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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl"

It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl

It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "

Yep hilarious isn't it

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By *pack JarrowMan
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Some people are so enveloped in themselves and their own wants and needs. They don't have the capability of thinking before they type and their default setting is a playground type insult sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed from "one hot sexy babe" to "a tranny with issues" in the space of three messages recently, after turning a guy down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably a bloke

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.

I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shame if people insult here, says more about them I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl"

Good job you didn't want to meet them then XXX

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl

It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "

hero to zero, happens all the time, somebody told me he'd contacted me for a bet!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not so much selfish but self absorbed and down right rude. Rejection is part and parcel of fab, we've had our fair share, disappointed yes, undignified in our response, never. Block or make a note to not accidentally contact them again and move on.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl"

It’s plain rude and people like her use this site as a platform for abuse. So wrong and hope you reported her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl

It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "
i usually get old added to the mix too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl"

Dodged a bullet there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple said that to us it would be an instant block. There are alot of couples on here who say they are looking to meet couples but in reality are looking for a FMF and because they cant find a unicorn they will make do with a couple for their fantasy.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Report the woman for the abusive messages at least,silly person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.

I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.

I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty."

I’ve had that too and I feel the same. It’s just made me very wary of people on Fab.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"People like this make me doubly wary of meeting anyone from Fab as well.

I mean I like to think I'm not a bad judge of character on the whole, but I've been surprised a few times here by how quickly someone can go from seemingly nice to thoroughly nasty."

As soon as you go against their fun plans the 'real' them is revealed. Alot of strange fucked up people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People

Sounds like you swerved an a-hole though. Delete, block, carry on having fun on here. THAT will REALLY p**s them off! Dreamcatcher Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed from "one hot sexy babe" to "a tranny with issues" in the space of three messages recently, after turning a guy down "

That’s the first thing I hear after I decline; that I’m a 'tranny'. Doesn’t bother me. The trans ladies are bloody epic, on Fab.

Odd that I'm a 'stunning lady' until I say 'no'....

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl"

Weird. Double standards and it's not on giving you a load of abuse.

I've had it several times off the fem of the cpl when I've said "Sorry but Mr isn't for me".

So if you're polite you get a load of abused you ignore them ..you get a load of abuse. Can't win sometimes lol

Thingy

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We messaged a single woman's profile who replied saying that she wasn't attracted to hubby but would I consider meeting her and her partner on my own??

Now I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone so that's fine.

I messaged back and said that I might meet them but could I see a pic of her partner first.

She eventually sent one but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to him so that was the end of that.

She then messaged calling me fat amongst other insults!!

It's funny that she wouldn't meet hubby and I because she wasnt attracted to him but got upset when it was the other way round.

How funny is that pmsl

It's amazing how fat or ugly you suddenly become when you say no thanks to somebody. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.

I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.

"

We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ...

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.

I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.

We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ..."

I did report and block the ones who did it to me as there's just no need to be abusive.

Thingy x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Very childish, OP. Some sad people out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I found it more funny than offensive to honest.

Oh well, couple more profiles added to the ever growing block list.

Maybe we will actually meet someone off here at some point.

We live in hope lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

That is why we use the block button if we reject or get rejected it avoids any further contact.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

It’s been said earlier but you were probably chatting to a single bloke. You touched a nerve and he didn’t like it. Block and move on.

Ed

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"She was verified several times as was their couples profile so seemed genuine.

I assume some people just have double standards where these things are concerned.

We need to start reporting people for abuse ... They're better off here quite frankly. If they turn like that in a message what might they do face-to-face? We need to keep the site safe for everyone so need to look after each other ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is that there are a hell of a lot of selfish people in the swinging world who are only out to fulfil there fantasies, play how they want to play and this is backed up by enablers in forum threads etc

Simply put swinging is about compromise, everyone involved and everyone having fun, some people would be a lot more successful if they realised this fact.

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