FabSwingers.com forum: Malicious Rumours?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So.... This is a hypothetical question, what would you do if you found out that your reputation had been tarnished by sneaky PM's and Chat Room Gossip?

1.Is it a case of ignore it? (We are a small community after all)

2. Close account, wait a while and then "reinvent" yourself.

3. Make a statement on your profile or status, without naming, that certain gossips, should get a life?

All hypothetical of course....

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wouldn't give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could answer - but gut instinct is to "hypotetically" ignore it.

This has happened to "a friend

" just this week. "My friend" has absolutely no idea why.

Its sometimes not that easy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out who it was, hunt them down and get my revenge muahahaha.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a statemewnt on my profile and on the forums and go into chat and inform everyone that the _umours circulating about me were completely and utterly true

That I really am as bad as they all thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well when folk are banging on about us, it gives all you guys a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well when folk are banging on about us, it gives all you guys a rest

Hope that doesn't happen to us must prefer if they were banging on us......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well when folk are banging on about us, it gives all you guys a rest

Hope that doesn't happen to us must prefer if they were banging on us......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you worry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you worry!"

There are not a great number of swingers in the SW..... lies and gossip spread quite easily through its chatroom etc....

Its ok, I know what to do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved being gossip'd about, makes me feel special lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ignore...this has happened to me, i made the mistake of letting it get to me...i wouldn't now.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Oh come on! I may be a bit hard at times, but I'm not Malicious!

As has been said above. Ignore and go on lifes happy way..

Skips off into the distance...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Why would you worry!

There are not a great number of swingers in the SW..... lies and gossip spread quite easily through its chatroom etc....

Its ok, I know what to do..."

Thought you said it was hypothetical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if they are picking on me at least they are leaving someone else alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you worry!

There are not a great number of swingers in the SW..... lies and gossip spread quite easily through its chatroom etc....

Its ok, I know what to do...

Thought you said it was hypothetical?

Well yes, the tongue in cheek hypothetical.......

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Why would you worry!

There are not a great number of swingers in the SW..... lies and gossip spread quite easily through its chatroom etc....

Its ok, I know what to do...

Thought you said it was hypothetical?

Well yes, the tongue in cheek hypothetical......."

Pretty sure that's a double negative making a positive.

Which means the _umour is true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you worry!

There are not a great number of swingers in the SW..... lies and gossip spread quite easily through its chatroom etc....

Its ok, I know what to do...

Thought you said it was hypothetical?

Well yes, the tongue in cheek hypothetical.......

Pretty sure that's a double negative making a positive.

Which means the _umour is true."

It is, to be fair, its not my fault I was born with a 14" penis but every time I take a picture it looks 8"... I thought the camera was supposed to add 20lbs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind anyone gossiping about Jecherchetrois. She doesn't exist.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As the samying goes, notoriety isn't as good as fame, but it sure beats anonymity!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"As the samying goes, notoriety isn't as good as fame, but it sure beats anonymity!"

D'oh *saying. Not used to this keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As the samying goes, notoriety isn't as good as fame, but it sure beats anonymity!"

i swear I haven't touched those three women... on my life

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I wouldn't give a fuck."

I like this answer, so will use it as mine too.

There are two words to describe why.... strangers and insignificent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't give a fuck."

Succinctly put...and my response too!

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

ignore it....i was getting grief from a person and someone said close ur profile and start a new one and i thought why should i..

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Oh no! Another mirage!

Always nice to have a coffee or a vino plus a little gossip!!

Hypothetically - of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that ignorance is bliss- they were probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find out who it was, hunt them down and get my revenge muahahaha.....

No I'd ask those that told me to report it to the admins but certainly I wouldn't close my account (looks like the _umours are true if do that!) and I wouldn't give them satisfaction of knowing they'd got to me by putting something on the profile."
your right in what you say , if it was a person not on this site i would have it out face to face if i found out thay was telling storys that was not ture ,

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"what would you do if you found out that your reputation had been tarnished by ..."

I dont think I have one to tarnish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us... Ppl assuming things and not looking at the full story... Way I see it they have very little guts that they couldn't approach us and speak to us...

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

People will always tell other people things about folk that isn't true. It's done on here, it's done in everyday life away from the web, it's just the way some people are and always will be.

Agree with jands, in that, folk should be more upfront and speak to the person concerned and find out the truth before spreading the _umours around.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I`ve had _umours spread around that myself and another person were "an item" when I had only given them a lift and a room share on a couple of occasions! Thankfully, not malicious, but it just goes to show what can happen!

It is surprising how quickly people pick up on what you post to whom and if you "target" anyone, friendly or otherwise! Two and two get put together but often they come with five

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would carry on regardless, I'd feel more sorry for those led astray on such idle gossip to be perfectly honest.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently added to my profile that I am not meeting... basically I've found some one very special, and we're going to be exclusive for the forseeable future.

A lady mailed me asking if the not meet part was going to change. On saying thanks, but no thanks, she proceeds to msg the lady I'm with and started saying we'd arranged a meet, and how Id been reluctant, but like all men...

Funny thing is I'm meant to be meeting this new woman when I'll be with my regular special lady...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't give a fuck.

I like this answer, so will use it as mine too.

There are two words to describe why.... strangers and insignificent."

Aye thats the best way ta deal wi em i find xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be stunned that I had a reputation to tarnish.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We also wouldn't give a flying f**k - feel sorry for the saddos without a life who resort to that type of thing! Z

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I recently added to my profile that I am not meeting... basically I've found some one very special, and we're going to be exclusive for the forseeable future.

Funny thing is I'm meant to be meeting this new woman when I'll be with my regular special lady...

Am confused, did the woman message your wife?, or is the 'special' woman you talk about someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't give a fuck."

I have nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I will say is that I never believed it but they do say it is what leads to having six toes so might explain.a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am confused, did the woman message your wife?, or is the 'special' woman you talk about someone else?

Sorry someone from the site... No wife any more...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Am confused, did the woman message your wife?, or is the 'special' woman you talk about someone else?

Sorry someone from the site... No wife any more..."

Well just yesterday you did indeed have a wife according your profile, you said she had gone off sex so you were seeking fun outside of your marriage....but today no more wife?

Quickie divorce?....or a time machine?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would ignore it, the people that are friends of yours will know what your like. Do you care what a bunch of people on a computer have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently going through the process

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Damn!

Was hoping for 'time machine'.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Am confused, did the woman message your wife?, or is the 'special' woman you talk about someone else?

Sorry someone from the site... No wife any more...

Well just yesterday you did indeed have a wife according your profile, you said she had gone off sex so you were seeking fun outside of your marriage....but today no more wife?

Quickie divorce?....or a time machine?

Or a nice little plot under the patio

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

best rising above shite like that....

and wish the people concerned well in life, hope they secure help with their self-esteem issues.... and they find something constructive in life to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn!

Was hoping for 'time machine'."

let me finish...

going through the process of developing a time machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"best rising above shite like that....

and wish the people concerned well in life, hope they secure help with their self-esteem issues.... and they find something constructive in life to do.

must admit I've heard some that like to rope others in on these sort of games, and I can never understand why the ringleaders do it, or what they get out of it, other than controlling the behaviour of people - all in all, pretty saddening really, but hey their kink isn't my kink...

lol

Sometimes the _umours are better than the facts... reckon there's a few really missed their opening as storywriters... lol

Wolf (y'know... the one with a third nipple and the wooden leg

) pmsl

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