FabSwingers.com forum: Help!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could anybody give me some advice on why we may not be getting many msgs or winks today? Be brutal ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shit profile

lacking photos of you both together

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you would love to play with a woman while your boyfriend watches. It makes it sound like I would be there just for his entertainment, rather than my own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will upload some thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Really didnt mean it to come across like that. Whoops.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your three verifications are from single men yet you are only looking to meet couples or females. I think women would like to see a verification from another woman before they arranged to meet. Why not try going to a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you should wink those you'd like to see. and maybe state in your profile you do long back and forth messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. The males that verified us have chatted to us in clubs or they are the male half of a couple but can see that it looks odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brutal truth?

The profile is pretty poor, the photos are pretty poor, there's nothing that would entice us to get in touch.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Could anybody give me some advice on why we may not be getting many msgs or winks today? Be brutal ha"

Your message says 'me', and yet you say you are a couple.

Sounds a lot like another man pretending to be a couple...

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Why do you think you should be getting winks and messages?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why do you think you should be getting winks and messages? "

I haven't had a message for 43 minutes. I think Fab must be broken.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"Why do you think you should be getting winks and messages?

I haven't had a message for 43 minutes. I think Fab must be broken. "
ours has been broken all day by the looks of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anybody give me some advice on why ******* we ******* may not be getting many msgs or winks today? Be brutal ha

Your message says 'me', and yet you say you are a couple.

Sounds a lot like another man pretending to be a couple...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

More pics of mr other than just cock

Add why someone should meet you and what you offer.

Miss

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You say you would love to play with a woman while your boyfriend watches. It makes it sound like I would be there just for his entertainment, rather than my own pleasure. "

The meet says that too

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"More pics of mr other than just cock

... and without his socks on

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Could anybody give me some advice on why we may not be getting many msgs or winks today? Be brutal ha"

Sorry, but there are only 3 words and the same number of photos. The latter focus on genitals. ..

It is not at all enticing to us.

Do you normally get lots of messages and winks?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures tell people nothing, other than you have genitalia and the profile is three words long. I’d stick with clubs as clearly (like most people) you communicate better in person than on line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you. The males that verified us have chatted to us in clubs or they are the male half of a couple but can see that it looks odd."

Do they know they are a male half of a couple?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thank you. The males that verified us have chatted to us in clubs or they are the male half of a couple but can see that it looks odd.

Do they know they are a male half of a couple?"

If they are the male half of a couple wouldn't they have a couple profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you. The males that verified us have chatted to us in clubs or they are the male half of a couple but can see that it looks odd.

Do they know they are a male half of a couple?

If they are the male half of a couple wouldn't they have a couple profile?"

Not necessarily but you'd think they would reference in their own profiles.

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Look at other people's profiles and rewrite there's in your own words.

Photos are easy to edit to blank your faces if you don't want people to know exactly who you are.

Our profile is quite blunt because of the amount of messages we were getting but now most are genuine and nice.

Also like most even if your both matched the wife will always carry the guy on Fab and bring the attention in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the profile is fine. Seen loads without even photos!

Slightly more body in the photos would be helpful.

I liked what I saw on the current photos though.

Plus there's more to talk about when people message you, e.g what do you like etc..

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"shit profile

lacking photos of you both together"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, just realised you're not after single men. This place is stacked to the roof with them... better pictures is a must, but you both look attractive in downstairs department. Write up needs a bit more details. See what you like on other profiles and go down the same path. Good luck to you two!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the profile is fine. Seen loads without even photos!

Slightly more body in the photos would be helpful.

I liked what I saw on the current photos though.

Plus there's more to talk about when people message you, e.g what do you like etc.. "

Thank you for your positive feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well kind of feeling a bit deflated after reading all this brutalness will take most comments into consideration. Some are just plain rude which there is no need for. Yes we are new to this which is probably why our profile is so 'shit.' We are still working out how to use it and how it works. Also doing a photo verification may help im told. Will have lots of fun taking more body pics and pics of mr and us together to put on anyway. Thanks guys.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The meet you have placed sounds like you just want a female to perform for you, women will not like that.

I can’t see pics as I’m not a friend.

Good luck OP I’m sure you’ll suss it all out in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be disheartened, it won't take you much to tweak your profile.

Personally speaking I think some public pics would help entice people to wink or massage you, they don't have to be too explicit either if you don't want to show too much. Have a look at other couples profiles and that may give you some ideas

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Well kind of feeling a bit deflated after reading all this brutalness will take most comments into consideration. Some are just plain rude which there is no need for. Yes we are new to this which is probably why our profile is so 'shit.' We are still working out how to use it and how it works. Also doing a photo verification may help im told. Will have lots of fun taking more body pics and pics of mr and us together to put on anyway. Thanks guys.

You did say be brutal though - I wouldn’t phrase things that way, but you can’t really grumble if people take you at your word!

It’s also partly because there’s so many messages about profile advice (usually a few a day) and in the majority of cases the OP doesn’t do anything about it - not saying this applies to you, of course. I think people are forthright in the hope that people actually take on board the advice. Very often it’s just an attempt to get hits on the profile really and people get a bit wary and jaded.

One small thing from me - a lot of people, me included, find profile text easier to read if there are paragraphs. Your text isn’t hugely long as it is, so it’s not a big issue, but I still found myself wishing it was broken up more.

Good luck

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