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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a fairly new member to the forums it's been seriously interesting to watch the whinging and derogatory comments spring up here from some and I reiterate only some of the single guys.

We've had it all from sad, desperate, sluts and nymphos.

In my opinion 98% of the women on this site could pick up a guy for NSA sex in a bar any night of the week.

Generalising and don't profess to speak for every woman here, but what many of us are here for is quality over quantity. I think the majority of women here have their moral and personal compass set pretty well. Nothing sexier than a confident woman.

Men who truly like women are a huge turn on and deliciously scrummy.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm after that elusive 2%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances."

MMMMMMMMm first in line to lick it off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If there was pussy power on here I'd have a meet whenever I wanted it, but I don't. It is a case of matching people to each other. I want NSA one off meets, others want regular play partners for example. The fact that I have seen some terrific men who would be perfect for me on here but are over 100 miles away could be a factor too.

I reckon the forums are just a way of letting off steam, and unfortunately some people can only do it by being insulting. Maybe seeing that other people suffer too helps them with a sense of perspective.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances.

MMMMMMMMm first in line to lick it off "

Brings me out in a rash. I wonder if peanut butter could be substituted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances."

Dangle some Haribo and then you're talking!!!!

Yep, as a woman you still need to invest some time but you get out what you put in, no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the poster is right, but there is also the case that if the serious chaps wanted a quick shag there are a lot of other ways to get sex (so long as you have a few quid there are plenty of options around).

I like swinging cos I enjoy the thrill of the chase and the touch on new flesh. I love to meet new people and feel them cum around my fingers tounge and cock.

As a general rule I don't moan or whinge when a girl doesn't want to meet me cos it's their loss.........

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"As a general rule I don't moan or whinge when a girl doesn't want to meet me cos it's their loss........."

Nooo, I think it is yours. They havent lost anything by not meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest how very true if Sam wants a quick shag the world is her oyster. Fellas need to wake up and realise this as "FACT"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a general rule I don't moan or whinge when a girl doesn't want to meet me cos it's their loss.........

Nooo, I think it is yours. They havent lost anything by not meeting you."

oh God please be ready for the "their loss" brigade

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"As a general rule I don't moan or whinge when a girl doesn't want to meet me cos it's their loss.........

Nooo, I think it is yours. They havent lost anything by not meeting you.

oh God please be ready for the "their loss" brigade "

Actually I think I was a bit mean. It certainly isn't the woman's loss as she never arranged to meet him, but it obviously isn't his loss because he doesn't care that she didn't want to meet him.

I think I just confused myself!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"As a fairly new member to the forums it's been seriously interesting to watch the whinging and derogatory comments spring up here from some and I reiterate only some of the single guys.

We've had it all from sad, desperate, sluts and nymphos.

In my opinion 98% of the women on this site could pick up a guy for NSA sex in a bar any night of the week.

Generalising and don't profess to speak for every woman here, but what many of us are here for is quality over quantity. I think the majority of women here have their moral and personal compass set pretty well. Nothing sexier than a confident woman.

Men who truly like women are a huge turn on and deliciously scrummy. "

you make some great points and I agree.

I would add that you will also see some needy, self obsessed & highly manipulative females and the couples who et so indignant that anyone would ever turn them down...

it is a cross section of humanity

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

get*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree too and someone on here summed it up for me when they said that some people join sites like Fab expecting it to be knee deep in willing, available , bi sexual nymphomaniacs and are disappointed when they find that - shock horror - it's not. Big difference between shag hunters and genuine swingers. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances."

Yeast infection is all I can think of after reading this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Mmmm but extra nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bloke, I realise that the women oh here can have there pick, which is why I dont get pushy or abusive if I get turned down.

I have met and made some good friends on here as well as some fantastic sex, so I feel honoured that they said yes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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As a general rule I don't moan or whinge when a girl doesn't want to meet me cos it's their loss........."

Sorry, but I never get the 'their loss' statement part male or female as we all have our own standards so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Nick Berry said "Every loser wins."

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By *oger meMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The op says 98% of women on here could pull in a bar any time. I have to question this percentage I would like to put it out there its probably nearer 50% !!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Erm dunno about dropping it as low as 50%...

A Girl can say 'come hither' and no man will usually refuse. Blokes have a slightly harder time making the 'come hither' spell work...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The op says 98% of women on here could pull in a bar any time. I have to question this percentage I would like to put it out there its probably nearer 50% !! "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm dunno about dropping it as low as 50%...

A Girl can say 'come hither' and no man will usually refuse. Blokes have a slightly harder time making the 'come hither' spell work...

Wolf"

I don't agree, nature's design for the success of the Human Race means that men are built to be less picky, but for a girl to think that "no man will refuse" is being naive. There are gay men, men in relationships, men who are not interested in the type of girl who picks up blokes in bars, etc. Even the hottest girl on the planet will find guys that don't fancy her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women are always going to find it easier to hook up than men are...you just need to look at virtually every forum to see women being casually dismissive of the men and the men trying incredibly hard to be noticed to see this is true...sexism in action baby!

Now let the argument about sexism commence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a fairly new member to the forums it's been seriously interesting to watch the whinging and derogatory comments spring up here from some and I reiterate only some of the single guys.

We've had it all from sad, desperate, sluts and nymphos.

In my opinion 98% of the women on this site could pick up a guy for NSA sex in a bar any night of the week.

Generalising and don't profess to speak for every woman here, but what many of us are here for is quality over quantity. I think the majority of women here have their moral and personal compass set pretty well. Nothing sexier than a confident woman.

Men who truly like women are a huge turn on and deliciously scrummy. "

This topic sounds familiar?!?!?!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


" The op says 98% of women on here could pull in a bar any time. I have to question this percentage I would like to put it out there its probably nearer 50% !!

Agreed."

You quite clearly have never been in the Bigg Market on a Saturday night,any woman who wants a fuck can get one...how she feels in the morning is a different matter.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

On the pulling percentage comments.

I think it is much the same for both sexes. Confidence is the major obstacle for most of us.

Men experience and wish to avoid rejection. Women fear rejection, though perhaps experience it less often.

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By *oger meMan
over a year ago

somewhere


" The op says 98% of women on here could pull in a bar any time. I have to question this percentage I would like to put it out there its probably nearer 50% !!

Agreed.

You quite clearly have never been in the Bigg Market on a Saturday night,any woman who wants a fuck can get one...how she feels in the morning is a different matter."

I have been there on a Thursday and that was bad enough lol. see your point though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am willing to smother my cock in Nutella if it improves my chances.

MMMMMMMMm first in line to lick it off

Brings me out in a rash. I wonder if peanut butter could be substituted. "

You can lick whatever you want off my cock

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