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First time at a swing club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After much deliberation me and a partner have chosen a swingers club to go to.

This would be our first time at such a venue and are looking for any tips or pointers that would help us out, much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might get the best tips and pointers if you say which club and whether you're going on a mixed or couples-only night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok so as I and many others have said previously,

check the clubs rules, (there is some varience) check if the night is a themed night,

Dont go with the assumption 'have paid, will/must play attitute', take your time, do only what you are comfortable with, be polite and yet firm.

Relax, chat, be friendly and enjoy yourselves.

No means no, from yourselves or anyone else, oh and my personal pet hate, dont puppy anyone (follow round desperatley) it's not a good look,

I will let the others or previous threads on this cover anything I have forgotten, I still love going to the clubs as are many others so it cant be bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don't eat the peanuts.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Don't run around with a wet towel whipping peoples arses

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Don't run around with a wet towel whipping peoples arses "

Unless it's BDSM night.

(cue posts from the BDSM brigade pointing out that it's NOT about that and people should understand the scene before blithely making sweeping statements etc etc etc)

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Don't eat the peanuts."

+1

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We recommend a couples night for your first time.

There are 70 to choose from in the UK, about 30 or so are worth going to, 20 are good and ten are excellent.

Obviously it depends what you think is going to turn you on, but if you go somewhere that's an old guy behind the desk and the club consists of two poorly lit rooms and a matress then trust us, you didnt choose well.

Drop us a line if you want any recommendations. You might find our book useful too, it covers almost every club in the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect too much and you won't be disappointed, thats been my experience

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Have you been to any socials as you can get good advice on the better clubs near to you, or look out for an organised social. I was very nervous before my first club trip, I wish now I had gone 2 years ago not this year. Just remember you have gone for your fun not anyone else's, above all enjoy yourselves.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Don't run around with a wet towel whipping peoples arses

Unless it's BDSM night.

(cue posts from the BDSM brigade pointing out that it's NOT about that and people should understand the scene before blithely making sweeping statements etc etc etc)"

on the contrary a wet towel can be fun... cold ones can be quite sadistic

Wolf

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

oh looking for a club that has good bdsm facilities as we are both getting into it slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wifey has had an invite to go with someone else to go to a swingers club. Me I'm a bt shy and would probably do a wallflower impression. Also I know wifey will have fun just wouldn't want it to be a wasted journey for me lol.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"oh looking for a club that has good bdsm facilities as we are both getting into it slowly"

The townhouse(wirral)has fet nights and is a lovely club.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Wifey has had an invite to go with someone else to go to a swingers club. Me I'm a bt shy and would probably do a wallflower impression. Also I know wifey will have fun just wouldn't want it to be a wasted journey for me lol."

If "wifey"is having fun why is it a wasted jorney for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well because I wouldn't want to interupt lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

You miss my point,as a couple kev is happy when i am happy and vice versa

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