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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I’m looking to find a couple to meet in north east but finding it hard , I’ve got a few verification and arranged a few meets but then I’ve been let down , can anyone help with any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know the circumstances you arranged to meet but I’d dare say try meeting just for a beer or a coffee first. Then see where thing lead.

If you’re just meeting for sex then people will drop out for all kinds of reasons - nerves, not feeing horny that day, don’t feel confident, a bit unsure...

But if you’re just meeting for a chat there’s less pressure and they’ll likely meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah thanks I’ll give it a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps also because all your verifications are from men? It suggests you may not be interested in women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps also because all your verifications are from men? It suggests you may not be interested in women?"

It’s cause I can’t get a female meet lol I want to meet them but never found someone that doesn’t or let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says your straight too. Straight as a roundabout with varis like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate "

I see you've now changed it to bi-curious ... but you seem to be past the curious stage from the number of veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate "

I'm not put off by females pictures on a single males profile because I'm jealous of great boobs. For me it's being wary of where photos come from if they are not verified by women or couples. I'm put off by the likelihood someone is either using fake pictures or pictures of someone who may not have consented to have them displayed on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate

I'm not put off by females pictures on a single males profile because I'm jealous of great boobs. For me it's being wary of where photos come from if they are not verified by women or couples. I'm put off by the likelihood someone is either using fake pictures or pictures of someone who may not have consented to have them displayed on Fab."

I do have permission to use them on here as she requested to take photos of meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't give you any advice as we also struggle to meet couples.

I guess if I was to give any advice I'd say just be yourself oh and a good sense of humour can go a long way!

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate

I'm not put off by females pictures on a single males profile because I'm jealous of great boobs. For me it's being wary of where photos come from if they are not verified by women or couples. I'm put off by the likelihood someone is either using fake pictures or pictures of someone who may not have consented to have them displayed on Fab.

I do have permission to use them on here as she requested to take photos of meet "

And in no offence to yourself I'm sure you can appreciate it's easy to say that without there being a verification from a woman to back it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TRy being honest OP

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I would not meet based on the incorrect spelling of “discreet” lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TRy being honest OP"

Yeah

Just a few contradictions in this thread

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate

I'm not put off by females pictures on a single males profile because I'm jealous of great boobs. For me it's being wary of where photos come from if they are not verified by women or couples. I'm put off by the likelihood someone is either using fake pictures or pictures of someone who may not have consented to have them displayed on Fab.

I do have permission to use them on here as she requested to take photos of meet

And in no offence to yourself I'm sure you can appreciate it's easy to say that without there being a verification from a woman to back it up.

"

If the lady gave you permission to use the photos, why did she not give you a verification ?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Your profile says straight but you only have verifications from men. Not sure all women will like this?

Also your profile says you are 23...

Another thing is your pictures contain a lady. Other women may not like this.... and probably compare themselves to her. She has nice boobs! Definate no no! Ha ha!

Then again I'm no expert!!! Only got one veri myself! Good luck mate

I'm not put off by females pictures on a single males profile because I'm jealous of great boobs. For me it's being wary of where photos come from if they are not verified by women or couples. I'm put off by the likelihood someone is either using fake pictures or pictures of someone who may not have consented to have them displayed on Fab.

I do have permission to use them on here as she requested to take photos of meet

And in no offence to yourself I'm sure you can appreciate it's easy to say that without there being a verification from a woman to back it up.

If the lady gave you permission to use the photos, why did she not give you a verification ? "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I see you're back to being straight OP - you've not asked for profile advice so can't give any but that is often the first thing people look at so make sure yours is up to scratch and makes you stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I never

He's vanished

Off to find some more fake pics, and think up some more lies and garbage, for his next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I never

He's vanished

Off to find some more fake pics, and think up some more lies and garbage, for his next profile"

Maybe he found the love of his life and is perfectly content and happy with his lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I never

He's vanished

Off to find some more fake pics, and think up some more lies and garbage, for his next profile

Maybe he found the love of his life and is perfectly content and happy with his lot?"

Or he went to Canada

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