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By *ezjez369 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I kinda understand why people don't reply to messages and that's to be taken as a no thanks,sort of.

What I don't get is the fact that someone replies, asks a few questions and THEN doesn't bother replying again....why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda understand why people don't reply to messages and that's to be taken as a no thanks,sort of.

What I don't get is the fact that someone replies, asks a few questions and THEN doesn't bother replying again....why?"

The conversation isn't going as hoped. Or they've been distracted by someone/something else. Don't take it to heart. Fab is hardcore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Two possible reasons are because the answers to the questions weren't what they wanted to hear or the conversation had come to a natural end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda understand why people don't reply to messages and that's to be taken as a no thanks,sort of.

What I don't get is the fact that someone replies, asks a few questions and THEN doesn't bother replying again....why?"

Sounds like they don't like the answers given.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Sometimes it's like pulling teeth. Hi - Hi. How are you - good thanks, you? What do you do? I do... how about you? Where do you live? I live...what about you?

And you lose the will to live. It doesn't have have to be long messages, just there has to be some sort of spark and interest there, nothing wild or wacky just something that makes you look forward to reading the next message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's like pulling teeth. Hi - Hi. How are you - good thanks, you? What do you do? I do... how about you? Where do you live? I live...what about you? "

This is the reason I stop replying. I try my best to engage as it does take two to make a conversation and it's not fair to reply solely on the other person. However, some conversations are so dull I just give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's like pulling teeth. Hi - Hi. How are you - good thanks, you? What do you do? I do... how about you? Where do you live? I live...what about you?

And you lose the will to live. It doesn't have have to be long messages, just there has to be some sort of spark and interest there, nothing wild or wacky just something that makes you look forward to reading the next message. "

This is true. If messages don't have an interesting and natural flow, it can kill a conversation dead, unfortunately.

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