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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Ok, firstly I know I should go with the flow... but here goes anyway.

I sent a message, it got read. Yay. Then it changed back to unread... what can I glean from this?!? (If anything).

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

What it says. Someone read it then marked it as unread.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I do this if I don’t have time to respond or want to think more carefully about a response. It signals interest from me but don’t take that as gospel for every unread message!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok, firstly I know I should go with the flow... but here goes anyway.

I sent a message, it got read. Yay. Then it changed back to unread... what can I glean from this?!? (If anything). "

The only possible inference is that someone read it then marked it unread. If you start wondering what it means you'll drive yourself crazy.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

That the person you messaged has a system that works for them

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Thanks all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a message, it got read. Yay. Then it changed back to unread... what can I glean from this?!? (If anything). "

Cant speak for anyone else,but i sometimes have a read,then if i want to reply,when i have more time will mark as unread,to remind me it is for replying too

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I so that at times but only when the person is offline

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Encouraging!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ok, firstly I know I should go with the flow... but here goes anyway.

I sent a message, it got read. Yay. Then it changed back to unread... what can I glean from this?!? (If anything). "

Reaching for......my crystal ball which has all the answers...!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do this. It means I will reply later when I have more time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also mark as unread usually to reply later, as leaving it read and unreplied seems rude.

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"I also mark as unread usually to reply later, as leaving it read and unreplied seems rude. "

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff


"I also mark as unread usually to reply later, as leaving it read and unreplied seems rude. "

I do that too.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're the same in that one of us will read it and then mark it as unread until the other can take a look. Then we mark it back as unread until we have the time to reply properly.

Messages that we're not going to reply to will be left as 'read' or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mark as unread so guys don’t get all over excited that I’ve actually read their message and bombard me with more asking why I’ve not relied.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Didn't even know you could do that lol

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By *fkcpl4groupCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Same here one of us will but wait until we have both read till we reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't speak for anyone else,but i sometimes have a read,then if I want to reply, when I have more time will mark as unread,to remind me it is for replying too"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can do this? God I hate being so stoopid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, firstly I know I should go with the flow... but here goes anyway.

I sent a message, it got read. Yay. Then it changed back to unread... what can I glean from this?!? (If anything). "

We usually do thus if we want to reply, but don't have time at that particular moment, so basically use it as a reminder system.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not got time to answer right away or wait until partner has chance to read before replying rather than opening and forgetting to reply and being thought rude

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