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To couple or not to couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm kind of , sort of discussing with a friend whether we want to start a couples profile on fab. We both have adequate single profiles and a network of contacts that generally give us what we need, but we'd like on occasion to recruit others to join us as a couple.

In my very brief experience on a couples profile before tho it was a lot of work for not much return and I'm wondering whether we'd be better recruiting off our respective singles profiles. I know people get grumpy when a single female suddenly turns into a couple, which I can understand. I'd be interested in your thoughts. It would just be the odd occasion once a month or so that we'd like to do something a bit out of the ordinary.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think a lots of couple will not meet friends ,who decide to become a couple.They state that in their profile.

I would only become a couple with my partner . The reason why a profile with a friend , will not last . As people move on .

Fall in love for someone else etc.But this is my opinion but is your profile ,your choice !Good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile is what you make it. I say do it. You can have different fun as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met FB couples and don't generally have a problem with it. What we absolutely won't do is meet a single female with an FB who appears as part of the package. And seeing posts on here suggests that many people feel the same

It's one of those situations that you'll never know until you try it OP. Good luck with whatever you decide

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Singles profile for meeting alone and couples profile for meeting as a couple.

Sounds so simple because it is.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

If you create a couple profile just explain what you are. The dynamics between a FB couple and a real partnered couple are different and some people have preferences one way or another.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Who gives a fuck as to the exact status of the relationship of couples on here? You're meeting for a night of hot sex, not a life long friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a couple's profile and explain what you're after in the text, put up all the filters, advertise a meet when you want one (maybe a week or two out) and either just drop the filters when a meet is going to happen or keep them up and message people yourself when you want a meet.

I think this cuts down on the hassle and work of a couple's profile by it's still more honest than having a single woman profile and introducing a man to the mix (which is something I think most people find frustrating on here...).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make a couple's profile and explain what you're after in the text, put up all the filters, advertise a meet when you want one (maybe a week or two out) and either just drop the filters when a meet is going to happen or keep them up and message people yourself when you want a meet.

I think this cuts down on the hassle and work of a couple's profile by it's still more honest than having a single woman profile and introducing a man to the mix (which is something I think most people find frustrating on here...). "

I like this idea. This is the way to go I think. No wading through loads of random approaches and friends will still be able to message us. Sorted! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Singles profile for meeting alone and couples profile for meeting as a couple.

Sounds so simple because it is."

Absolutely this. Have a fb couple pprofile and keep it separate from your single meets.

What irks people is when we contact a single lady and she comes with a tag along male partner that hasn't been mentioned in the single profile. Good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a couple's profile and explain what you're after in the text, put up all the filters, advertise a meet when you want one (maybe a week or two out) and either just drop the filters when a meet is going to happen or keep them up and message people yourself when you want a meet.

I think this cuts down on the hassle and work of a couple's profile by it's still more honest than having a single woman profile and introducing a man to the mix (which is something I think most people find frustrating on here...).

I like this idea. This is the way to go I think. No wading through loads of random approaches and friends will still be able to message us. Sorted! Thanks!"

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Make a couple's profile and explain what you're after in the text, put up all the filters, advertise a meet when you want one (maybe a week or two out) and either just drop the filters when a meet is going to happen or keep them up and message people yourself when you want a meet.

I think this cuts down on the hassle and work of a couple's profile by it's still more honest than having a single woman profile and introducing a man to the mix (which is something I think most people find frustrating on here...).

I like this idea. This is the way to go I think. No wading through loads of random approaches and friends will still be able to message us. Sorted! Thanks!"

Dealing with a similar situation

That's great advice, thank you xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would have a couples profile as it's not fair to people who are interested in meeting you to suddenly find out there is a guy involved. It could also be construed as a fake profile if you are using a single profile for both of you and could be reported as such. Good luck whatever you decide. X

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