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First time in a club advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has probably been covered before but im after advice for a frist time single male going to a club. Any do's and dont's?

Any help would be great. Thanks

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Don't expect sex

Do chat to others, including men - especially if they're in a couple and you want to bang the wife.

Be polite, courteous and manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you enjoy, just go along with no expectation of play, chat to people, always be respectful and never touch without consent.

If Tom and I are in a club, and I see a guy I like i'll indicate to Tom, he will initiate the conversation... Being able to communicate with both of us is crucial.

I'll join in the conversation when I know Tom is comfortable talking.

We've met some great people that way.

TWOC is seen as disrespectful to us both. Just because we like the environment we expect to have our space and bodies respected.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Do: be socialable, talk, be friendly, ask before touching

Don’t: expect anything, wander aimlessly wanking,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check licensing situation (some clubs are byo for booze) and opening hours. They vary quite a lot and I got caught out this weekend. Parking is sometimes a pain too.

Check it's a night that single men ARE allowed in and whether you have to apply for membership a couple of days in advance. Might be worth a phone call.

Also, in some clubs there might not be much play for the first couple of hours.

Get a show round by the staff and look at the night as investment in future play opportunities.

Hope you have a great time!

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