FabSwingers.com forum: Help !!

By *ack in gill OP Man
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

Please look at our profile and be honest if we do manage to get a reply from couples it's alway sorry mr is to ugly for us I have a single female pro file and have no problem at all getting meets only no joy as a couple my fella is about to give up as it's getting him extremely low . Like I said be honest please x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your profile is quite short and a bit terse and unfriendly in my opinion. I'm not sure why you start it by saying you have single profiles so don't waste your time, I don't understand the connection. Apart from that you don't say what you're looking for as a couple or what you can offer the people you set.

I can't see why people are saying the Mr is ugly not only is it unkind it's untrue. I think the picture of him alone looks better than the one in which you're together though.

It is much easier for women to get meets though.

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By *ack in gill OP Man
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

Thanks for the response will change wright up xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think your husband is very nice looking. I cannot imagine anyone saying he is ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He looks pretty cool to me, you're a lucky lady to have him. I would meet him or you both if I were nearer. He also has a very decent cock. It's probably more likely that there's so many single men looking for meets, that female half of couples will always find it easier to get meets. You're hot yourself also. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a previous poster Says though, your profile could do with being more friendly XXX

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Wow, I wouldn't want to meet anyone who was so rude and horrible about your husband anyway, so you're definitely well shot of those people. How awful!

As for the profile, I do think your text is quite short and blunt, although it gives some necessary information, it doesn't really tell me much about you both as a couple.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I agree with previous replies, your profile text doesn’t reveal very much about you both but what you have put comes across a bit harsh and unfriendly.

With regards to people saying he’s ‘ugly’ then that’s just nasty. He may not be what they’re looking for but they should word it more sensitively and maturely.

I’ll probably get slated for saying this but I’d say if it’s just for NSA/casual sex most women on here could get a meet quite easily just because of the male:female ratio, it won’t nevessarily matter what she writes on her profile, how she looks or what she’s like as a person. So, if a woman is looking for a man she can afford to be picky. A lot of men (not all men) won’t be as selective about who they meet because they don’t have as many options available to them. It’s all about supply and demand.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text far too demanding, just because you’re happy to have face pics published doesn’t mean others would send with first message

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By *aughty Wigan CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wigan

Absolutely nothing what so every wrong with hubby but the profile text would definately put us off messaging, just reads as very stroppy, unfriendly and unwelcoming.

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By *ack in gill OP Man
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

New profile rewritten.. hopefully it's better ? Please be honest.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New profile rewritten.. hopefully it's better ? Please be honest.. x"

Much better and much more welcoming.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Much better. My only comment is that on a couples profile I like to see both of you in the profile pic.

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By *ack in gill OP Man
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

Thanks for all comments and help! Let's hope we get lots response.. xx

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

"Please look at our profile and be honest if we do manage to get a reply from couples it's alway sorry mr is to ugly for us I have a single female pro file and have no problem at all getting meets only no joy as a couple my fella is about to give up as it's getting him extremely low . Like I said be honest please x "

Dot get down and don’t let it get to you we get very little offers off anyone and everyone has there own taste in what’s hot and what’s not

What he needs to remember he has you and that’s what counts whatever else happens in the future is a bonus

You are who you are and you can’t change that so embrace it sod the haters and embrace what you have

Also women always get the attention on here it’s just the way it is so don’t let it get you down

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your new profile pic is lovely.

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By *heffield birdWoman
over a year ago

Skegness

Thanks for advice. But not see lots flocking in tbh.. x

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

"Thanks for advice. But not see lots flocking in tbh.. x"

We’re lucky to get one message a week so don’t be disheartened

What will be will be and as they say the best things come to those who wait

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By *heffield birdWoman
over a year ago

Skegness

They do say that.. but it's also makes you think it's you! Only so much knock back you can take tho.. x

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

"They do say that.. but it's also makes you think it's you! Only so much knock back you can take tho.. x"

From the hubby

I know I’ve had it my whole life I’m no looker myself and I’ve just learnt to be me and not worry what people think as I said before were all not everyone cuppa

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By *heffield birdWoman
over a year ago

Skegness

Some tho don't think like you tho and it's getting to point wherr he not want to be on. X

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

"Some tho don't think like you tho and it's getting to point wherr he not want to be on. X"

Only he can decide on how he feels and what he wants to do there he needs to remember he’s got the love of his life and he’s loved

and people can be nasty on here and he really needs to not take it to heart

I don’t think there’s anything I can really say to make a difference to how he feels which I don’t like but wish I could

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By *heffield birdWoman
over a year ago

Skegness

Me too hun.. he is loved very much but it does knock your confidence off meeting people then.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us and we have to say we do not have many meets, because of my age and Ls size, if anyone is unhappy about that then it's there problem plenty more fish in the sea. What would put us off messaging you is Jack is a smoker and your cock and pussy pics, other photos are good,

Good luck

D and L x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nothing wrong with him at all and you have pics of him ,which is v rare

How rude of people to say things like that

I assume they are all perfect.

Miss x

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By *ack in gill OP Man
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

They must be.. and if only some people don't respond or ignore.. x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think you look a really fun and enjoyable couple. Your personallity really comes through and that is attractive. Of course we are all looking for different things so won't be everyone's cup of tea.

Are you active in the wider swinger community like going to clubs? That may be a far better way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both of you are good looking. It’s easier for Girls to get meet here but harder for men. Try going to local swingers clubs. You’ll have more chances of meeting others couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do you both no problem xxx

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