FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for Meets :-)

By *eeponsmiling83 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Hi everyone

As I still consider myself to still be learning the ropes in the swinging world, just reaching out for some advice.

Have been to a few club events which have been amazing (especially the ones at Club F). Anyway I also wanted to explore with some meets as well, so just wanted some tips on how is best to approach things as I don’t want to come across as crackers when replying to adverts on fabswingers or placing adverts of my own.

If any one has any good tips for someone trying to learn the ropes then I will love you for life! Ha!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

If you have been to club events, try talking to people and then swap details and you could meet them outside of the club.

Adverts ? Do you mean the people who post they are looking for meets ? That's one way of finding meets, but not that many people post meet requests.

I think the majority of people contact people they like the look of, send them a pleasant chatty message explaining why they would like to meet. Then hope for a reply.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Don't get d*unk!!

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By *eeponsmiling83 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Yea that’s what I meant - couldn’t think of the phrase ha!

Thanks for the advice much appreciated, yea when I been to clubs over the summer I was a little reserved and shy so never really talked to anyone so when I go next I will make more of an effort to mingle!

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By *eeponsmiling83 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Don't get d*unk!!"

Haha yea I not a big drinker to be honest so there is not much chance of getting d*unk xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening O.P can recommend having a look on the swinging club/Events tab on the forum. See if any of the events catch your eye or your interest then put your name down to request a spot. Some events have guest lists so can always message someone or couple in advance with courtesy message to say you’re going etc. All the best

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By *eeponsmiling83 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Evening O.P can recommend having a look on the swinging club/Events tab on the forum. See if any of the events catch your eye or your interest then put your name down to request a spot. Some events have guest lists so can always message someone or couple in advance with courtesy message to say you’re going etc. All the best"

Thanks

yea I was considering doing it that. I seen a few on the events tab so l will decide which ones sound more appealing and reach out.

Before I go to a club event too like you said I will drop a message before going

Shall let you know how I get on

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