FabSwingers.com forum: Unlucky or...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve not been on this site long but I don’t seem to be having any luck with getting replies from people I send polite messages nothing to forward but still rarely get a reply. I understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that a lot of women on here get bombarded but it just feels hopeless at the moment, anyone feel the same or have any advice for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to read all the other similar threads.

Socials, clubs, patience etc

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Think your age will put some people off. Also there are 158 guys to every girl. ( that's a number I made up, but you get the idea)

Is your profile as good as it can be with age range accurate, nice mix of pics, maybe try smiling not looking aggressive,

Messages that refer to something in the person's profile.

Go to socials or club's.

Be patient.

Chat on the forums, so people can get to know you s bit.

Have fun and don't get stressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve not been on this site long but I don’t seem to be having any luck with getting replies from people I send polite messages nothing to forward but still rarely get a reply. I understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that a lot of women on here get bombarded but it just feels hopeless at the moment, anyone feel the same or have any advice for me? "

Informative, interesting, well written profiles are a must.

Good quality, clear, photo's are also important.

Sadly your age will go against you at the moment, but nothing you can do about that.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having been on as a single guy, that had cock pics on profile, that never went to socials or clubs and never sent a lot of messages but still did pretty ok i would say at the end of the day it will be your attitude that gets you far on here.

like another poster said be patient, and my advice would be send less messages but make the ones you do send count.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I’ll see if I can try pop a smile in my next picture

yeah I guess I always forget my age and how that can be a turn off for some people

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No one is going to entertain you! People are here for mutual enjoyment.

Your profile comes across as arrogant, which coupled with your age would put me off.

That said, you are a handsome man and don't look like a teenager so the best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and chill it may take a while but some day you will send a message and get a nice reply and from there who knows.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"having been on as a single guy, that had cock pics on profile, that never went to socials or clubs and never sent a lot of messages but still did pretty ok i would say at the end of the day it will be your attitude that gets you far on here.

like another poster said be patient, and my advice would be send less messages but make the ones you do send count."

I agree totally with this. Was on as a single guy first and did ok. Looking at it now a lot better than thought at the time. Its all about patience and not being 1 of the thousands that just pester all time. Construct message to suit the individual as best you can. But there will be times when it feels like will never get any where. Its part of it. G

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