is not there to be your play thing...

By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Id add, to the good advice already given, if this is an arrnaged 3 some, i.e. not spontaneous at a club, I'd do a social meet first.

Use the social to see if you ALL click, and set the basic ground rules what is and isn't on the table, so to speak.