FabSwingers.com forum: Strap-ons

By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I know this going to come across naive, but do women actually get any physical pleasure from using a strap-on? I understand that women find it sexy, no argument here lol, but out of curiosity, could you orgasm (at the height of your fun) just using one? If not, surely attaching a vibrator to the base of it would increase the intenseness? What are people’s opinions on this?

By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

There are a lot of answers for this. From my experience being a sissy for my Mistress friend and progressing in strap on play together.

Physical pleasure... most strap on harnesses with a dildo against a base don't give much direct pleasure, but i have seen articles where some do get direct stimulation. It's all about lineing things up to get friction in the right place for her. You can try adding a small bullet vibrator and some harnesses come with this.

We tried her wearing tight thin shorts and adding a dildo in the shorts for her then the strap on on the outside. She found it too fiddly and it distracted her from what she was really enjoying (i'll come on to this later). You can also get harness free strap ons that have a portion for her that the lady 'grips' inside her as she uses the outer bit on the recipient. We never tried one of these but my friend did question how hard it would be to 'grip'.

Mental pleasure... well for my friend this is where the fun was... the power she got from fucking me she described as the biggest rush she'd ever had. Hearing me moan and whimper as she fucked me turned her on massively. I worked hard so she could really 'go for it' when fucking me... and she loved it. Add in some verbal play for her.. she was in heaven.

So, yes the ladies can get physical pleasure from using the strap on... but don't forget the mental pleasure... for some this is much better than the physical pleasure.

Enjoy.. its great fun and something i would recommend every women tries at least once.