FabSwingers.com forum: Spanking!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance x"
Are we talking spanking with a hand or implement? Gentle spanking or do you want him to take a run up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do engage in spanking but only when they refuse to tidy up their toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not play around on your own for a while and see what each others limits are, as some spankers dont like to inflict to much pain on the spankee and some spankees want it a bit harder....Get your own balance before you introduce others into your fun.

Enjoy, its fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance xAre we talking spanking with a hand or implement? Gentle spanking or do you want him to take a run up?"

Certainly not with a run up!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance xAre we talking spanking with a hand or implement? Gentle spanking or do you want him to take a run up?

Certainly not with a run up!

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Hey dont knock it til youve tried it lol, seriously its all down to what you are comfortable with and what ?"floats your boat" you will only find that out by experimenting, and learning what you both enjoy, its a fabulous addition to sex though, good luck and enjoy! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Femme xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE being spanked.

As the others have already said, start with a hand & work up the amount of strength used. If you want more, go for a spanker, paddle etc...

Spanking can be soft & gentle to downright painful, so there's a HUGE range to play with.

I must admit working out how much I can take is seriously arousing....the challenge definitely adds to the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hand spanking is just the best... its a feeling two can share

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance x"

We hold regular "spanking workshops" once a month for select couples, if you would care to participate (foc naturally) PM us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

Thanks in advance xAre we talking spanking with a hand or implement? Gentle spanking or do you want him to take a run up?"

Thanks!! Just choked on my tea for the second time today!!

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

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"Hi all,

We have been chatting this weekend gone and the subject of spanking came up.

It is something neither of us have done before but like the idea, the twinkle in Viv's eye gave her away!!

Can anyone give us some advise for begginers? We don't want to rush at it like a bull in a china shop and want to enjoy the sensuality rather than inflict pain!!

yes buy a nice flogger and riding crop you be amazed how much fun they are

Thanks in advance x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not recomend a riding crop for starting out.. I love and hate the crop but its the one thing that I do try to get away from.

Certainly not for beginners as even a gentle swipe of it stings like anything.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Cali, but think the riding crop will be a long way off yet!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Cali, but think the riding crop will be a long way off yet!! xx"

That was what I was saying as someone else recomended it lol

Cali.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to admit love to be spanked with a firm hand sometimes it makes me to excited and i lose control and cum

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