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First message photos help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Have recently been wondering what photos would be beet to send as part of an initial message. I always try to include and face and body shot and never a c*** one!

Was also wondering what is an appropriate number of photos to send initially...woudln't want to bombard someone with a ton of photos either.

I have put all my photos on public so would really appreciate getting some feedback as to which of my photos you guys think would help enhance that first message.

Thanks in advance...hope everyone is having a lovely weekend!

Jay x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I think you should leave the photos on your profile and don't send any with your initial message. Ladies usually check out profiles before replying to messages.

If you want to send pics, then the last one and a face pic of you smiling would be my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the photos are public, why attach them to the message? Always confuses me that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to keep a lot of mine private for discretion purposes.

But I was just wondering which of my photos would be best for sending in an opening message. Call it a contradiction, but I do send a few of my private photos in an opening message.....just don't have them on public for all to see!

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Frequent Visitor

Wouldn't bother with the body shots, we can admire them on your profile. I do appreciate a face picture, but wouldn't expect one with the first message (although very much preferred, and some profiles I've seen actually demand a mug shot - although these wouldn't be people I'd get in touch with) x

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I would say face pic also as we can clearly see that hot body of yours on your profile. It's up to you if you send with your first message, we ask for it but don't kick off if the person doesn't send straight away as also like to get to know the personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice to see where im going wrong then lol

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Frequent Visitor


"nice to see where im going wrong then lol "

Not going wrong anywhere!! I like face pics best, close 2nd would be the headless torsos Just most people would rather not put a face pic up for everyone to see to avoid being approached by randoms in the shop or wherever, who have spotted us on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see your face pics on your profile as I'm assuming they're in the friends only photos.

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