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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

advice wanted please, what is the score with hotel guests visiting you in your room that are not booked in to the hotel ?

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Once or twice I have been challenged at reception whilst visiting couples in hotels.

And I told them I am there attending a job interview.

No problem getting in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any probes meeting guys in hotel rooms just walk in and meet in bar if there is one

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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once asked if I was an escort!! I said 'no I fuck for fun not money'

Not sure they knew what to say so I continued up to the room anyway.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

I always meet our date in the reception. Never had a problem.

Janet xxxxxx

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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

lol funny who would argue with that lol thanks

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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

lol funny who would argue with that lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had issue when meeting in bar and then going up nice to have drink first get the pulse going with anticipation of the events that will unfold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a large chain hotel, and during initial training there was a section on looking out for signs of prostitution and other signs of potentially harmful sexual activity which could come up in swinging, like of sexual debris like condoms and stuff, people with a local address booking a room, people looking suspiciously overly made up and scantily dressed, not carrying very much luggage and so on.

Knowing all of that, I'd say do hotel meets but be discreet! And bare in mind other guests, the fact that they'll often be staff in all parts of hotels, even of you're not aware of it, and any decent hotel will make sure that their staff are savvy to all of these signs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Premier can be a bit of a pain at times, but sometimes they are ok with it.

All depends on hotels, easier to just meet in bar then head to the room.

Once we did leave a keycard in the wheel arch of our car as the receptionist was a pain in the ass.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Find a hotel with public bar they are the best hotels for hotel fun

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

As an experienced Hotel Front Office Manager with over 25 yrs in the business, my advice is to meet in the Bar first. If preferred, you can meet up in a Lounge area instead; for all intents, you could be friends meeting up!

Some of the Group hotel chains will have key access to lifts or stairs. Answer to that is ask for 2 keys (if not offered already at check in). Give one key to your Meet guest so they can access lifts at different times to you.

Be careful NOT to ask for multiple copy keys

Don't suggest you have "lost" one or two and need replacements (to privately make 3 or 4!) as Reception may make up 2 new out with differing electronic combinations. This renders all existing keys obselete!

Above all, don't draw attention to yourself or your guests. Ensure they behave. Hotels these days are tolerant to a degree but if you create damage to a room, leave it filthy, or cause distress or sleepless nights to nearby guest's rooms, you can either find yourselves thrown out or landed with a hefty cleaning bill.

Im my career, I've had 3 Couples thrown out with Police assistance and billed guests at £100-150 for cleaning soiled bedrooms. A lot of the Hotel Chains these days start at £150 and work upwards!

Hope this helps.

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By *randmrsdisney OP   Couple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

thank you all very much for some sound advice , we are very respect full and considerate people destroying hotel rooms and disturbing other guest would never happen. if some one I invited up behaved like that I would kick them out before the hotel got a chance. our thoughts lay basically clubs kick about about 3 and often me and the wife are still not quite done so thinking about the possibility of inviting someone / couples back . with all I can gather from the valid responses its seems it should be ok , thank you all for taking time to advise and relay your experiences

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I have a true story about a hotel, i was working away (as i do a lot)and booked a room for my partner to come and stay the weekend, she phoned me to say she had arrived and that there was only one set of towels. I said id call at reception on my way in to collect another set. As we are both swingers had also arranged to meet with a guy that night in the hotel for a 3 some. I ended up working late but the guy had arrived as planned. I told them to carry on without me as i wanted to walk in and catch them both fucking this they did and my partnes was teasing me by sending pictures of her getting fucked and sucking cock (so fucking hot). Anyway once id finished work i headed to the hotel ans as i walked in i asked at reception for a set of towel, not realising. The guy on reception grabbed the towels and proceeded to folllow me to my room. Once there i could hear the moans of my partner at the door as she was being fucked by her date. I opened the door and the receptionist followed me in to witness my partner on all fours on the bed getting fucked from behind. Needless to say the guys face was a picture and just left without saying a word, i then joined them and had a great night true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use Hilton hotel day rooms .. I have a local address and turn up only with a back pack or sometimes nothing but a handbag if he is bringing our bag of kink later .. and Iv never been challenged we are not always quiet and often get upgraded to a executive room too ! I think the hotel know what people use day rooms for and turn a blind eye it’s easy money to them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use Hilton hotel day rooms .. I have a local address and turn up only with a back pack or sometimes nothing but a handbag if he is bringing our bag of kink later .. and Iv never been challenged we are not always quiet and often get upgraded to a executive room too ! I think the hotel know what people use day rooms for and turn a blind eye it’s easy money to them ! "

I’d like to add we are respectful and don’t trash it or leave sex debris in the room we leave it clean and tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi O.P I’ve only had limited hotel meets as more a club goer but the ones I’ve arranged have been fine. The hotel I’ve been in has had a bar so can meet for drinks first which is actually a good way of just taking a bit more time to be sure everything is feeling right to play. Staff then just think they’ve come to meet you then hardly take any notice when you leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use Hilton hotel day rooms .. I have a local address and turn up only with a back pack or sometimes nothing but a handbag if he is bringing our bag of kink later .. and Iv never been challenged we are not always quiet and often get upgraded to a executive room too ! I think the hotel know what people use day rooms for and turn a blind eye it’s easy money to them ! "

I totally agree as long as you are respectful and discreet and leave the room in a reasonable state the majority of hotels aren’t at all bothered, It’s good money for them they are far happier with two couples booking a room for sex then a bunch of d*unken football fans

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some hotels have key card activated lifts and doors to room access. If you going to have people meet at your room make sure its a hotel that has free access to rooms.

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