FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on here for a while now and I’ve had relatively bad luck with meets. Is there anything I can add/take off my profile to make me seem more messagable (if that’s even a word aha)

Any help would be much appreciated, thanks

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Personally I think your profile is pretty good, just you may find with your age it puts people off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think your profile is pretty good, just you may find with your age it puts people off. "

Thanks for that, and yeah suppose it could be seen as a put off for certain people. That’s one thing I can’t change though haha

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Yes reasonable profile, not a plethora of cock photos & you can accommodate. As has been said, age is probably your biggest barrier plus being a single male it’s a numbers game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Got to get out there and socialisein the real world. Nothings better than building contacts face to face. Be sociable, respectful, put yourself out there and it will come

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social. "

I must be doing something right ahah! Cheers for all that feedback mate I’ll be sure to pop in on the forums a lot more, maybe get my profile noticed a bit.

I’ve been contemplating going to a social for a while now but just all seems intimidating going on my own with my age etc

But yeah thanks again for the advice

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social. "

Good advice there matey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got to get out there and socialisein the real world. Nothings better than building contacts face to face. Be sociable, respectful, put yourself out there and it will come

Thanks alot! I just need to grow some balls and get out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social.

Good advice there matey

I couldn’t have asked for more tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social.

I must be doing something right ahah! Cheers for all that feedback mate I’ll be sure to pop in on the forums a lot more, maybe get my profile noticed a bit.

I’ve been contemplating going to a social for a while now but just all seems intimidating going on my own with my age etc

But yeah thanks again for the advice

It's intimidating for sure.. but bare in mind.. EVERYONE knows EXACTLY how you feel. They've either been there and done it.. OR.. they're in the same boat. Just get out there and start.. you won't regret it.. don't give up and it'll happen when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on here for a while now and I’ve had relatively bad luck with meets. Is there anything I can add/take off my profile to make me seem more messagable (if that’s even a word aha)

Any help would be much appreciated, thanks"

Profile looks ok to me but could be the age x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two positive posts from women.. not bad eh? You can't change your age unfortunately.

I was going to reccomend you use the forum a bit, but I clicked on your green arrow and see that you do post.

Maybe try and inject a bit of fun into your profile? Though.. that can be a curse as well as a cure.

Maybe try and put across the type of personality you're looking for? Maybe use the forum to search for the women who grab your attention mentally on a regular basis.

I saw you commented on a military post.. which is why I'm bothering to comment (REspect). Surely your garrison town is full of nice young women and horny Pads wives

I think your best bet would be to go to a local social.

I must be doing something right ahah! Cheers for all that feedback mate I’ll be sure to pop in on the forums a lot more, maybe get my profile noticed a bit.

I’ve been contemplating going to a social for a while now but just all seems intimidating going on my own with my age etc

But yeah thanks again for the advice

Massive thanks mate! Will give it all a go

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Got to get out there and socialisein the real world. Nothings better than building contacts face to face. Be sociable, respectful, put yourself out there and it will come

Thanks alot! I just need to grow some balls and get out there"

Just treat it as going to a normal pub - go with no expectations, just to meet people, chat, make some contacts and be social.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Got to get out there and socialisein the real world. Nothings better than building contacts face to face. Be sociable, respectful, put yourself out there and it will come

Thanks alot! I just need to grow some balls and get out there"

It is that's very true. Pick the right club just got to dive in. Focus on having a laugh and fun. Address both partners in a couple never focus on either to much until playtime.

The Vanilla Alternative is brilliant. They very guys but that means that they're good guys. Festival of fun is the one

Get involved with a group and you have it cracked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks a lot for all the advice guys!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nice to see you answering posts on your thread OP. Profile looks fine hot 3rd April pic which I just had to fab

good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nice to see you answering posts on your thread OP. Profile looks fine hot 3rd April pic which I just had to fab

good luck xxx"

Thanks a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a young man with a young man’s body. The average swinger is old enough to be your parent so don’t often look for guys your age.

There are ones who do though and some younger females who are nearer your age so all is not lost.

As above; get known at socials and try a club. They’re great fun.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Lie about your age, like so many others do ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on here for a while now and I’ve had relatively bad luck with meets. Is there anything I can add/take off my profile to make me seem more messagable (if that’s even a word aha)

Any help would be much appreciated, thanks"

God I like younger guys but 20 is pushing it even for me!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I had younger the other week. He was 19 lol. But it was in a gang bang. Where you don't ask names and ages lol

xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lie about your age, like so many others do ....lol

Hahah I’d rather be honest about it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had younger the other week. He was 19 lol. But it was in a gang bang. Where you don't ask names and ages lol

xxxx Suzi"

Haha see I’m not so young after all

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