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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've just updated our account for 2018 after returning on this our new profile a few months back.

We like to meet females but our account or us, only seem to attract younger fems?

We've pondered why? It's not the end of the world but we thought maybe some advice from fems around our age or older could be helpful.

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filter out people who don't fit your age criteria? You can block them from getting in touch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filter out people who don't fit your age criteria? You can block them from getting in touch. "

It's not that we want to block. We've had some great meets, just not with people around our age

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe raise your younger limit up from 20?

I see I am too old for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe raise your younger limit up from 20?

I see I am too old for you!"

Definitely not too old Just upped our upper age limit. We don't really have a type we just didn't want to leave it at 18 oor 99 Thankyou xx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't offer any other suggestion to attract people of a particular age group other than to set your age limits differently to reflect what you prefer.

One thing that may have some bearing on whether or not others choose to message you could be your pictures although it is unlikely to be age specific.

The ones you have are lovely but you don't seem to have any of the man apart from a cock pic. Most ladies and couples will want to play with both of you so need to know what you both look like. It is something that is spoken about in the forums often and the general consensus is if you don't have pictures of both of you people will just move on to look at someone else who does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't offer any other suggestion to attract people of a particular age group other than to set your age limits differently to reflect what you prefer.

One thing that may have some bearing on whether or not others choose to message you could be your pictures although it is unlikely to be age specific.

The ones you have are lovely but you don't seem to have any of the man apart from a cock pic. Most ladies and couples will want to play with both of you so need to know what you both look like. It is something that is spoken about in the forums often and the general consensus is if you don't have pictures of both of you people will just move on to look at someone else who does. "

Friends can view them but yeah there not public. We allways send face pics normally with the first message.thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't offer any other suggestion to attract people of a particular age group other than to set your age limits differently to reflect what you prefer.

One thing that may have some bearing on whether or not others choose to message you could be your pictures although it is unlikely to be age specific.

The ones you have are lovely but you don't seem to have any of the man apart from a cock pic. Most ladies and couples will want to play with both of you so need to know what you both look like. It is something that is spoken about in the forums often and the general consensus is if you don't have pictures of both of you people will just move on to look at someone else who does.

Friends can view them but yeah there not public. We allways send face pics normally with the first message.thanks xx"

I like to see pictures of both of you but other than that your profile seems fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just updated our account for 2018 after returning on this our new profile a few months back.

We like to meet females but our account or us, only seem to attract younger fems?

We've pondered why? It's not the end of the world but we thought maybe some advice from fems around our age or older could be helpful.

Thanks xx "

You’ve got one verification from a woman older than you?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I think you have a great profile, just down to numbers and time I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them. "

Sorry to be a stickler for fab labels but a unicorn by definition is a single female who plays with a couple. If you only play with women that makes you a lesbian or bisexual? Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them.

Sorry to be a stickler for fab labels but a unicorn by definition is a single female who plays with a couple. If you only play with women that makes you a lesbian or bisexual? Matt"
Always play with both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them.

Sorry to be a stickler for fab labels but a unicorn by definition is a single female who plays with a couple. If you only play with women that makes you a lesbian or bisexual? Matt"

I am bisexual and I also play with both sexes but the ones on here looking for a genuine FFM are few and far between.

And calling someone a lesbian because they refuse to put a show on for you to wank over while soneone plays with your missus isn't a lesbian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them.

Sorry to be a stickler for fab labels but a unicorn by definition is a single female who plays with a couple. If you only play with women that makes you a lesbian or bisexual? Matt

I am bisexual and I also play with both sexes but the ones on here looking for a genuine FFM are few and far between.

And calling someone a lesbian because they refuse to put a show on for you to wank over while soneone plays with your missus isn't a lesbian! "

I’m slightly confused - what’s a genuine FFM? And your original post said you don’t meet couples with the male present, so I’m wondering what connects that situation to the genuine FFM...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is searching the illusive unicorn and you need to bear in mind most of them on here won't play with a guy present and I'm one of them.

Sorry to be a stickler for fab labels but a unicorn by definition is a single female who plays with a couple. If you only play with women that makes you a lesbian or bisexual? Matt

I am bisexual and I also play with both sexes but the ones on here looking for a genuine FFM are few and far between.

And calling someone a lesbian because they refuse to put a show on for you to wank over while soneone plays with your missus isn't a lesbian! "

We're not chasing illusive unicorns we've been there and done that,We like the dynamics of 3somes and there's no way the Mr is going to be watching and wanking we don't have rules and just go with the flow and like everyone to participate equally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the positive feedback guys

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