FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men look

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, if my profile does not say that I am looking for guy's, why do lots look,

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it. "

It's so obvious it almost hurts!

wtf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look"

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look"

Not sure that's right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it. "
lol thanks silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it.

It's so obvious it almost hurts!

wtf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks? "

You Can't stop anybody looking.... you stop getting notifications that they looked though and they can't message or wink.... but they can still fab pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, if my profile does not say that I am looking for guy's, why do lots look, "

Do you not get even a little tingle in your tummy when you see a cock pic avatar? Just a little one?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Not sure that's right."

Its correct. The thread link I've posted below has an explanation from admin on it.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/725901

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Not sure that's right.

Its correct. The thread link I've posted below has an explanation from admin on it.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/725901"

So can they look but not appear to have because of settings? Or do you effectively block men altogether?

Not something I want to do fellas. Don’t panic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, if my profile does not say that I am looking for guy's, why do lots look, "
they click button by mistake ......easy done ......they are gay .....easy done ........they like eggs .......easy done

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Whats wrong with men looking apart from the dissapointment you experience. I look at male profiles if I find them interesting. Doesnt mean I fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, if my profile does not say that I am looking for guy's, why do lots look, "

All kinds of reasons!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks? "

It does just stop messages and winks. They can still look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks?

It does just stop messages and winks. They can still look. "

But won’t appear on the list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People often look to see who’s nearby and click on profiles, or click on the profiles when reading a status in the local newsfeed or from a forum post.

If you’ve got a verification displayed on someone’s profile, often people read the veri and then click on the profile of the person who’s left it there. Usually to gauge what type of person that particular profile meets or just purely being nosey.

Unfortunately not everyone who looks is looking to get into your pants. There are a lot of people just purely looking at your profile for other reasons. Hope this helps OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks?

It does just stop messages and winks. They can still look.

But won’t appear on the list? "

Doesn't appear on who's looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks?

It does just stop messages and winks. They can still look.

But won’t appear on the list?

Doesn't appear on who's looked at me"

Ta. I know a little more today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Not sure that's right.

Its correct. The thread link I've posted below has an explanation from admin on it.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/725901"

Read it and it's the opposite of "its correct"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all, if my profile does not say that I am looking for guy's, why do lots look,

Do you not get even a little tingle in your tummy when you see a cock pic avatar? Just a little one?

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Ho yes especially if they have a skirt on

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Really? Does that work? I thought it just stopped messages and winks?

It does just stop messages and winks. They can still look.

But won’t appear on the list?

Doesn't appear on who's looked at me

Ta. I know a little more today.

Welcome hun x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"why dont you go to your account and tick on not looking for single males then they cant look

Not sure that's right.

Its correct. The thread link I've posted below has an explanation from admin on it.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/725901

Read it and it's the opposite of "its correct"?"

Yes I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mind them looking, I just was wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it.

It's so obvious it almost hurts!

wtf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because they want to have sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't know that unless they do look and read it. lol thanks silly me"

because they see your profile name and want to see if they want to play with you

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

I enjoy window shopping ,,,I can't have a Ducati but like looking in the garage thinking would that be a great ride ,,,but like the straight profiles I veiw

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

"I don't mind them lo

oking, I just was wondering "

Most people who are site supporters hold too much weight on who’s looked at me, it normally means nothing rather than curiosity.

You have 3 options 1 don’t be a site supporter so you can’t see, 2 if you are a SS don’t use the looked at me feature, 3rd as has been said if you block a certain group, they cannot message or wink you, they can look at you but they don’t appear on the view list. Simples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They Want to see your willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or your bum cheeks XXX

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

My question would be, why do so many men moan about this? Either block them or ignore it. You don't moan about men looking at you on the street do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of guys want to check out straight blokes photos. It’s flattering really. Besides if a gay guy thinks your well dressed and stylish then a woman certainly will. Don’t be so repressed. It’s sex, not the WI!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is "Sherlock Holmes" syndrome.

You click on a ladies profile and check their verifications, then check the profile of their verifications to see what kind of man they are.

People can backtrack through many profiles this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they wanna suck your dick then sink balls deep into your arse.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Checking out the local competition?

Following a verification on another profile , to see if the person who left it is genuine?

Wondering what a forumite is like?

This is a social site for swingers, not everyone who looks is trying to shag you.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I don't mind them looking, I just was wondering "

why ask the question if it does not bother you? I think now lots more will have taken a peek! you might even get to like it especially all the ones in their 90's!

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By *ipplebarnyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

I have touched my phone screen in the wrong place and looked by accident and then they looked back at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought you meant looking at your profile

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I have touched my phone screen in the wrong place and looked by accident and then they looked back at me. "

and then what?

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

"It is "Sherlock Holmes" syndrome.

You click on a ladies profile and check their verifications, then check the profile of their verifications to see what kind of man they are.

People can backtrack through many profiles this way

This exactly!

We always follow the veri trails when checking out guys. So end up looking at lots of women’s profile whilst not actually seeking them!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

WhyTF are you bovver'd ?

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm must admit I'm a bit nosy. I sometimes look at the profiles of guys who have veris for the women/couples I'm intrested in. Gives me an insight in to the sort of person they maybe intrested in and if that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind them looking, I just was wondering "

I'll sometimes look at guys from a list of verifications. It allows me to make a judgement on the likelihood of the lady replying positively.

If the guys are all shaven headed and covered in tattoos, she probably isn't going to go for me.

Often you see an age range of 35-60 but all the guys she has met are in their 30s again, unlikely that I'll get a reply.

Saves me time.

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