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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im sure some on here have had situations where they visited a club and chatted quiet amicably to someone,and it turns out you have blocked them,or been blocked by them,before bumping into them in the club,without realising it ?

Did you chat about being on Fab,and maybe look them up on here whilst still in the club and did you continue to converse with them,or bolt for the exit maybe ?

Or were you able to see passed the blocking and become friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends why they were blocked.

Generally I only block guys who've wasted my time or sent abusive messages so with that in mind id probably make my excuses and leave.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Ive met one or two on my block list in clubs. I use my notes facility so know why they are blocked. Funnily enough one was extremely abusive on here but was just a y little shite in real life. Funny to point that out to him what he'd said and would he like to say it to my face. Surprisingly no!

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

I don’t take it personally either way if someone isn’t right at a certain time you can block them and visa versa but walking around with notes on people you’ve blocked really!!!!!!!

The above comment has most likely got a me a block lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We avoid blocking people for the very reason that our paths may cross at a party or a club. Obviously we block if someone makes a nuisance of themselves, but I don’t think we’d be interested in the nuisance type anyway. I have wondered what would happen if we hit it off in a club with someone who had blocked us. Would we ask them to unblock us before we play?

Mrs

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thats interesting as youve blocked us and never even spoke

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Whamboy 69 i meant

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Ironically you seem to have blocked me hahaha

I don't weve even spoken

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Whats the problem with tagging notes? Nobody sees them except yourself and they can come in handy if people have been abusive or they have made someone feel unsafe. I've tagged a couple to people who haven't responded to taking no for an answer very well or they've had an attitude. If they don't like being told no on here imagine what they could be like in the real world? Common sense for people to keep safe and be cautious.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I don’t take it personally either way if someone isn’t right at a certain time you can block them and visa versa but walking around with notes on people you’ve blocked really!!!!!!!

The above comment has most likely got a me a block lol

"

What's wrong with using the private notes section?

My block list is huge, I couldn't possibly remember why I'd blocked someone without it.

Some are blocked simply due to age & location. Too young, too close to home.

Others that have sent inappropriate messages, can't take no for answer, been abusive.

I'd like to avoid ever meeting them so bring able to check is pretty important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met people we've previously blocked and, if we then discover that we hit it off, we more than happy to unblock.

Lets be honest, you really can't make an informed judgment based simply on the way some people act on here

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Whamboy 69 i meant"
I do tend to block people who don’t reply to a message it just saves me sending unwanted messages in the future so maybe that’s the reason

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Oh yes! There's one person in particular who has me blocked, that I would love to meet in a club

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I'm attending a social where there's people I've blocked. I've also attended socials and been in the company of those who've blocked me. I don't allow it to ruin my night.

The people who've blocked me were because I wouldn't meet them and didn't like hearing the word no.

It happens it's life after all.

I smile politely and say hello as I walk past but that's all. There's no conversation. When I've realised I've spoken to someone I've already blocked I have been honest and told them the reason. I've not unblocked them after chatting in q club tho.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Whats the problem with tagging notes? Nobody sees them except yourself and they can come in handy if people have been abusive or they have made someone feel unsafe. I've tagged a couple to people who haven't responded to taking no for an answer very well or they've had an attitude. If they don't like being told no on here imagine what they could be like in the real world? Common sense for people to keep safe and be cautious. "

Once they're blocked you can't read a private note tho

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Whats the problem with tagging notes? Nobody sees them except yourself and they can come in handy if people have been abusive or they have made someone feel unsafe. I've tagged a couple to people who haven't responded to taking no for an answer very well or they've had an attitude. If they don't like being told no on here imagine what they could be like in the real world? Common sense for people to keep safe and be cautious.

Once they're blocked you can't read a private note tho "

You can still see your private notes if they are blocked

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Weve never even chatted or had message from you whamboy 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a clue who has blocked me I don't send personal messages I only respond to those who message me and weirdly enough received a forum timeout for supposedly contacting somebody in forums who had blocked me, how ironic first because I didn't know who person was and secondly didn't know I had received the timeout until after it had expired ,how odd this place can be sometimes

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Whats the problem with tagging notes? Nobody sees them except yourself and they can come in handy if people have been abusive or they have made someone feel unsafe. I've tagged a couple to people who haven't responded to taking no for an answer very well or they've had an attitude. If they don't like being told no on here imagine what they could be like in the real world? Common sense for people to keep safe and be cautious.

Once they're blocked you can't read a private note tho "

Yes you can and I do. Try it go to your block list, you can look at notes you have made.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Whats the problem with tagging notes? Nobody sees them except yourself and they can come in handy if people have been abusive or they have made someone feel unsafe. I've tagged a couple to people who haven't responded to taking no for an answer very well or they've had an attitude. If they don't like being told no on here imagine what they could be like in the real world? Common sense for people to keep safe and be cautious.

Once they're blocked you can't read a private note tho "

On a blocked profile there are 3 buttons that still work - block, report and private notes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t take it personally either way if someone isn’t right at a certain time you can block them and visa versa but walking around with notes on people you’ve blocked really!!!!!!!

The above comment has most likely got a me a block lol

"

It helps as a couple for ensuring that if one or other of us considers reversing a block for whatever reason, to know the opinion of the other person and not do it...

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Im sure some on here have had situations where they visited a club and chatted quiet amicably to someone,and it turns out you have blocked them,or been blocked by them,before bumping into them in the club,without realising it ?

Did you chat about being on Fab,and maybe look them up on here whilst still in the club and did you continue to converse with them,or bolt for the exit maybe ?

Or were you able to see passed the blocking and become friends "

We have had this a few times.

It takes a lot for us to block someone and each block is for good reason.

If we met in a club and got on well, we wouldn’t unblock.

People can be very different online to how they are in real life

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I get blocked for my outspoken views on here. I never treat anything on here personal and would never let it stop me chatting to someone. I am pretty sure thete are many who would rather spit on me than speak to me though.

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Blocked for a reason... so it's a no thanks

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Anyone else pressing on every poster now to see if they have blocked you?? Haha

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Anyone else pressing on every poster now to see if they have blocked you?? Haha"

Yup haha

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