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"Not at all. 2 of the versus were a couple we met for a drink. Another 2 we're from the same person. I just wanted advise on how to make my profile more approachable. I'm a nice genuine guy but get lots of nasty comments for no apparent reason" No one has been nasty OP, just stating the obvious. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile " Nasty, in what way? | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way?" Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory." As long as you don't quote them verbatim I think it's ok. If not, half the forums would have had bans on the worse messages threads. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. As long as you don't quote them verbatim I think it's ok. If not, half the forums would have had bans on the worse messages threads. " Just the way this thread has gone so far. I can see him giving too much away. Think he's better playing safe. Plus it's no one else's business anyway and he will get the generic reply of report and block no matter what he says. | |||
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"Hi everyone. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on making my profile better. I joined a few months ago and have met some really lovely people and had really nice verification. Lately though I am not getting and replies from people I message even though I always message someone in a nice way.. Any advice would be much appreciated." I like your pics. One doesn't load for some reason though. You sound a decent chap. If anything I would advise you to expand the text a little. Good luck. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory." Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? " Yeah obviously I am a sherriff. Nothing to do with me wanting to stop a guy getting a forum holiday at all | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? Yeah obviously I am a sherriff. Nothing to do with me wanting to stop a guy getting a forum holiday at all " Shouldn't an upstanding sheriff like yourself know the forum rules before telling other posters what to do? | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? Yeah obviously I am a sherriff. Nothing to do with me wanting to stop a guy getting a forum holiday at all Shouldn't an upstanding sheriff like yourself know the forum rules before telling other posters what to do?" I know them thank you. I have fallen foul of them on more than one occasion. Note I said ban territory. Read that as risking a ban. I further qualified this with my reply to the brains post. Read back if you care enough. I was merely looking out for the guy. I like to do that where I can. Don't have to be a moderator or a sherrif to do that. He can choose to reply. I apologise for not saying "I would tread carefully discussing pm's on the forum" which I am sure most people know that is what I was getting at. I am sure you are also aware that is a specific rule on this forum. I have no beef with you asking the question if that's what your deal here is. I don't think you asked with any malice. That ok with you? Sherriff Pieman has a good ring to it. I might change my name to that. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? Yeah obviously I am a sherriff. Nothing to do with me wanting to stop a guy getting a forum holiday at all Shouldn't an upstanding sheriff like yourself know the forum rules before telling other posters what to do? I know them thank you. I have fallen foul of them on more than one occasion. Note I said ban territory. Read that as risking a ban. I further qualified this with my reply to the brains post. Read back if you care enough. I was merely looking out for the guy. I like to do that where I can. Don't have to be a moderator or a sherrif to do that. He can choose to reply. I apologise for not saying "I would tread carefully discussing pm's on the forum" which I am sure most people know that is what I was getting at. I am sure you are also aware that is a specific rule on this forum. I have no beef with you asking the question if that's what your deal here is. I don't think you asked with any malice. That ok with you? Sherriff Pieman has a good ring to it. I might change my name to that." Extremely honoured that you have decreed my question without malice. Rather than take the bland and generic approach of some of the other replies I'm looking to explore the messages sent rather than the usual profile review. Especially as the OP raises the issue of 'nasty replies'. | |||
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"Sorry I wasn't trying to say they were being nasty. I meant some of the messages I received after contacting a profile were quite nasty. Over all I just wanted to see how to improve my profile Nasty, in what way? Don't answer this question OP. Discussing pms is ban territory. Are you some kind of sheriff on here and have you got a big shiny badge to prove it? Yeah obviously I am a sherriff. Nothing to do with me wanting to stop a guy getting a forum holiday at all Shouldn't an upstanding sheriff like yourself know the forum rules before telling other posters what to do? I know them thank you. I have fallen foul of them on more than one occasion. Note I said ban territory. Read that as risking a ban. I further qualified this with my reply to the brains post. Read back if you care enough. I was merely looking out for the guy. I like to do that where I can. Don't have to be a moderator or a sherrif to do that. He can choose to reply. I apologise for not saying "I would tread carefully discussing pm's on the forum" which I am sure most people know that is what I was getting at. I am sure you are also aware that is a specific rule on this forum. I have no beef with you asking the question if that's what your deal here is. I don't think you asked with any malice. That ok with you? Sherriff Pieman has a good ring to it. I might change my name to that. Extremely honoured that you have decreed my question without malice. Rather than take the bland and generic approach of some of the other replies I'm looking to explore the messages sent rather than the usual profile review. Especially as the OP raises the issue of 'nasty replies'. " Don't be honoured. Just accept that my message was for him and nothing to do with you. It's not my place to look out for him. I know that. I just did it because it is in my nature. | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. " I really wish I had expressed it like you have here. Would have saved me grief! | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. " A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs! | |||
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"Hi everyone. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on making my profile better. I joined a few months ago and have met some really lovely people and had really nice verification. Lately though I am not getting and replies from people I message even though I always message someone in a nice way.. Any advice would be much appreciated." To be fair... I don't think your profile is that bad. You come across as a pleasant person. Your photos are honest and clear. No bad grammar or spelling mistakes. Well done Maybe consider switching things up a little if you find you're not getting anywhere. Don't get disheartened though, we outnumber the Women 20 fold on here. Just think about the kind of people you want to meet, put yourself in their position and write accordingly. Mine changes constantly dependant on my mood, not one I'd advise copying in its current state If you have a sense of humour, try and get it across, I've find that works better than anything else. | |||
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"Hi everyone. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on making my profile better. I joined a few months ago and have met some really lovely people and had really nice verification. Lately though I am not getting and replies from people I message even though I always message someone in a nice way.. Any advice would be much appreciated. To be fair... I don't think your profile is that bad. You come across as a pleasant person. Your photos are honest and clear. No bad grammar or spelling mistakes. Well done Maybe consider switching things up a little if you find you're not getting anywhere. Don't get disheartened though, we outnumber the Women 20 fold on here. Just think about the kind of people you want to meet, put yourself in their position and write accordingly. Mine changes constantly dependant on my mood, not one I'd advise copying in its current state If you have a sense of humour, try and get it across, I've find that works better than anything else." | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs!" What do you mean? | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs! What do you mean?" Common thread theme is variants of 'no reply to PM's. You know all the replies blah blah blah... Amongst the post's there will usually be an example of someone who has been abused in someway when they have replied in the negative to a PM and they quote the abuse ie. I never fancied you anyway you fat slag etc. | |||
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"Jesus H Christ! Some people could start an argument in an empty room! " oh yes! | |||
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"Hi everyone. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on making my profile better. I joined a few months ago and have met some really lovely people and had really nice verification. Lately though I am not getting and replies from people I message even though I always message someone in a nice way.. Any advice would be much appreciated. To be fair... I don't think your profile is that bad. You come across as a pleasant person. Your photos are honest and clear. No bad grammar or spelling mistakes. Well done Maybe consider switching things up a little if you find you're not getting anywhere. Don't get disheartened though, we outnumber the Women 20 fold on here. Just think about the kind of people you want to meet, put yourself in their position and write accordingly. Mine changes constantly dependant on my mood, not one I'd advise copying in its current state If you have a sense of humour, try and get it across, I've find that works better than anything else. " Thanks guys | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs! What do you mean? Common thread theme is variants of 'no reply to PM's. You know all the replies blah blah blah... Amongst the post's there will usually be an example of someone who has been abused in someway when they have replied in the negative to a PM and they quote the abuse ie. I never fancied you anyway you fat slag etc." Ah right yeah. I suppose it depends if the mods see it or not. | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs! What do you mean? Common thread theme is variants of 'no reply to PM's. You know all the replies blah blah blah... Amongst the post's there will usually be an example of someone who has been abused in someway when they have replied in the negative to a PM and they quote the abuse ie. I never fancied you anyway you fat slag etc. Ah right yeah. I suppose it depends if the mods see it or not." ? What kind of dystopian hell do you live in? | |||
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"Yeah, but I’ve had a ban for falling into the same trap. I would advise the same as Pie. Leaving it at ‘nasty messages’ is the best you can do in a public forum without it risking crossing the line. You don’t tend to get a warning or an explanation when you get banned. And it sucks. A good percentage of forum contributions daily are not complementary examples of PM's ffs! What do you mean? Common thread theme is variants of 'no reply to PM's. You know all the replies blah blah blah... Amongst the post's there will usually be an example of someone who has been abused in someway when they have replied in the negative to a PM and they quote the abuse ie. I never fancied you anyway you fat slag etc. Ah right yeah. I suppose it depends if the mods see it or not. ? What kind of dystopian hell do you live in?" Bored of this. You win. Congrats. | |||
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