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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi my wife has a guy she meets with every now and then . Iv always been there watched them fuck etc .he wants to know can he have her overnight on his own . Hes a very nice guy and trust worthy and shes up for it. And the throught of it is very horny esp if she videos the fucking etc or whats app me what do you all think cheers

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

It doesn’t matter what anyone other than the three of you think. If you’re uncomfortable with it tell them as you can’t undo what’s been done.

Mrs. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as you all in agreement then why not

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

To be honest if you were totally comfortable with the idea then you wouldn't be asking on here however for some cuckolds the added anxiety adds to the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest if you were totally comfortable with the idea then you wouldn't be asking on here however for some cuckolds the added anxiety adds to the situation."
weve done it , go for it

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

he has asked, your wife is up for it, and you said you like the idea of it, why not try it see how it goes, its not like he has not been there before, and you can have her for breakfast in the morning after her fuck buddy has had her first, do they use condoms when with you, after all you wont be able to police that will you,and if they do will they still use, or is this just an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not discuss it and agree on a one off this time with the understanding that it’s just the one time unless you both get more enjoyment out of it

I can see where he would maybe open up and be a bit less restricted by you being there and really let go

But if you are in the least bit unsure about it then maybe it’s not the time yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn’t matter what anyone other than the three of you think. If you’re uncomfortable with it tell them as you can’t undo what’s been done.

Mrs. X "

Totally this. If you're asking presumably there's something holding you back so you need to ask yourself what that is.

If it's around her safety and practicalities it might be something you can overcome, if it's simply that it's stretching the boundaries too far then maybe it's not the time yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always proved to be very fun and erotic for both of us when J stays overnight with a guy.

You should definitely try it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi my wife has a guy she meets with every now and then . Iv always been there watched them fuck etc .he wants to know can he have her overnight on his own . Hes a very nice guy and trust worthy and shes up for it. And the throught of it is very horny esp if she videos the fucking etc or whats app me what do you all think cheers"

What do you think?

It's not something either of us would ever contemplate but it's not us doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife used to have a bf for 6 years

He was fucking her more than I ever did over this period, it ended as he wanted more than a gf.

Shame as I was very happy

He never knew I was aware of them as an item, but wife’s twin sister knows

She doesn’t know wife had told me everything lol

I was in7th heaven!!!

So go for it

Btw

He had a big cock too

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By *robertsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We've been in almost the same situation with our Black guy but it has come up in banter between myself and my wife that next time we meet she'll get ready in exactly the same way as I watch her put her lingerie on but this time she'll get him to pick her up and they'll go to a hotel and he'll have her all to himself for the duration of the night - I think it'll be highly exciting with a variety of emotions that I'll go through whilst waiting for her to return .

Go for it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you lucky bastard

go for it how exciting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest if you were totally comfortable with the idea then you wouldn't be asking on here however for some cuckolds the added anxiety adds to the situation."

Yes its the thought of her fucking all night that gets me turned on all 3 of us are ok with it etc

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t think I am able to give you advice on this but good luck with whatever decision you make.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Go for it!!

As a few have said, your lucky to find a woman that's comfortable seeing other guys.. Enjoy, wish I could find one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy is one thing but reality is another! Everytime you push your boundaries everything you did before will seem weak in comparison. Where will it end? Weekends away? Holiday together?

Think carefully only you and your wife know you’re relationship! Dont think about it when horny either, think about it on an ‘empty tank’ and see if you still feel the same.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Go for it...let her to be used by other men...

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

"To be honest if you were totally comfortable with the idea then you wouldn't be asking on here however for some cuckolds the added anxiety adds to the situation."

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Fantasy is one thing but reality is another! Everytime you push your boundaries everything you did before will seem weak in comparison. Where will it end? Weekends away? Holiday together?

Think carefully only you and your wife know you’re relationship! Dont think about it when horny either, think about it on an ‘empty tank’ and see if you still feel the same.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Followed exactly the same pattern with one fella once - wife absolutely hated it so I collected her early morning. Was fine when I was there previously watching etc. but never saw him again after she'd stayed on her own.

Nothing bad happened but the dynamic was just not for her (and it was something we both wanted to give a try).

Live and learn I suppose

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just be carefull you won't loose your wife .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a late drop off. They can then do their thing, sleep together (naked). Wake up together and do their thing again. Then a pick up. Otherwise they will be spending 'real' time together. That would bother me and could lead to other issues. I do like tbe idea though. Maybe he sleeps in your bed woth her, you take the spare room? Plus you might hear them (bonus!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems strange and bizarre to us but it's your choice.

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

"To be honest if you were totally comfortable with the idea then you wouldn't be asking on here however for some cuckolds the added anxiety adds to the situation.

Yes its the thought of her fucking all night that gets me turned on all 3 of us are ok with it etc"

Well in that case go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. I’d love Michelle to have a regular fella but genuine ones are few and far between

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Go for it...let her to be used by other men..."

Misogynist language everywhere over this thread

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Does it not worry you a little her staying overnight?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

If it's what you all want then go for it. Personally to me things like this always seem a bit odd, it's a bit too relationship-esque to me. I always think it's situations like this when people fuck occassionly and then that evolves into overnight stays that result in those two ending up together and the other partner ending up alone

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Each to their own but a relationship could easily form here - risky ground

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

we have done it its fun I would suggest leaving out the video making for the first time though let it be their thing once she safe

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We have done it before , it's an extra dimension to a cuckold relationship, especially when cuckoldress returns home . It works for us but as others have said both of you need to discuss With each other what would like to happen during the night , pics, texts, voice calls , Skype, FaceTime , you in chastity, you dropping and picking her up etc lots of possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check if it's bed and breakfast or is the brekkie extra

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it if you are all agreed (sounds like you are). I’ve done this a couple of times in the past...no problems whatsoever.

You guys know the dynamic...so it’s your, joint call in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I don’t get this.

Ever thought about breaking up and letting them have a relationship?

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

If you're looking for advice then you are feeling uncertain,best to chat amongst the three of you.

But make sure you put across your feelings about the situation, I'm not sure if you enjoy the Cuckold scene and to what extent you enjoy it,but your feeling are as important as your wife's and the other guys.I always found that bring open and honest was the best way, people had more respect that way,P s. I have had a few experiences in my younger days as a bull for couples who enjoyed the cuckold scene and also couples who enjoyed the guy watching,it's all different.just speak up and it will work out.Have fun.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"personally I don’t get this.

Ever thought about breaking up and letting them have a relationship?"

Just because a woman wants an all night session with a guy doesn't mean she wants a relationship with him

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By *donielMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Really hope this works out well for you buddy. Will she keep you caged while she is away? Will you have cleaning duties when she returns. Jealous ??

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Followed exactly the same pattern with one fella once - wife absolutely hated it so I collected her early morning. Was fine when I was there previously watching etc. but never saw him again after she'd stayed on her own.

Nothing bad happened but the dynamic was just not for her (and it was something we both wanted to give a try).

Live and learn I suppose

thats it though you tried it and it wasnt for you but your strong enough to recognize that, that is what swinging should be about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try overnight at your place first, then if you're comfortable with that then let her stay the night at his place. Basically you're opening up to some genuine wife sharing where she will be shared by you both. Check out polyamory relationships, the book the Dawn of Sex by Christopher Ryan.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"personally I don’t get this.

Ever thought about breaking up and letting them have a relationship?

Just because a woman wants an all night session with a guy doesn't mean she wants a relationship with him "

This makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn’t matter what anyone other than the three of you think. If you’re uncomfortable with it tell them as you can’t undo what’s been done.

Mrs. X "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trickle effect, it's only a sleepover.........

Alarm bells should be ringing, it's a tad obvious where this will eventually lead to.

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"The trickle effect, it's only a sleepover.........

Alarm bells should be ringing, it's a tad obvious where this will eventually lead to."

Been there, done it and worked great... as long as you both can trust the guy and your wife makes clear she is only using his body for sex I'd say go for it

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"...so it’s your, joint call in the end."

100% agreed, each of you have to want this... any doubts don't until you have discussed them with your wife and agree on a compromise maybe e.g. sleep over at yours as someone else suggested

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"personally I don’t get this.

Ever thought about breaking up and letting them have a relationship?"
You obviously don’t understand any of the dynamics of cuckold just like a bdsm it’s about pushing boundaries I don’t fully understand it that’s why I’m refraining from making rash comments and just following the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve both done sleepovers with others. But us breaking up and having a relationship with another partner is absurd.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a hotwife im/we are in it for the extra sex so as soon as the meet becomes non sexual ..im off buck into my hubbys arms for me being a hotwife is sexual nothing else and for my hubs he wants me to be sexual and nothing else .. sometimes wonder if some people really know what they are getting themselves into the same goes for the cuckold scene cuckold does not mean humiliation or denial it simply means to seed another mans wife the rest is added by the bdsm/ porn crowd ... saying that all should do as they please or want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't realise how old this was lol

Busty had a fb where she regularly stayed over at weekends. It's all good fun. The bloke was trust worthy and a decent guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i know this guy hes very genuine and nice k own him a long time .wife has gone to guys house while i been at work were cool with that. Love the phone call pics afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really hope this works out well for you buddy. Will she keep you caged while she is away? Will you have cleaning duties when she returns. Jealous ?? "

Yes always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantasy is one thing but reality is another! Everytime you push your boundaries everything you did before will seem weak in comparison. Where will it end? Weekends away? Holiday together?

Think carefully only you and your wife know you’re relationship! Dont think about it when horny either, think about it on an ‘empty tank’ and see if you still feel the same.

Good sound advice right there. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’ve both done sleepovers with others. But us breaking up and having a relationship with another partner is absurd.

Mrs"
no were not breaking up etc she meets a few guys just one of them has asked for a all nighter i trust him etc just horny at the thought of having her the next day

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

As a chaste husband in FLR, my Wife has complete freedom when it comes to who she sees and when she sees them. I very much enjoy that She is empowered in that way. And it fits the dynamic of our relationship, given my subservience.

That said, every couple is different and so long as you and your wife are open to discussing all aspects of the meet and your feelings before, during and after, I am sure you will be fine. So long as you are all in agreement.

Keep in mind your wife maybe too tired or even too sore in the morning after to entertain you. So be ready to meet her other needs and have a little patience until she has had the opportunity to recover etc.

Good Luck

Slave (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this and both find it a huge turn on, however you must both feel comfortable with it. Clarence likes me to keep in touch too so maybe a naughty phone call or pics sent back so he still feels involved xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a disaster waiting to happen. Personal experience of these scenarios. Fun for me. Never for mong term relationship. Some fantasies are just that-fantasy. I'd love a bb bisexual gangbang. Not worth huge risk.

Just think logically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously i don't know what they are like together when you are there watching.

But it does give them the chance to really let go.... no holding back.

But.... be careful she/he doesn't like it too much and want to make it a regular thing .

But good luck anyway.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"We’ve both done sleepovers with others. But us breaking up and having a relationship with another partner is absurd.

Mrsno were not breaking up etc she meets a few guys just one of them has asked for a all nighter i trust him etc just horny at the thought of having her the next day"

You may be pretty upset if she isn’t in the mood the next day ....

Or worse still , she sees the grass as being greener on the other side ....

Careful what you wish for mate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve both done sleepovers with others. But us breaking up and having a relationship with another partner is absurd.

Mrsno were not breaking up etc she meets a few guys just one of them has asked for a all nighter i trust him etc just horny at the thought of having her the next day

You may be pretty upset if she isn’t in the mood the next day ....

Or worse still , she sees the grass as being greener on the other side ....

Careful what you wish for mate ."

This.

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