FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swing or not to soft swing

By *wistedLovers OP Man
over a year ago

Colwyn Bay

I read people's profiles and some leave me confused, in the interests section, some have contained they are looking for 'soft swing' and 'safe sex', however the true definition of soft swing is 'not penetrative sex' the other is self explanatory. I would therefore determine their interpretation of soft swing - safe sex is that of the more gentle, passionate type of intercourse (safe sex). Can anyone clarify this point? P.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe they mean safe sex in using condoms or dental dams for oral sex.

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By *ulia2013Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

I think its more likely to be a mistake in ticking all the entries on the list. Sorry for a boring thought!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Maybe they mean that at the moment they plan to just stick with soft swing, however, if things do progress, it will be safe sex. Keeping their options open

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I always read it that anything you list is something you're happy to consider.

We list soft swing because we're OK with that, even though we also like full swap too. There isn't a 'full swap' option but there is same/separate room swapping - you can infer what you wish from that

Safe sex typically means expecting to or willing to use condoms.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Safe sex because when we do full swap it's with condoms.

Soft swing because the other couple may be soft swing only and we're cool with only going as far as they're happy with. Also we might only be comfortable soft swapping depending on the occasion.

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By *outhend secretWoman
over a year ago

southend

maybee its will soft swinging or full swinging best of both worlds

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

There should be a Full Swap option

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Safe sex because when we do full swap it's with condoms.

Soft swing because the other couple may be soft swing only and we're cool with only going as far as they're happy with. Also we might only be comfortable soft swapping depending on the occasion. "
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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We are soft swing and safe sex to us is not doing it up a ladder or on the edge of a cliff...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I read people's profiles and some leave me confused, in the interests section, some have contained they are looking for 'soft swing' and 'safe sex', however the true definition of soft swing is 'not penetrative sex' the other is self explanatory. I would therefore determine their interpretation of soft swing - safe sex is that of the more gentle, passionate type of intercourse (safe sex). Can anyone clarify this point? P."

People aren't guaranteed to do everything on the list in one meet.

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