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Is 28years to young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep getting wow I want you but if only you were older.... so what is so wrong with being 28?

Would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have with ladies...but not with you OP for other, obvious reasons.

28 will be fine for some...but not for others.

Just as I will be too old/white/short etc etc for some....but plenty fun for others.

People have preferences....seek out those that you fit!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

As the fem, I started playing at a similar age and guys used to say that to me. They still played but they were conscious of my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell..I wish I was 28 again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this surprising. I'm 28 too and people don't say I'm too young

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no "

Is that in response to you asking to meet or are they just messaging you and telling you that?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

The green arrow suggests it's not your age that is the deciding factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how old the women you go for are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no

Is that in response to you asking to meet or are they just messaging you and telling you that?"

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like older women yes but 30 years say it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no

Is that in response to you asking to meet or are they just messaging you and telling you that?

Bit of both"

That would suggest that in some cases 28 years is too young.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmm but 28 is great age would you go with 28years?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Fella know when you are well off. I'd much rather people said I was too old than a fat minger.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being 28 and on here, in fact we're surprised you haven't had more interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging at 25 nobody ever said I was too young in fact I always felt it helped me. As I've got older I've had less luck.

I think it tends to be how you conduct yourself.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I keep getting wow I want you but if only you were older.... so what is so wrong with being 28?

Would you?"

Your post 2 weeks ago "would you shag me" had 78 replies and only one said that 28 is too young.

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

We wont meet single males that young as we have grown up children around that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did the people at the Canterbury social think OP? Did they think you were too young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's really old

Anyone older than me is old even if it is only a year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner was 27 when I met him. He's going to be 36 soon. We're growing old together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did the people at the Canterbury social think OP? Did they think you were too young?"

A social isn't fucking though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might if you liked tgirls and didn't live on the other side of the country. You sound nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no "
they obviously don't want you that much then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what iv seen/noticed/come across, age is rarely an issue.

More to the point is how the individual is themselfs, i.e; their level of maturity, dress sense, outlook on life.

Having said that; iv ALWAYS preffered a older lady & alot do like loving from a younger guy..

Jake..xx

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I keep getting wow I want you but if only you were older.... so what is so wrong with being 28?

Would you?"

Suspect they may be trying to let you down gently...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op, you have a good age for many, as you are above well away from childhood. Stay targeted on those who have your age group in their preferences.

Get to know others socially so that they get to feel your maturity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did the people at the Canterbury social think OP? Did they think you were too young?"

No one was at social lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friday night all alone lol ... and yea maybe was a nice let down but I rather just no then your fit but your age is no

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"It's just so frustrating as lots of women and couples say they want me but age is a no "

So what they are really saying is they don't want you.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

28 is one of my age limits although neither are set in stone. I started on the scene when I was 25 and you do have to accept you won't be for some with kids around that age but there's plenty who don't mind or find someone younger a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting wow I want you but if only you were older.... so what is so wrong with being 28?

Would you?"

Age is just a number

Maturity and attitude will get you far

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Everyone has preferences though, I wouldn't dwell on it too much. Maybe approach people of a similar age range and check the age range on profiles before you message to save the inevitable "if only you were older" replies.

Fwiw I'd meet ya, even though I tend to go for the older bloke, you're only a year younger than me and cute

Sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason you don't get meets is because you are rude to and demanding to people. Try being nice

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don't think age is a problem, it's how mature you come across personally Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting wow I want you but if only you were older.... so what is so wrong with being 28?

Would you?"
I would

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

Mate just forget and move on is my advise age is but a number it’s who you are and what you are that matters not your age everyone has there own ideals and personal preferences, dot let it get to you and don’t let it grind you down just put them aside and keep looking

We have the same problem I’m 11 years older than my wife so some will play with me and not the wife and visa Versa as we only play together it’s there loss not ours

Just remember keep smiling and be positive there’s someone out there for everyone just don’t drop your standards just to get a meet

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

28 is well within my age range. You aren’t too young OP. Though you have been told that before on the threads you have started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"28 is well within my age range. You aren’t too young OP. Though you have been told that before on the threads you have started "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28, seem to do alright on here. Majority of my meet ups have been with woman in their late 30's and 40's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging at 18 (mr) and never had any issue.... be social and go to clubs which have organised events for younger men ie cougar and cubs etc!!

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

If you're old enough to be here you're old enough for us and we'll see the person you are & go from there. That's just us though, nice people can be any age, so can idiots.

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