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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club"

A lot of women prefer that for safety reasons !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I appreciate that I don't always find the time to attend the clubs plus I'm new to it and wouldn't know where to start

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

It really is the best place to start !

Clubs are really not as intimidating as people think !

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club"

Why did you think it would be straightforward?

When you go out on a Saturday do you think it's straightforward to pull a woman for casual sex?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't always find the time to attend the clubs "

If you don't have the time to attend clubs, how do you find the time to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club"

I cant see why you would find it hard? Cock as a profile pic and 2 lines of text women should be flocking to meet maybe try messaging them "fancy a fuck" or "want to meet now" that might work

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

As you've not asked for advice on your profile, I can't give any - but it might be worth doing a forum search on 'profile advice' and see if any of the threads that come up help at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i just point out, that on here, women will always look at a profile before deciding whether to even look at a message..you may find it easier to talk face to face in a club...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Which other options have you experimented with in fab, during your few weeks here?

Can't comment without knowing what you have done so far, other than show how your cock is.

Do you meet single women for sex easily in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club"

I think you need to research the definition of swinging and disassociate your perceptions that because women are on a swinging site, they're just going to drop their knickers.

Going to a club shows that a) you're willing to dip your hand in your pocket, b) you're willing and wanting to socialise and c) that you're putting a bit of effort in.

I never watched any episode of Blind Date where Cilla Black said.. ' he fancies you chuck, drop your drawers while Graham gives us a quick recap'.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club

I think you need to research the definition of swinging and disassociate your perceptions that because women are on a swinging site, they're just going to drop their knickers.

Going to a club shows that a) you're willing to dip your hand in your pocket, b) you're willing and wanting to socialise and c) that you're putting a bit of effort in.

I never watched any episode of Blind Date where Cilla Black said.. ' he fancies you chuck, drop your drawers while Graham gives us a quick recap'. "

I bet it's in the out takes somewhere

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club

I think you need to research the definition of swinging and disassociate your perceptions that because women are on a swinging site, they're just going to drop their knickers.

Going to a club shows that a) you're willing to dip your hand in your pocket, b) you're willing and wanting to socialise and c) that you're putting a bit of effort in.

I never watched any episode of Blind Date where Cilla Black said.. ' he fancies you chuck, drop your drawers while Graham gives us a quick recap'.

I bet it's in the out takes somewhere "

If only Denis Norden found them on the cutting room floor.

Maybe we should ask Gryff Rhys Jones.. Ready for the next series of outtakes on It'll Be Alright On the Night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is Monday...

Welcome to pre unlos day

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach? "

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head "

You're welcome but it could have been worse it could have been visions of the OP's cock bursting out of John Hurt's stomach singing it!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head

You're welcome but it could have been worse it could have been visions of the OP's cock bursting out of John Hurt's stomach singing it!!"

... wearing a tiny purple top hat!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head

You're welcome but it could have been worse it could have been visions of the OP's cock bursting out of John Hurt's stomach singing it!!

... wearing a tiny purple top hat! "

If it was worn askew that really would have been Willy Wonka!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach? "

LMFAO

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head

You're welcome but it could have been worse it could have been visions of the OP's cock bursting out of John Hurt's stomach singing it!!

... wearing a tiny purple top hat!

If it was worn askew that really would have been Willy Wonka!! "

Or Willy Wanka?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Another expecting instashag

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Negative status about the very people you’re trying to attract, talk about making it hard for yourself!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

He just shot himself in the foot lol . You have to have patience there are a lot more guys on here than women and they can be very choosey

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Don't forget to send him a kik message ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I some times think about going to a Club but have the vision of me sat on my own all night will everyone else is in groups or Couples.I would prefer to meet in Pub or nice Cafe for a chat and see how we get on.And i know that a some point I will meet the right Lady or Couple its just a matter of time.And to the original poster please try and get another profile picture as you would not meet a lady with your penis on display so why expect people on here would like it then again it makes my picture look very arty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Mate,

Darwinian sexual selection is in play all the time and on a site like this, with single male/female ratios being what they are, any woman can have any man she wants.

As my Mum used to say, "Women do the pickin"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I appreciate that I don't always find the time to attend the clubs plus I'm new to it and wouldn't know where to start"

At the bar is the best place to start matey, Mr Jack Daniel and Mr Gordon will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and social events are deffo the best way to get a verification and get talking to people... We went on a newbies night once and four of the new guys that night had a lucky start and gangbanged a women in a swing

Totally depends what your after but being totally honest fabs best used alongside the lifestyle in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I some times think about going to a Club but have the vision of me sat on my own all night will everyone else is in groups or Couples.I would prefer to meet in Pub or nice Cafe for a chat and see how we get on.And i know that a some point I will meet the right Lady or Couple its just a matter of time.And to the original poster please try and get another profile picture as you would not meet a lady with your penis on display so why expect people on here would like it then again it makes my picture look very arty."

We don't meet single guys but when we're in clubs we're happy to sit chat and have a laugh with anyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought arranging to meet women on here would be straight forward. Seems the only way is to go to a club"

OP unless you are interested in swinging I would not recommend you go to a club. Clubs also tend to be quite top heavy with MF couples which is not what you are looking for. If there are single women there, they might be looking for more than just one-to-one sex. On Fab the largest demographic are single men. A few come here for the swinging lifestyle, but most come here because someone told them it’s easier to get sex on a swingers site than from dating sites or from going out on the pull. As a result men come here in their droves under this illusion, whereas in reality there are too many men to go round. Then there is a medium size demographic of couples, who will by and large be swingers. There are a few single women. Some will be looking for one-to-one sex with single guys and some will be swingers. Either way these single women make up the smallest portion of Fab and are the most sought after. Therefore the majority of single guys a swingers site is not the easiet place to find women to have sex with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the whole thread. I’m fascinated by what this cock looked like! If it really is like an alien coming out of a tummy maybe it’s best I don’t have that image on my brain

Mrs

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Straightforward OP? You've got to 36 and still think that? Really?

In all seriousness because I am genuinely interested, did you really think when you pressed 'Submit' on the create profile page, that it would be a golden ticket to anything you desire and all you had to do was send a message to make those desires happen? And all that was needed was one line of text and a pic of your cock that looks a little like the Alien escaping from John Hurt's stomach?

Thanks Gemini ... Now I'm in bed with the 'golden ticket' song from Willy Wonka stuck in my head

You're welcome but it could have been worse it could have been visions of the OP's cock bursting out of John Hurt's stomach singing it!!

... wearing a tiny purple top hat!

If it was worn askew that really would have been Willy Wonka!! "

Oh lord... I just lost my coffee, laughing so much!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's nice of you

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

You need to up your game my friend it's as simple as that

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"That's nice of you"

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP!

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Unlos...

Oh well

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"That's nice of you

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP! "

He’s gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most predictable UNLOS of the week.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That's nice of you

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP!

He’s gone."

Maybe he found the Glass Elevator!!

Or Ripley uttered the immortal line "Get away from her you bitch" and blew him away!!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Gosh, they are dropping like flies today!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"That's nice of you

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP!

He’s gone.

Maybe he found the Glass Elevator!!

Or Ripley uttered the immortal line "Get away from her you bitch" and blew him away!!"

Bitch is offended lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That's nice of you

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP!

He’s gone.

Maybe he found the Glass Elevator!!

Or Ripley uttered the immortal line "Get away from her you bitch" and blew him away!!

Bitch is offended lol"

Just refreshing all the twat references you've had to put up with

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"That's nice of you

Try reading this thread - it might help!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/720982

Good luck OP!

He’s gone.

Maybe he found the Glass Elevator!!

Or Ripley uttered the immortal line "Get away from her you bitch" and blew him away!!

Bitch is offended lol

Just refreshing all the twat references you've had to put up with"

Yes indeed, we have to put up with sooooo much abuse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't bother adding any more comments or advice as OP has left the site ... perhaps unsurprisingly ...

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

So long!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

Farewell

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By *aybird69Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

he didn't last long

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"he didn't last long "

A two-minute wonder?

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