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By *unwithasub OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Ok, so firstly I do understand when what we are looking for is basically just females to join us it is going to be far more difficult, but what are we doing wrong, seem to find it near impossible on this site, have much more luck elsewhere. Any advice?

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Try a club, you might have more success

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Your profile says "3 of us" so you have your extra fem?

Having been a unicorn myself nothing on your profile grabs me. What are you offering them? Unicorns can pick and choose. They fon't want to feel used or a tick box on a bucket list.

It's unclear if your looking for another sub fem or will it be an equal play?

Just saying as I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all most everyone Struggling on here including me when it comes to seeking female which makes me think how many of the on here are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all most everyone Struggling on here including me when it comes to seeking female which makes me think how many of the on here are genuine. "

Why would it mean they're not genuine?

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By *unwithasub OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Thank you for the feedback; we haven’t updated the profile for a little while, our best friend is bisexual & was living with us for a few months so often we can offer a second female.

With regards to the other submissive, I will be honest we are open to a variety of things, our sexuality is fairly fluid & certainly happy to play different roles.

It’s interesting what you say about the bucket list issue, that is the last thing we want anyone to feel, we have shared other women numerous times & our desire to do it more is not a list ticking thing for us, just a wonderful experience we have enjoyed & wish to enjoy again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all most everyone Struggling on here including me when it comes to seeking female which makes me think how many of the on here are genuine. "

Sounds like a name change is in order...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're basically looking for fffm? That's a niche market I would think XXX

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By *unwithasub OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"So you're basically looking for fffm? That's a niche market I would think XXX"

I guess so, don’t get me wrong we are open to FFM, FFF F M as well for the right people but just seem to struggle to find anyone interested.

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By *unwithasub OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Have updated our profile a little based on the advice thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually been on here for some months now and never once met up with anyone or came close! All I get is men no women or couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually been on here for some months now and never once met up with anyone or came close! All I get is men no women or couples? "

well i been here 4 years and nothing happen yet

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Actually been on here for some months now and never once met up with anyone or came close! All I get is men no women or couples? "

Do a forum search for profile advice - there are hundreds of threads on it. That might help

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

It's not impossible but with fab you are looking for a 'rare resource'. As other's have mentioned clubs might a good place to go to as well.

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By *unwithasub OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Thanks everyone, we have considered clubs guess it’s just nerves stopping us!

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