FabSwingers.com forum: Does size matter

By *outh west fun OP Man
over a year ago

keynsham

Just asking for men do we all have to be fit looking larger men seem to get ignored even if you message a larger lady or do I need to hit the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it .. we all come in different shapes and sizes

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Even if you message a larger lady" ????

Does this mean us fat women aren't allowed to have preferences and should be grateful for any message we receive? Or are we only allowed to be attracted to fat people because we are fat ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love larger guys so I'm sure other women do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ur serious mate then no it doesnt matter and iv had thr bigger guy hang ups my whole life but since being on fab and starting to go clubs with the love of my life that i found on here iv found there is alot of women actually prefer a bigger chubby guy and trust me im no model in the looks department but iv had my fair share of interest on here now and my confidence had gone through the roof and im now doing things i thought i never would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If ur serious mate then no it doesnt matter and iv had thr bigger guy hang ups my whole life but since being on fab and starting to go clubs with the love of my life that i found on here iv found there is alot of women actually prefer a bigger chubby guy and trust me im no model in the looks department but iv had my fair share of interest on here now and my confidence had gone through the roof and im now doing things i thought i never would

Good on ya fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Even if you message a larger lady" ????

Does this mean us fat women aren't allowed to have preferences and should be grateful for any message we receive? Or are we only allowed to be attracted to fat people because we are fat ourselves?

apparently so!

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

""Even if you message a larger lady" ????

Does this mean us fat women aren't allowed to have preferences and should be grateful for any message we receive? Or are we only allowed to be attracted to fat people because we are fat ourselves?

apparently so! "

The bare cheek! As if we are the dregs at the bottom "EVEN if you message a larger lady?" .. Apparantly we are supposed to shag anyone cos we're fat.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite playmates was way larger than you OP...not sure about the "larger lady" comment doing you any favours tho eh? Should we just be greatful for any message as we can only expect other fat people to be attracted to us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking for men do we all have to be fit looking larger men seem to get ignored even if you message a larger lady or do I need to hit the gym."

Wow just wow

..... Where's the face palm emoji...

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By *outh west fun OP Man
over a year ago

keynsham

No I think I just have no luck

Please don’t take offence x

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hahaha.

I kind of feel sorry for this guy in advance, he possibly just thought he was increasing his chances of getting a reply by choosing to contact people he deemed to be of a similar attractiveness to himself.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

"No I think I just have no luck

Please don’t take offence x"

I wonder why... I'm swooned as a "larger lady"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur profile doesnt really say much about u bud just a couple of lines that hasnt used any imagination, so ur size isnt the problem mate u need to spark a womans interest with details as i find the more u stimulate a womans mind the more interested they will be no matter ur size and trust me im bigger than u, i might be wrong and sorry to any woman on here if im wrong with this

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By *outh west fun OP Man
over a year ago

keynsham

I did not mean to offend anyone I think my words should have been worded better

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

"Ur profile doesnt really say much about u bud just a couple of lines that hasnt used any imagination, so ur size isnt the problem mate u need to spark a womans interest with details as i find the more u stimulate a womans mind the more interested they will be no matter ur size and trust me im bigger than u, i might be wrong and sorry to any woman on here if im wrong with this "

You're correct! Can't stand cheesiness/cba with profiles etc. I like to have intelligent conversation!

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By *outh west fun OP Man
over a year ago

keynsham

Any tips on a make over on selling myself

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By *outh west fun OP Man
over a year ago

keynsham

Any tips on a make over on selling myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha.

I can't see what the OP looks like, so I couldn't possibly comment on that. Being larger does not make someone more or less attractive. There are slim people who are not attractive and larger women who are very attractive. It comes across like the larger lady on here is a little more desperate. Not a great impression to give, when you want to get laid ...

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"I did not mean to offend anyone I think my words should have been worded better "

Maybe it's your words that are stopping you getting meets rather than your build.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer guys to be gym fit or slim it's called preferences and I'm one of these larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're correct! Can't stand cheesiness/cba with profiles etc. I like to have intelligent conversation!

Hi thanks and love the pics ur stunning very sexy figure

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

You're correct! Can't stand cheesiness/cba with profiles etc. I like to have intelligent conversation!

Hi thanks and love the pics ur stunning very sexy figure

Thank you very much! This 'larger' lady appreciates the compliment!

not so bad yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on a make over on selling myself "

Ur more than welcome to check out my profile mate for any ideas u think apply to u and just dont try to hard either and think about what ur saying from the womans point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're correct! Can't stand cheesiness/cba with profiles etc. I like to have intelligent conversation!

Hi thanks and love the pics ur stunning very sexy figure

Thank you very much! This 'larger' lady appreciates the compliment!

not so bad yourself"

Being a big guy i love compliments too especially off very very attractive ladys luke urself

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hahaha.

That’s only one opinion though, in my limited experience people do find slimmer bodies more attractive than larger ones (male and female). The evidence is there written on people’s profiles! Obviously not everyone finds the same things attractive.

I can’t speak for the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Even if you message a larger lady" ????

Does this mean us fat women aren't allowed to have preferences and should be grateful for any message we receive? Or are we only allowed to be attracted to fat people because we are fat ourselves?

apparently so!

The bare cheek! As if we are the dregs at the bottom "EVEN if you message a larger lady?" .. Apparantly we are supposed to shag anyone cos we're fat.....

Be grateful ladies....we have been chosen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a larger lady, I rarely meet larger men. Playing weebles isn't my idea of fun.

Most positions are impossible. I'm really not flexible.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"As a larger lady, I rarely meet larger men. Playing weebles isn't my idea of fun.

Most positions are impossible. I'm really not flexible."

You look amazing hun. And I bet your more flexible than you think xxxx

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hahaha.

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what is so funny ? Why you feel sorry for the OP ? I think he has chances yes ! To meet slim ladies , fat ladies who he wishes ! I totally understand his comments ! But here on Fab people think every comment is an offence ! A load of bullshit !!!

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't think you are doing yourself any favours the way you have worded this thread. Even larger ladies comment is not good.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I prefer guys to be gym fit or slim it's called preferences and I'm one of these larger ladies

I am not fat and I don't like gym fit guys ! Some guys like slim , some like fat ! We are all different ! He just sentenced it wrong ! Is not a big deal !!!

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Just asking for men do we all have to be fit looking larger men seem to get ignored even if you message a larger lady or do I need to hit the gym."
people are so bloody quick to judge in this fab! He did not mean any offence but he did not phrased right ! Oh lord he won't have a meet ever because this thread !

In most profiles people request fit or slim people only ! I read it over and over again!

He did not say fat ladies fuck anything , he was making a point !

Not putting nobody down ! I am not fat and don't like fit gym guys ! People like to pick in little things ! What a big crime!

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hahaha.

what is so funny ? Why you feel sorry for the OP ? I think he has chances yes ! To meet slim ladies , fat ladies who he wishes ! I totally understand his comments ! But here on Fab people think every comment is an offence ! A load of bullshit !!! "

I meant that a felt sorry for him in advance because he was going to get a hard time from some of the women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking for men do we all have to be fit looking larger men seem to get ignored even if you message a larger lady or do I need to hit the gym."

No if you look normal (I.e. don’t have two heads) and can hold a conversation you’re halfway there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny how people get upset, the guy made an acceptable assumption, that people of similar attractiveness should stand a chance with each other.

One of the metrics used in today’s society for attractiveness is body shape. Agree with it or not being over weight is often considered less attractive.

That doesn’t mean that if your carrying a few lbs of extra timber Your automatically a munter. An it also doesn’t me that if your thin your going to be a looker( I’m a case in point)

So can everyone please stop being offended by everything

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