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Finding a F for elusive FFM: A solution...

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By *ally_weaver OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

Lots of couples are looking for a third fem to play with. The solution is obvious, one weekend one lady takes unicorn duty for a couple, the next you swap over. Super simple solution to a simple problem.

Ok folks, get it sorted and you can thank me later x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Hahaa u make it sound so easy

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By *ally_weaver OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"Hahaa u make it sound so easy"

It's a total foolproof plan, everyone's happy. Maybe some sort of automated introduction service...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens if one couple has there fun then refuses to return the favour? That's the main issue with that one. Already thought about this

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"What happens if one couple has there fun then refuses to return the favour? That's the main issue with that one. Already thought about this "

Just bloody try it and stop over thinking it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fun for me then! X

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Why not get yourself a loving long term partner first and lend her to the masses? Obviously you’ll need her permission first. Just saying.

Ed

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield

Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The essential attraction doesn't always work on an equal and compatible level between all though. It's not just about having the body for your turn this weekend, like parents who have custody rights.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize "
I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

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By *eejay111111Man
over a year ago

london

Do u like big d

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By *eejay111111Man
over a year ago

london


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x"
u like big things

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize "

That’s actually well said and putting a different perspective on it.

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By *ature studentsCouple
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth Dorset.


"What happens if one couple has there fun then refuses to return the favour? That's the main issue with that one. Already thought about this "

We've had something similar happen to us. We agreed to have solo fun with a couple. He had his fun with me but poor hubby just got ignored.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Do u like big d"
? Who

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"No fun for me then! X"

Hahaha I'm sure you won't struggle getting couples to say hello

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x"

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x"

Well put.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x"

That's very sad Its bad that some couples treat ladies like a trophy,. no one should feel used, you should be an equal part of any fun, coming out of an FFM everyone should be feeling great and fulfilled, you should never feel used.

Bun

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

....and for the men who arent willing to share their partner but just want another woman to fuck. How will that work out when they 'suddenly aren't available'?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x"

I'm with you on this one.

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By *ally_weaver OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"....and for the men who arent willing to share their partner but just want another woman to fuck. How will that work out when they 'suddenly aren't available'?"

No one is that hypocritical surely?

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

We have more success gently and mutually seducing single non-Fabbing women friends and they always turn out to be so much more exciting in bed, with us having wanted and fantasized about them them for so long. A much higher chance of remaining friends and playing again too. To be recommended.

Softly, softly, catchee monkey!

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Terminology plays a big part in this IMO. I hate reading words like ‘elusive’ and ‘unicorn’.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"No fun for me then! X"
Are you not already inundated with offers from couples?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Lots of couples are looking for a third fem to play with. The solution is obvious, one weekend one lady takes unicorn duty for a couple, the next you swap over. Super simple solution to a simple problem.

Ok folks, get it sorted and you can thank me later x "

Judging by the above responses, I’m going to suggest a sexbot instead. You can all thank ME later

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lots of couples are looking for a third fem to play with. The solution is obvious, one weekend one lady takes unicorn duty for a couple, the next you swap over. Super simple solution to a simple problem.

Ok folks, get it sorted and you can thank me later x "

Genius idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x"

I feel the same. And like they don’t really fancy or want you, just any single female will do. That’s why I stopped meeting couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest solution.....

Two couples get together, start playing, one guy sits out for a while, then the other guy sits out for a while, voila a FFM play.......

So what’s the problem?

The problem is the couples who just want to play with a female with no male involvement! Why? Maybe the guy doesn’t want to see his partner with another guy, maybe the lady doesn’t want her guy to fuck another women, the list is endless and is a real minefield of jealousy, untrusting, hang ups etc, no wonder lots of single ladies don’t want to get involved.

To couples who are only looking to play with a single female, said it before and will say it again, most single girls will avoid you

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Maybe if people stopped treating us elusive single females as we seem to be now referred too on here now as a trophy... I'm a single female wanting fun and friendship not made to feel like your prize I'd have them showing tricks if it was me single. My confidence would be sky high. Ur in demand. Enjoy it x

It dosnt make me feel good it makes me feel used x

I feel the same. And like they don’t really fancy or want you, just any single female will do. That’s why I stopped meeting couples!"

Most will ignore your profile preferences too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find this post interesting and thought we would comment on our experience. We’ve been swinging 6 years nowbeen on and off this site and deleted account alone the way we’ve lost lots of verifications alone the way mainly from couples and guys. Yes we’ve had a ffm before but arranged on a different site. We’ve done most of the above suggestions over the years pictures of both of us been to clubs, explaining when we want out of a meeting on the profile(yes ff play and the him joining in for everyone to have some fun she would be there to enhance play not treated has a trophy but for her and us to get lots of fun on the night)

But before Christmas we sent 50 messages to single profile accounts 48 was a instant delete and 2 replied one saying “I only meet with the husband “ is it not better to have a couples account then?

And the other chatted a little then decided to delete the account.

So we can see the problems people face on this site.

Yes we’ve had and meet in clubs but on both occasions the female asked for just ff play in the hot tub no males touching her.

We will just keep sending messages and maybe something will happen in the future.

We are just putting our side across. Xx

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