FabSwingers.com forum: Making her squirt

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what's the different tricks people use or surgest to making a women squirt ?

Yes I know so do, some don't

But for the ones that do squirt what techniques do you recommend

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard as it is to believe, we don't all want to squirt/gush.

I've had it happen twice, both times I was mortified.

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

"I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!"

Amazingly nobody ever asks the woman!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!

Amazingly nobody ever asks the woman!

Shush. Nobody cares what you have to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!

Amazingly nobody ever asks the woman!

Also the fact they want to "make" her squirt

I mean seriously??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's just one women I am playing with she just says you have made me do it befor best remember how you did it

Lol

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

"Shush. Nobody cares what you have to say.

Going back to the kitchen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shush. Nobody cares what you have to say.

Going back to the kitchen "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Shush. Nobody cares what you have to say.

Going back to the kitchen "

I hope you have small feet, y’know, so you can get them close to the sink.

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

"Shush. Nobody cares what you have to say.

Going back to the kitchen

I hope you have small feet, y’know, so you can get them close to the sink.

Bizarrely I do! It's my tits that get in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard as it is to believe, we don't all want to squirt/gush.

I've had it happen twice, both times I was mortified. "

this

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I wouldn't know if I'd pissed myself or squirted for the first time. And I couldn't give a shiney shite as long as my clicker clacks

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

He only asked, in quite a polite way. Dont think the tone of replies was warranted.

OP hopefully you'll get some nicer replies from people who do like it and can offer advice.

MrB

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I see nothing offensive. Always 1

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I see nothing offensive. Always 1"

I didn't say people had been offensive, just that his straighforward question was slapped down needlessly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just one women I am playing with she just says you have made me do it befor best remember how you did it

Lol"

I'm sure different things work for different women and you'll no doubt have loads of fun finding out what works : )

I think it's sexy as anything, the wetter the better. I can understand "mortified" though, I can get dead embarrassed about ejaculating.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

All ladies are different, but there has been lots of advice on previous threads. It's usually along the lines of making a come hither beckoning motion rubbing the front area inside the vaginal wall. So have your palm facing up when the lady lies on her back.

If the lady feels like she needs to wee, she may tense up and stop it from happening. So she needs to be very relaxed in your company and happy that the bed is well protected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the ketchup bottle under her cushion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only been with two woman who properly squirted..

One was so self conscious about it, that she would point blank refuse to let me give her oral sex... after seeing her for a few months it turned out that her ex husband used to degrade her because of it whilst he was going down on her.

She did love being fingered until she squirted and one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had was when she was on the sofa and o was on the floor.. fingering her and because she was slightly higher than me whilst on the sofa and the position of my hand/arm... having her squirt onto my hand and seeing it run down my forearm... WOW!.. I loved the puddle that she made on her floor

The other woman was very very open about it... and could almost squirt when she wanted.. she loved being fucked from behind and telling me that she was about squirt..and when she did it would come out in one big gush and make a noise I'll always remember... used to love having her do it on my face a few times!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I see nothing offensive. Always 1

I didn't say people had been offensive, just that his straighforward question was slapped down needlessly."

And asking the womanwon't necessarily work.

Debs didn't know she could squirt until it happened so before then she couldn't have told you no matter how loud you shouted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's such a big turn on watching lady's cum and squirt. Mrs finds it mind blowing and loves making other lady's cum and squirt to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He only asked, in quite a polite way. Dont think the tone of replies was warranted.

OP hopefully you'll get some nicer replies from people who do like it and can offer advice.

MrB"

This

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

Just found an interesting article from The Independent about female ejaculation...summarises the history, chemical composition etc...

Oh, and gushing/squirting is a lot of fun if it happens naturally and “consensually”...but our laundry bills are a lot higher when our Unicorn comes to stay lol..

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-science-behind-female-ejaculation-9987298.html%3famp

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I experienced squirting on a meet a couple of years ago. I didn't even realise what was happening.

Consequently, every meet I had it happened.

The one person who I wanted it to happen with was hubby. It took a while before it actually happened with him. I could never nake myself do it either....until a couple of months ago. I was playing with a dildo and it just happened.

I find it annoying that guys feel the need to finger blast. That just makes me sore and completely ruins the moment. All it takes is a gentle massage in the right area. If it happens, it happens, don't force it and don't be rough!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He only asked, in quite a polite way. Dont think the tone of replies was warranted.

OP hopefully you'll get some nicer replies from people who do like it and can offer advice.

MrB"

I didn't mean for my answer to sound sharp or snarky. Just pointing out while guys seem to like it, the lady might not.

He then added that she'd asked him to do it again, so wouldn't have posted my original answer if I'd known that part

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By *otrod56Man
over a year ago

East mersea

My exwife could squirt just by being licked and I loved it in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard as it is to believe, we don't all want to squirt/gush.

I've had it happen twice, both times I was mortified. "

This

Although only happened once to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the grand old age of 53 I found out I could squirt. I have no idea how he did it and its only happened twice since, so sorry OP, I cant offer much help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a couple of ways..

hooking the fingers and a gentle lifting while massaging..I'll sometime spread the fingers in and out(like a live long and proper way

sometimes it can be a hard and fast motion(but obviously depends on how she feels)

now you can add licks if you are down there

while fisting it can be similar but with less of the lifting motion

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"He only asked, in quite a polite way. Dont think the tone of replies was warranted.

OP hopefully you'll get some nicer replies from people who do like it and can offer advice.

MrB

I didn't mean for my answer to sound sharp or snarky. Just pointing out while guys seem to like it, the lady might not.

He then added that she'd asked him to do it again, so wouldn't have posted my original answer if I'd known that part

We all shoot from the hip sometimes or phrase things that can sound worse than intended

I just felt sorry for the guy, as it had generated a bit of an onslaught.

I agree, squirting has become a bit of a (porn induced? ) 'craze', some people do genuinly enjoy it though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the grand old age of 53 I found out I could squirt. I have no idea how he did it and its only happened twice since, so sorry OP, I cant offer much help x"

Same here too ! I just started to squirt at 45 years old but only at the moment with Mr sex-extra. Bit of a shock as I thought I could not do it. I enjoy it but I have to want to do it and really have to relax to squirt. Mr is really good at making me squirt and I still do not know how he does it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!"

See the article I posted above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above"

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?"

That’s what the research seems to suggest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had never squirted until we were together. The first time she couldn't decide how to react.

We had been using a wand and she squirted literally the length of the room.

She lay their apologising, laughing and quivering all the same time.

After a few more times she started squirting constantly. Sometimes all I'd have to was play with her nipples...

But most commonly with me the "come hither" motion seems to work, especially on women who have never squirted before.

Slowly and gently building is key. Don't go hell for leather.

Make sure the lady is already very wet

I also recommend light pressure pushing down just above their pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He only asked, in quite a polite way. Dont think the tone of replies was warranted.

OP hopefully you'll get some nicer replies from people who do like it and can offer advice.

MrB

This

I have to agree im afraid ^

I'm a pretty frequent squirter - although I've never been able to do it to myself. Can't quite get the angle right i guess. Men seem to suggest that its all about the hook around and circular pressure. Although it also very much depends how relaxed i am/how confidently the guy (or girl) tackles it. It's not something i necessarily want to happen every time either.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"My ex had never squirted until we were together. The first time she couldn't decide how to react.

We had been using a wand and she squirted literally the length of the room.

She lay their apologising, laughing and quivering all the same time.

After a few more times she started squirting constantly. Sometimes all I'd have to was play with her nipples...

But most commonly with me the "come hither" motion seems to work, especially on women who have never squirted before.

Slowly and gently building is key. Don't go hell for leather.

Make sure the lady is already very wet

I also recommend light pressure pushing down just above their pussy. "

I squirt very rarely but it's actually the hell for leather approach that does it for me

So I'd advise the OP that every woman is different and there's no magic formula.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!"

None.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!"

That's not particularly controversial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

None."

So moist or even extremely wet is a secretion from The Skene gland but the need for towels to soak up fluid ejected under pressure is urine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

That's not particularly controversial

Well looking at previous forum topics on this specific subject I would suggest it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's the different tricks people use or surgest to making a women squirt ?

Yes I know so do, some don't

But for the ones that do squirt what techniques do you recommend "

Lots of foreplay and to be completely relax. Must not feel cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After finding I could squirt (love it now by the way) I have squirted in full sex on top (today) & even when having anal sex which was the more confusing one for me

must admit when he uses his fingers I squirt & gush a hell of lot more!! Broke my own record the other night and squirted or gushed 18 times

bed was soaked lol

Only three men have ever made me squirt and only huddy knows how to make me gush like a river

each women's different but saying that have seen huddy make women squirt recently that had never squirted before who where adamant they could not

For me personally I have to be relaxed, turned on after a lot of foreplay and very wet

By the way it's not pee!! Its clear & has no smell but from what I read comes from the same place

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm only jealous. I "think" I'm yet to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only jealous. I "think" I'm yet to experience "

Got to admit I was really jealous too until I found I could do it.

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

My fuckgirl taught me on this techniques on how to make her squirt and now I'm good at it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My fuckgirl taught me on this techniques on how to make her squirt and now I'm good at it x"

Good at extracting the urine?

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Buy her a wand

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm only jealous. I "think" I'm yet to experience

Got to admit I was really jealous too until I found I could do it.

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how? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only jealous. I "think" I'm yet to experience

Got to admit I was really jealous too until I found I could do it.

how? X"

Mr has the skills to do it and I have finally been able to relax & let go. Women who want to do this have to learn to let go & go with it or your not going to do it, you need the right mind set.

I feel its an amazing expreience and glad I can do it now, not for everyone but I love it

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Xx Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I get any men message me who are hell bent on making me squirt then I just delete nothing worse than a guy fingering you rought and hard for ages just to satisfy his own ego .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady drinks water half hour beforehand seems to help.. and the lady needs to try and relax as much as poss as she orgasms.. this is quite hard to do but if the lady can relax she will most certainly gush..

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I do squirt when I cum hard. Usually the first or second orgasm I don't. But once I'm more sensitive I will squirt when I cum. Missionary with legs over his shoulders, rubbing my clit will do it for me every time. It's nice in that position because we can both watch it happen. So hot xx

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Sounds it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Xx Thank you "

Mr Sex-Extra here

OK going going to tell you how I make women squirt & gush

& took years for me to master and find this infomation.

First - you need a warm room and lots & lots of foreplay.

Second - Very importantly you need lude & lots of it, this is the key!! DONT US LUDE YOU BUY ONLINE USE RAPSEED (Add an E inbetween Rap & seed) OIL SPRAY!! Can be bought in supermarkets cheap on the cooking oil shelves with a spray top. Its a natraul lude that enlarges the clit & gspot and makes it more sensitive.

Third - Insert one finger two knuckles deep, so second bend in you finger. Start with a come Hear finger movement on the front wall, around this point you should hit the gspot. Some ladies like a round movement or side to side movement, each lady is different but I found the come hear movement works most times.

Fourth - You will feel the texture of the front wall becomes very like a spong feel. Now add a second finger and speed up slowly.

Fifth - When the spongly part starts becoming firm stand over the lady or kneeling over her and cup your hand so the palm of your hand hits her clit and now make you fingers & arm firm and go fast till she squirts. With some ladies if you hit the clit or stroke it very fast as they squirt they squirt more or may even gush.

Six - Repeat time & time again till she gushes and begs you to stop

Tip - If you hold down slighty below the belly button with the other hand flat it presses on the bladder and makes women squirt more or faster or even gush.

Most importantly the lady need to let go or this will never ever work. If the lady says she needs to pee shes nearly there!! Just reassure her and tell her to relax & let go & its all going to be OK and she will squirt

Others may do it differently but works for me & hope works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds it xx"

Mr Sex-Extra here

OK going going to tell you how I make women squirt & gush & took years for me to master and find this infomation.

First - you need a warm room and lots & lots of foreplay.

Fourth - You will feel the texture of the front wall becomes very like a spong feel. Now add a second finger and speed up slowly.

Six - Repeat time & time again till she gushes and begs you to stop

Tip - If you hold down slighty below the belly button with the other hand flat presses down on the bladder its makes women squirt more or faster or even gush.

Most importantly the lady needs to let go or this will never ever work. If the lady says she needs to pee shes nearly there!! Just reassure her and tell her to relax & let go & its all going to be OK and she will squirt

Others may do it differently but works for me & hope works for you

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Lots to go at! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots to go at! !"

Hope it all helps, tried to give as much info as we could.

Good luck Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her drink loads.

If you use your fingers in the 'come hither' motion, against the front wall of the vagina, you're actually stimulating the bladder.

It's just urine. Watch porn. It comes from the urethra. There is nowhere in the body to store that amount of liquid, other than the bladder.

As long as everyone is enjoying it, keep on pissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make her drink loads.

If you use your fingers in the 'come hither' motion, against the front wall of the vagina, you're actually stimulating the bladder.

It's just urine. Watch porn. It comes from the urethra. There is nowhere in the body to store that amount of liquid, other than the bladder.

As long as everyone is enjoying it, keep on pissing. "

whether it is or isnt isnt whats being asked is it?

I know what I know...but hey..as I say...the debates sorta over if its urine or not...if it is...then every woman can squirt from some kind of action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?

That’s what the research seems to suggest..."

Would also explain why women ‘discover’ they can ‘squirt’ as they get a bit older.

Whatever your views on squirting, it’s pretty clear that it happens when women are relaxed and either close to or actually having an orgasm.

Literally ‘letting go’. Can’t be a bad thing if you’re happy to deal with the resulting mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?

That’s what the research seems to suggest...

Would also explain why women ‘discover’ they can ‘squirt’ as they get a bit older.

Whatever your views on squirting, it’s pretty clear that it happens when women are relaxed and either close to or actually having an orgasm.

Literally ‘letting go’. Can’t be a bad thing if you’re happy to deal with the resulting mess.

The Disney film Frozen has just taken on a new meaning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?

That’s what the research seems to suggest...

Would also explain why women ‘discover’ they can ‘squirt’ as they get a bit older.

Whatever your views on squirting, it’s pretty clear that it happens when women are relaxed and either close to or actually having an orgasm.

Literally ‘letting go’. Can’t be a bad thing if you’re happy to deal with the resulting mess.

The Disney film Frozen has just taken on a new meaning!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't know if I'd pissed myself or squirted for the first time. And I couldn't give a shiney shite as long as my clicker clacks "

Not heard that one before, I'll use the word Clicker Clacks more often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My fuckgirl taught me on this techniques on how to make her squirt and now I'm good at it x

Good at extracting the urine?"

Apparently I extract the urine often... Or so he tells me!

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"So what's the different tricks people use or surgest to making a women squirt ? ...

Give her cock a good wank perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!

See the article I posted above

So the vast amounts seen as squirting is in fact urine?

That’s what the research seems to suggest...

Would also explain why women ‘discover’ they can ‘squirt’ as they get a bit older.

Whatever your views on squirting, it’s pretty clear that it happens when women are relaxed and either close to or actually having an orgasm.

Literally ‘letting go’. Can’t be a bad thing if you’re happy to deal with the resulting mess.

The Disney film Frozen has just taken on a new meaning!

OK so why all of this association with pee and Female ejaculation(squirting & gushing)??? Here are a few reasons:

It has the same consistency as pee but clear with no smell or real taste. It also comes from the urethra & can feel like peeing when a woman ejaculates but way, way more enjoyable. It can leave a huge wet spot on the bed.

While all of these are legitimate reasons to think that female ejaculate is pee—it’s not!

THE TRUTH - Female Ejaculation (squirting or gushing) is made up of prostatic fluid because it comes from the female prostate, otherwise known as the G-Spot

The female prostate surrounds the urethra has tiny glands inside the urethral sponge called the Skene’s Glands which build up and fill with fluid during arousal and G-Spot stimulation. The glands feed into the urethra and the prostatic fluid is released when she pushes the fluid out or releases it during orgasm. The fluid, which is often clear and watery, can come out in various amounts from a few drops on up to a few cup-fulls. It can spurt, squirt, splash, drip, drizzle, downpour, etc. The fluid can be actively pushed out or passively released. It can accompany an orgasm, be orgasmic in itself, or occur completely separate of an orgasm but in my experience most women have a orgasm of some kind while squirting or gushing.

Because it can be experienced so diversely by women and information about it is not widely known, many women are already ejaculating (squirting or gushing) but do not realize that is what is happening and instead feel shame or guilt because they think they are incontinent.

All women have a G-Spot/prostate which produces prostatic fluid but not all women ejaculate because they usually they can't let go!! There are many other reasons why women don’t ejaculate the fluid; a major reason being that they simply don’t know it is possible and are not educated about female ejaculation and the G-Spot.

So the verdict is out: Female Ejaculate is not pee!

Scientifically it has been determined to be prostatic fluid all the other study's online are fake news, always look who funds these study's, the true data and why & where it came from!! IT IS NOT PEE!!

And, most importantly, if your a female who has ever ejaculated or been a partner of a woman who has squirted or gushed, you can taste, smell and observe that the fluid is clearly not urine!!

I don’t want to create a hierarchy of bodily fluids here by adamantly stating that it is not urine or by insinuating that it would be the end of the world if a woman were to pee during sex or arousal. I am an advocate of women following their pleasure (responsibly) and releasing shame and guilt around their desires and sexual expression and tapping into and surrendering to their empowered and authentic unlimited sexual expression and female ejaculation (squirting & gushing) does that for lots of ladies who enjoy it!!!

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

If you really want to liberate yourself is letting your bowels go at the same time the post feminist zeitgeist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you really want to liberate yourself is letting your bowels go at the same time the post feminist zeitgeist?

Don't, I have IBS.... It can easily be done.

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"If you really want to liberate yourself is letting your bowels go at the same time the post feminist zeitgeist?

Don't, I have IBS.... It can easily be done.

Oops, sorry!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"This is controversial I know but what other organ other than the bladder can expel large amounts of fluid from the genital area?

Genuine question!"

Exactly .....its urine from the bladder .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady drinks water half hour beforehand seems to help.. and the lady needs to try and relax as much as poss as she orgasms.. this is quite hard to do but if the lady can relax she will most certainly gush.. "

Sorry but I disagree with this, the only time it happened to me I had not drank any water beforehand and I was not relaxed at all, more confused if I an honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I disagree with this, the only time it happened to me I had not drank any water beforehand and I was not relaxed at all, more confused if I an honest "

The key is to get very,very wet with lube or very turned & very,very wet naturally. All ladies are different, most need to relax, others need to just "let it go" at some point. Some women, NOT all need to feel they are being forced to squirt & let it go, it's a dom sub thing. Like I said it's different for every women and what does it for one women will not do it for another.

The instructions we posted last night are just an broad outline of how to make a lady squirt or gush & if you incorporate them with what ever does it for the particular lady you are playing with you will probably find the lady squirts or gushes more and faster

so ask the lady what does it for her before you start???

NO it's not Pee - ladies who have expraince squirting & gushing will tell you it's clear with no smell & no taste, very different to pee.

For all those who claim it's pee because it comes from the bladder. I can only assume you have never seen the fluid close up, smelt it or tasted it. Very different to pee!!

One last point it's not an age thing that only older ladies can do. I have seen Mr make ladies in there 20's & 30's squirt & gush who didn't know what hit them!!

well, they will ask to be proved wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it happened it did nothing for me whatsoever and it has never happened again but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread "

really should add a smiley at the end of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of foreplay to start and insert two fingers slow

Then push up towards her pubic bone

And with a come here motion start slow and not to hard until well you will know when she’s ready by how wet and horny she is get faster and harder and don’t stop do not stop

Keep up the motion hard and fast using now you wole arm to get the movement tell her to relax and let it go

Some lasses don’t let go

But every woman I have tried this on don’t just squirt they gush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread "

Let us know how you get on

Forgot to say to put towels down or a waterproof play sheet before you start as it can get wet, wet, wet lol

(Not the band before someone makes that bad joke

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

"Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread

Let us know how you get on

Forgot to say to put towels down or a waterproof play sheet before you start as it can get wet, wet, wet lol

(Not the band before someone makes that bad joke

No of course not because Love Is All Around...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP it's so complicated even a bright spark might never work it out.

What you have to do is:

a) stop thinking of squirting as important

b) leave the porn alone and learn about 'normal' women

c) turn her on beyond anything she's experienced before

Difficult I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP it's so complicated even a bright spark might never work it out.

What you have to do is:

a) stop thinking of squirting as important

b) leave the porn alone and learn about 'normal' women

c) turn her on beyond anything she's experienced before

Difficult I know

I generally never have 'chatted' about what I'm going to 'do' on a meet before actually meeting them...I'd certainly never message someone to say "I'm coming to make you squuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuirrrt!"

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By *ittysWoman
over a year ago

Island

"I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!"

Thank you!!! haha ** insert hands in the air emoji**

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By *ackhammerJay30Man
over a year ago

walsall /Aldridge

"I recommend asking the woman you're playing with what techniques work for her.

I KNOW RIGHT? RADICAL!

Amazingly nobody ever asks the woman!

Oh I always ask the lady what works for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread

Let us know how you get on

Forgot to say to put towels down or a waterproof play sheet before you start as it can get wet, wet, wet lol

(Not the band before someone makes that bad joke

)

No of course not because Love Is All Around..."

OK wishing I lucky, it's bit of a Sweet Surrender making a lady squirt but she always gets there With a Little Help From My Friends Somewhere Somehow. Somtimes it hard to get her to Hold Back the River but with a little Lip Service and finger Temptation you help unleash the Strange Sweet Little Mystery of squirting She Might Never Know!!

See how many you can spot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I disagree with this, the only time it happened to me I had not drank any water beforehand and I was not relaxed at all, more confused if I an honest "

Same. Before I play I always make sure I have an empty bladder and I wasn't cumming or even close when it happened, so it was a definite what the actual fuck moment.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

"Any women around the Surrey area want to let me try out the tips I have been given in this thread

Let us know how you get on

Forgot to say to put towels down or a waterproof play sheet before you start as it can get wet, wet, wet lol

(Not the band before someone makes that bad joke

)

No of course not because Love Is All Around...

See how many you can spot lol "

Fab effort - thank you x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"OP it's so complicated even a bright spark might never work it out.

What you have to do is:

a) stop thinking of squirting as important

b) leave the porn alone and learn about 'normal' women

c) turn her on beyond anything she's experienced before

Difficult I know

I generally never have 'chatted' about what I'm going to 'do' on a meet before actually meeting them...I'd certainly never message someone to say "I'm coming to make you squuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuirrrt!""

Loads do, and in a first message too along with promises of multiple orgasms and other things that they think are a sure fire winner.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP it's so complicated even a bright spark might never work it out.

What you have to do is:

a) stop thinking of squirting as important

b) leave the porn alone and learn about 'normal' women

c) turn her on beyond anything she's experienced before

Difficult I know

I generally never have 'chatted' about what I'm going to 'do' on a meet before actually meeting them...I'd certainly never message someone to say "I'm coming to make you squuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuirrrt!"

Loads do, and in a first message too along with promises of multiple orgasms and other things that they think are a sure fire winner. "

Yes, if they find the block button a win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m busting for a slash.....

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By *ackhammerJay30Man
over a year ago

walsall /Aldridge

"I’m busting for a slash.....

Lmao

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Very true Missread ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do most men see this as a challenge if it happens it happens I hate it when men feel they need to force the situation, yes I squirt but not for everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most men see this as a challenge if it happens it happens I hate it when men feel they need to force the situation, yes I squirt but not for everyone xx"

Don't think the op and the couples here that have asked for help achieving being able to squirt or gush see it as a chellenge or forced and just want to experience it & add to there play skills in the bedroom if they like it.

We know for us it's somthing we have now incorporated into our play & enjoy but... not all the time.

Saying that its happened a few times with a select very few people without trying so get the "yes I squirt but not for everyone" comment because think most women are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to add to the discussion from a different point of view. I am a squirter, have been for years. It doesn't take much to make me squirt or 'just' gush. It is an interesting 'party trick' but not exactly very convenient. I wish sometimes that I could turn it on and off when I want, but it doesn't work like that. I don't think there is any particular trick to make me squirt. But from a point of a bi woman who has made other women squirt- don't be too rough, watch the body language, and just keep trying

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