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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol"

Profile needs work mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol

Profile needs work mate"

Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.

You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol

Profile needs work mate

Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.

You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.

"

My veris are old and one of them has since deleted their profile so it’s not visible anymore and what kind of things should I work on. Are my pics okay and what kind of things should I put in my bio

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Change your age to 30.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better

Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!

Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better

Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!

Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*

Good luck!"

Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol"
it may be the resemblance to buster Keaton

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

There's no bio.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no bio. "

There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"There's no bio.

There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though"

It's a lot better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no bio.

There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though"

Quit with the 'I don't bite' cliche.. Remove it.. It's one of the most overused and unfunny, unimaginative things on profiles. It was funny the first time it was used, back in 307bc.. Now it just smacks of trying to be funny when you're not and having nothing original to entertain with.

Remove it this instant!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Much better xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no bio.

There was I was just updating it, still not 100% sure on it though

Quit with the 'I don't bite' cliche.. Remove it.. It's one of the most overused and unfunny, unimaginative things on profiles. It was funny the first time it was used, back in 307bc.. Now it just smacks of trying to be funny when you're not and having nothing original to entertain with.

Remove it this instant! "

Removed! Haha. Yeah I don’t know why I put it on tbh I just see a lot of profiles with the same hahaa

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So much better *grins*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grubby fingernails a no no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more info now, good effort. Hopefully it pays off for you.

Good luck

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grubby fingernails a no no"

??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Refreshing change to actually see an OP helping himself NY taking advice and acting on it. Good for you OP and the very best of luck xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Sorry typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with your profile just a bit to long that all i think plus it is harder for us single to enjoy site lately.anyway good luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better

Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!

Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*

Good luck!

Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!"

You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better

Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!

Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*

Good luck!

Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!

You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos!"
That how you 2 met?

Or just office chit chat as not on Tinder being a cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nothing wrong with your profile just a bit to long that all i think plus it is harder for us single to enjoy site lately.anyway good luck on here "

i dont think its too long at all, its friendly and informative...which is better than most, and its not 'harder' for people that have a decent profile and can be bothered to read other peoples. It's 'harder' for people who seem to assume that just by joining they will get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Firstly, your age will count against you on here - it’s harsh but true. Give it another decade or so and you’ll do better

Secondly, your profile is grammatically fine (which is one of my usual flags) but it’s lacking sparkle and personality. Give it some careful thought about who your target audience is and how you would chat them up in a bar. Sprinkle some humour in there and you’ll be golden!

Thirdly, you’re lovely looking with decent photos. Don’t let the usual fab doldrums bring you down - there’s loads of girls on here that you will get to with the right marketing *grins*

Good luck!

Wow thanks best advice I’ve read!

You’d get more sex on tinder being an edgy 22 year old with tattoos!"

Who says I’m not on tinder :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 24 hours of extremely friendly and helpful support from people regarding our own profile, the best advice WE can give is pay attention to what people tell you if it's harsh, accept it, if it's constructive, build on it, if it's informative,listen to it.

But DO what people suggest, recommend and advise.

It's helped us to strip down 80% of needless, pointless, boring waffle that no one in their right mind would want to sit through.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!

My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your age to 30."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!

My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available."

It’s not the most descriptive veri but if people keep insisting so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a couple of dressed pics and not have mess in the background especially if your hoping for meets at home . Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol

Profile needs work mate

Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.

You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.

"

It definitely puts me off if people have their verifications hidden, I like to see what others have experienced and also what sort of people they have met and so on and so forth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your profile is fine - I'm not into the "rough" bit, but you are and it's great that you state it so you can better meet someone suited to you!

My only advice would be that, veris matter to a lot of people, so display the one that IS available.

It’s not the most descriptive veri but if people keep insisting so be it"

Discriptive or not we like to see

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Haven’t seem to be having responses for a while no matter what I message. Whether it’s a friendly hello or trying to talk about their interests?

Am I just not attractive lol

Profile needs work mate

Profile needs work and also why have you hidden all your verifications? People often use them to see what your personality is like.. ie, if your fun, have a sense of humour, shy, can hold a conversation etc.

You need to show as much positivity as you can without sounding arrogant.

It definitely puts me off if people have their verifications hidden, I like to see what others have experienced and also what sort of people they have met and so on and so forth "

Totally agree. The type of people they've met previously can make it or break it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No verification.

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