FabSwingers.com forum: Have some profile advice...

By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'

So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:

SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.

Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.

Capiche?

USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.

PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.

Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.

Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.

Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.

PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...

The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.

GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.

...and breathe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You forgot:

Don't harrass and abuse anyone who deletes your messages - read or unread - it can mean they're not interested in you - or just they haven't had time to trawl through a full inbox yet.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Better? Lol

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'

So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:

SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.

Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.

Capiche?

USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.

PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.

Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.

Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.

Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.

PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...

The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.

GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.

...and breathe..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys believe it's dial a shag, as in, I've signed up to the site and all the ladies are just waiting for the guy to get in touch and bingo.

Some guys don't realise the number of messages ladies get.

We've experienced it ourselves where for a month or two, we just don't feel like meeting, maybe some guys believe others should be up for it 24/7.

Profile wording can often be poor or crude, eg. I'm bored, cunt etc.. A torso and one cock shot is good, many or solely cock shots is a no.

Supply and demand, ladies can pick n choose, so if they're just not attracted to you, move on. They can't just keep replying with a No Thanks, to then get abuse.

Appeal to a wider audience. A combination of a beard, pot belly, untidy long hair, prince albert etc.. will restrict your target audience. So tidy and tone up. Having said that, we're currently on diets ourselves, bit food naughty over xmas

And our last bit of advice is, look at successful profiles with many meets and structure your profile in a similar way.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Can we have this as a pinned post please? Pretty please?!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I bet the successful single guys on here all have one thing in common i.e.

They all took time to read the forum and took note of the answers people were given and then didn't post a whiny "Why ............." thread.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes Lisa.....my heroine

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well said , a note book needed!!!! I only would add but for me a single guy picture , exposing someone on their avatar picture is an instant delete or close up ones with spunk! Vile !

Great work ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

And selecting 'cannot travel' and 'cannot accommodate' doesn't leave much room to work with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we should all bookmark this thread and when another newbie asks why no meets and profile advice direct them here!

Geeky x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

And selecting 'cannot travel' and 'cannot accommodate' doesn't leave much room to work with?"

But that is a perfectly acceptable choice that most people understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's mine?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!"

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!"

Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose!

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!

Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose! "

They never listen, anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!

Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose!

They never listen, anyway...

True, they just can’t help themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think we should all bookmark this thread and when another newbie asks why no meets and profile advice direct them here!

Geeky x"
yes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'

So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:

SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.

Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.

Capiche?

USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.

Praise be!!! Someone talking sense!! All of the above is a non starter for me!! Xx

PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.

Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.

Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.

Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.

PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...

The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.

GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.

...and breathe..."

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.

Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.

...and breathe...

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.

Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.

...and breathe...

I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Love this!

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.

Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.

...and breathe...

I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!! "

Thank you. Let's hope they read and learn...

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Love this! "

It's a public service...

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It won't make any difference. But well done anyway.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"It won't make any difference. But well done anyway."

Thank you x

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Guys...there seems to be a lot of threads all asking for advice.

Please, please, please read the advice, critique your own profile and change as needed.

...and breathe...

I’ve pasted the link for this thread into a couple of them today!!

Thank you. Let's hope they read and learn...

Fingers crossed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this!

It's a public service...

Gonna change your username to St Lisa of Fabville?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Love this!

It's a public service...

Gonna change your username to St Lisa of Fabville?"

I think I should..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You appear to be oblivious to the fact that it's not advice they want, they post the threads with the intention of having women view their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!

Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose! "

Why do people want to help the inept people get meets? I want to meet the person behind the profile, not the person that just copied it all off some advice thread!

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"You appear to be oblivious to the fact that it's not advice they want, they post the threads with the intention of having women view their profile."

It still doesn't get them a meet..

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can we add no profile pictures of your cock?

I did...

I thought you referring to their gallery, not profile pic.

Sorry!

I was thinking about their profile as a whole!

Don’t give away all the secrets of a good profile as it’s one of the ways to them out. If they all do a good profile how will we know who to choose!

Why do people want to help the inept people get meets? I want to meet the person behind the profile, not the person that just copied it all off some advice thread!"

Because we all need guidance sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need to take out my Sydney uni reference then?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Do I need to take out my Sydney uni reference then?

I do pity Sydney university...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone on here yet, need some advice! Only get men messaging me never women ?

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

"Never met anyone on here yet, need some advice! Only get men messaging me never women ? "

Did you read the thread or just post your words on the end of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never met anyone on here yet, need some advice! Only get men messaging me never women ?

Did you read the thread or just post your words on the end of it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High all. Ive only just found this post and agree with lisa. People tend to think this site is a shag pit. Esp men. Ops its not. Put some effort in and be content with one meet every three months for gods sake. You will enjoy it more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You forgot:

Don't harrass and abuse anyone who deletes your messages - read or unread - it can mean they're not interested in you - or just they haven't had time to trawl through a full inbox yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read this after signing in briefly.

It'll never change. People who don't make the effort don't want the advice.

I think we should have some kind of computer game where you get to change levels when you've upped your game. Veris are either here nor there, some people care for them some don't.

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a huge amount of threads all asking the same sort of thing..'why aren't I getting any replies or meets?'

So, to save time, repetative threads and my sanity, here goes:

SWINGING is a lifestyle choice. A hobby, maybe. But not instashag.

Sex is not guarenteed, even if you are a gold site supporter. Or staying in a local hotel for work/ parked up nearby in your truck.

Capiche?

USERNAME...nobody likes 'Cock4U' type of names. They are adolescent.

PHOTOS...body pics good. Your cock, from 20 different angles..bad.

Bathrooms, bog rolls, messy backgrounds and moody faces staring at their phones all make awful pictures.

Get creative. Think about colour/ black & white, effects etc.

Do not be a knob and nick someone else's pics.

PROFILE BLURB...be funny. Be creative. But please do not be 'genuine' or any other terrible cliché...

The disclaimers (Sydney etc) are a crock of shite.

GET KNOWN...take part in the forums. Go to group socials. Go to clubs. Just sending out a cut & paste message to any female with a pulse on here will not work.

...and breathe..."

Awesome

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