FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to return to the scene

By *jbucks OP Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Hello we are expecting our little girl very soon so we haven't been swinging for a while but after we have our little girl and Jordan is fully recovered and we can see a way to find time to swing again what would you say is the best way to go back to swinging if we chose to e.g meets or clubs or socials only or soft swinging or anything else you would advise x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pick up where you left off.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out with a bang x

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hello we are expecting our little girl very soon so we haven't been swinging for a while but after we have our little girl and Jordan is fully recovered and we can see a way to find time to swing again what would you say is the best way to go back to swinging if we chose to e.g meets or clubs or socials only or soft swinging or anything else you would advise x"

See how things are when your little girl comes, you may find it will take quite a while before you return.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say wait until the baby is born and you're both feeling "normal" then start thinking about it. I think you'll put too much pressure in yourselves thinking about it now.

Our kids are in their late twenties, I'd say we're just about getting back to normal now

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Wait until you are both comfortable and then head 9ut to a club where you can choose to stay in the social areas of you want. Go out as a couple to just chillout and get used to the way things work again.

Decide where your boundaries are together and when you're ready start exploring again at a pace you are both happy with.

We found after babies that the club suited us better as our time is much more limited with kids about.