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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wand or bullet is what you need to buy.

And yes the gels burn!

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"...Any advice or recommendations?

"

Maybe she needs a new man

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Definitely a wand. I have a mini rechargeable one & it’s fantastic, so you don’t need to spend a fortune on an expensive mains one until you know if she likes it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durex do a great little bullet that you can pick up in most supermarkets. Give that a whirl. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

"

Get her a Hitachi wand and hold it on her clit she cum like never before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t all that impressed with the rabbit cock ring during sex tbh, it seemed hard work to get it in exactly the right place and to get the pressure right, the knobbly bits verged on painful if pressed on too hard. Just my opinion, I’m sure others have probably had more success with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a wand. I have a mini rechargeable one & it’s fantastic, so you don’t need to spend a fortune on an expensive mains one until you know if she likes it or not "

Mains aren't that dear off internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recommend a bullet with different speed settings or a clit toy on love honey it looks like a c it has loads of settings an it’s recharable . I don’t like rabbits. Not tried a wand. They look so big. These are small easy to use while having sex enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wand or bullet is what you need to buy.

And yes the gels burn! "

Don't use the gel it's horrid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

Get her a Hitachi wand and hold it on her clit she cum like never before."

Best invention known to women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a wand. I have a mini rechargeable one & it’s fantastic, so you don’t need to spend a fortune on an expensive mains one until you know if she likes it or not

Mains aren't that dear off internet."

£20 on eBay. Listed as massager

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow! Thanks for all the advice. Lots to investigate there. I think I'll start with the bullet although the Hitachi wand sounds amazing.

As for a new man - I totally agree. I keep suggesting she takes a younger lover but so far Mrs T is not keen

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"...As for a new man - I totally agree. I keep suggesting she takes a younger lover but so far Mrs T is not keen "

Best thing I ever done re: sex, in fact it was such a great thing to do i keep on doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a rechargable wand together with a matching gold bullet for £40 In Ann summers a few months back.

Best buy ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know if this sounds a little obvious, but, more foreplay?

I don't have a set series of moves, but I have found that, as women can, generally, cum much more often than men, at least one or two orgasms through foreplay for her before penetration, through fingers, oral, breast play, and it makes things much, much better when you do proceed.

Plus, have you ever had a friend sucking and licking you whilst still moaning and melting from a really, realty good orgasm?!

Heaven!

Also, just ask her, not us.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I never cum from sex without a clit stim. I thought a vibrating cock ring would work wonders but no... because I would any stimulation on the thrust, which was massively frustrating. Something I can control myself in terms of pressure and intensity is way more effective.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I recommend a bullet with different speed settings or a clit toy on love honey it looks like a c it has loads of settings an it’s recharable . I don’t like rabbits. Not tried a wand. They look so big. These are small easy to use while having sex enjoy"

My mini wand is no longer than my bullet vibrator and as it’s rechargeable there’s no fiddly cable either. Think it was £10 online

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Does it bother her that she doesn’t cum?

Please don’t buy a wand and ‘hold it on her clit’ they are powerful things and if she wants one, needs to use it herself or direct you to do it. The on,y person I may consider using a wand on me would be a regular lover but only after some training.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I recommend a bullet with different speed settings or a clit toy on love honey it looks like a c it has loads of settings an it’s recharable . I don’t like rabbits. Not tried a wand. They look so big. These are small easy to use while having sex enjoy

My mini wand is no longer than my bullet vibrator and as it’s rechargeable there’s no fiddly cable either. Think it was £10 online "

One of those USB chargeable, waterproof ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it bother her that she doesn’t cum?

Please don’t buy a wand and ‘hold it on her clit’ they are powerful things and if she wants one, needs to use it herself or direct you to do it. The on,y person I may consider using a wand on me would be a regular lover but only after some training."

Awww shut up, hold it no her clit till she begs for mercy, then have your way with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an Ann summers wand which I love but I cum ridiculously quick

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By *ots2loveCouple
over a year ago

hartlepool


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man "

Not very helpful and totally uncalled for. There could be many reasons for her being unable to climax...mainly stress related with women. Having a husband who cares and wants to bring her pleasure is a lovely thing. Nice of you to make him feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man

Not very helpful and totally uncalled for. There could be many reasons for her being unable to climax...mainly stress related with women. Having a husband who cares and wants to bring her pleasure is a lovely thing. Nice of you to make him feel good."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

Get her a Hitachi wand and hold it on her clit she cum like never before.

Best invention known to women! "

Amen to that. Possibly the greatest investment I own next to my smoothie maker! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know if this sounds a little obvious, but, more foreplay?

I don't have a set series of moves, but I have found that, as women can, generally, cum much more often than men, at least one or two orgasms through foreplay for her before penetration, through fingers, oral, breast play, and it makes things much, much better when you do proceed.

Plus, have you ever had a friend sucking and licking you whilst still moaning and melting from a really, realty good orgasm?!

Heaven!

Also, just ask her, not us. "

That’s a generalisation too, I lose most of my sensation and interest in sex once I’ve cum - intercourse after that point for me is just a case of hoping he cums quickly! Asking her is definitely the way to go

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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man

Not very helpful and totally uncalled for. There could be many reasons for her being unable to climax...mainly stress related with women. Having a husband who cares and wants to bring her pleasure is a lovely thing. Nice of you to make him feel good."

Get over yourself it was a joke - hence the smiley face... jeez some people on here

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does it bother her that she doesn’t cum?

Please don’t buy a wand and ‘hold it on her clit’ they are powerful things and if she wants one, needs to use it herself or direct you to do it. The on,y person I may consider using a wand on me would be a regular lover but only after some training.

Awww shut up, hold it no her clit till she begs for mercy, then have your way with her."

Ever had one held on the end of your cock or frenulum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

"

Wand.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"A wand or bullet is what you need to buy.

And yes the gels burn! "

We use the bullet to hit the spot... we both love that little fucker ... big time! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I suggest a proper tantric massage. All the above suggestions have been for more physical stimulation. They are good but it's always needing bigger, faster, harder, etc etc. Might be she needs to explore and develope more the mindful aspect. The mind is the most powerful sex organ and so often is overlooked in developing.

I had a friend who could only orgasm using an electric toothbrush....yep, the only way until she started doing mindfulness and tried out a tantric approach with sex. She found she no longer needed extreme toys and could later on orgasm just by nipple teasing. It took a long time to reach that level but it changed her sex life completely. Worth exploring.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Does it bother her that she doesn’t cum?

Please don’t buy a wand and ‘hold it on her clit’ they are powerful things and if she wants one, needs to use it herself or direct you to do it. The on,y person I may consider using a wand on me would be a regular lover but only after some training.

Awww shut up, hold it no her clit till she begs for mercy, then have your way with her."

If anyone did that to me I'd twat them over the head with it!

Not everyone likes the wands! All it did to me was make me sore and numb. It vibrates too large an area to actually do any good! So not arousing at all!

Maybe actually talking to the lady to find out what *she* likes would be the best solution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ask her to make herself orgasm with you watching .

Then you try ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, I never expected such a response. Thank you.

I have tried talking to my wife but she has no more idea about vibrators than I do. She doesn't complain about not having enough orgasms but she did mention a friend who swears by her rabbit, hence my earlier purchase.

We have different views on what our sex life should be. My wife was 60 last year and I am 60 this year. She considers herself too old and unattractive for sexual adventures, which is total rubbish. Whereas I think it is a time to act disgracefully.

We love fantasy and as part of our foreplay I often read her stories I've written that turn her on. I just wish I could take her that step further.

Anyway, thanks again for all the helpful advice which I will put to good use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can your wife reach orgasm by playing with herself?

If so (as previously mentioned) watch her then do the same. Be led by what she says.

I have never reached orgasm through penetration and it doesn't bother me at all. I also find it difficult to reach orgasm when a man plays with my clit, I either have to help or I need my bullet.

Porn depicts that you just have to rub a clit as hard and fast as you can and you're guaranteed and orgasm!! Not for me. I like it done in a very particular way or it doesn't work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree. Talking and explaining is the way forward. At least I now have some suggestions to bring to the table.

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By *osmosgirlWoman
over a year ago

Wetherby


"A wand or bullet is what you need to buy.

And yes the gels burn!

Don't use the gel it's horrid! "

I rather like it but then I am a masochist

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Wand, wand, wand ow and a wand

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I agree. Talking and explaining is the way forward. At least I now have some suggestions to bring to the table.

"

So it’s you that wants her to orgasm more? Is there any possibility that she is losing interest in sex but continues with it because she feels she has to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good question.

Firstly, I don't think she is losing interest in sex. She still dresses in sexy underwear, loves our fantasies and can be very animated in bed. I thinks it more of a confidence issue. She thinks that at her age only I fancy her and want to have sex with her.

Yes I want her to orgasm more. Is that a male ego thing? Or do I just want her to experience something fantastic more often.

I'm honest enough to admit I am not what I used to be in bed. Do I give up and accept we're past it at 60 or look to explore new adventures even if they come with batteries?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all dont let the negative Nancy's on this post get you down

2nd I agree with what's said speak to your wife and find out if there's anything subconsciously affecting her ability to orgasm, It may be a confidence thing (which judging by what you've said re how she feels about her age soubds very likely) if that is the case just the and make her feel as comfortable as you can and again speak to her about it.

I never ever used to cum during oral because I was insecure about how I looked down there, so while I used to enjoy it I could never relax enough to enjoy it properly. Not saying this is the case with your wife but confidence can have a bigger effect than people seem to realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend who could only orgasm using an electric toothbrush...

I bet she had white teeth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First of all dont let the negative Nancy's on this post get you down

2nd I agree with what's said speak to your wife and find out if there's anything subconsciously affecting her ability to orgasm, It may be a confidence thing (which judging by what you've said re how she feels about her age soubds very likely) if that is the case just the and make her feel as comfortable as you can and again speak to her about it.

I never ever used to cum during oral because I was insecure about how I looked down there, so while I used to enjoy it I could never relax enough to enjoy it properly. Not saying this is the case with your wife but confidence can have a bigger effect than people seem to realise "

Yes, I think that is exactly it - a lack of confidence. 60 seems to have brought on a big psychological barrier.

It would be great if my wife would come on here herself and chat to you supportive ladies.

We have a little us time planned for this evening. Time for a good chat while drinking something bubbly I think before I visit the bullet and wand shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vibrating cock rings can be good too!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

My suggestion would be to stop seeing her orgasm as your goal and responsibility.

She may not be bothered that she doesn’t cum all that often but loves sex and the attention you give her.

Loads of women don’t cum unless they do it themselves but still love sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My suggestion would be to stop seeing her orgasm as your goal and responsibility.

She may not be bothered that she doesn’t cum all that often but loves sex and the attention you give her.

Loads of women don’t cum unless they do it themselves but still love sex. "

Good advice. Can't believe I'm nearly 60 and still learning about sex. Hope I'm still learning at 70,80,90...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Take some sexy photos of her in her lingerie, put them on here (with her permission of course) then let her see all the fabs and great comments she gets. Might make her feel sexy and realise that shes still hot and there are other older women on here exploring their sexual desires?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My suggestion would be to stop seeing her orgasm as your goal and responsibility.

She may not be bothered that she doesn’t cum all that often but loves sex and the attention you give her.

Loads of women don’t cum unless they do it themselves but still love sex.

Good advice. Can't believe I'm nearly 60 and still learning about sex. Hope I'm still learning at 70,80,90..."

Just enjoy each other and try new things maybe loved or may not that's the fun of trying together me and Mr Marmite are still discovering new things about each other after all these years but always at the other persons pace just take time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man "

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do with tongue pre and post a session ... always manage to make her squirt, flicking and licking technic and direction is important... in fact I often wake up to her sitting on my face asking for more; always polite though and says "please" and "thank you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking for toys, it's worth to save up and invest in a good quality 'luxury' toy.

Here are my suggestions:

A clitoral suction toy: Womanizer, Satisfyer or Lelo Sona.

Wand: DOXY or Lovehoney's own brand. LH do various including non-wired rechargeable.

Bullet vibe: We-Vibe Tango or Lovehoney Desire. Both rechargeable with deep, rumbly vibrations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When Diane uses her pussy pump she finds her orgasms more intense because the area as become more sensitive because of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're looking for toys, it's worth to save up and invest in a good quality 'luxury' toy.

Here are my suggestions:

A clitoral suction toy: Womanizer, Satisfyer or Lelo Sona.

Wand: DOXY or Lovehoney's own brand. LH do various including non-wired rechargeable.

Bullet vibe: We-Vibe Tango or Lovehoney Desire. Both rechargeable with deep, rumbly vibrations.

"

Thank you for the useful suggstions. I'll look into those too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When Diane uses her pussy pump she finds her orgasms more intense because the area as become more sensitive because of it "

I'm thinking a good quality bullet is the way to go from all the advice. I'll look into a pussy pump too though. Thanks for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

Get her a Hitachi wand and hold it on her clit she cum like never before.

Best invention known to women!

Amen to that. Possibly the greatest investment I own next to my smoothie maker! xx"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP let us know how you get on x

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck OP let us know how you get on x"

Thanks. I'm not going to rush into anything. We need to have a chat first. I did try the other night but Mrs was more keen on action rather than talking. Not quite the oral sex she had in mind.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"When Diane uses her pussy pump she finds her orgasms more intense because the area as become more sensitive because of it

I'm thinking a good quality bullet is the way to go from all the advice. I'll look into a pussy pump too though. Thanks for the reply."

I have diabetes and it’s known that nerve endings get less sensitive (plus im older nowadays) so having a good (strong) vibrator tends to be required these days. So bullet all the way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get her a Hitachi wand and hold it on her clit she cum like never before."

Whoar!! Steady on. Baby steps

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

We love the Rocks Off Ignition bullet 10 speed, USB rechargeable, waterproof, discrete, strong vibes and lasts ages. Lovehoney sell them via fab

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

I bought my bullets and vibrating cock rings in Poundland..... Does the job fine

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you go onto the lovehoney site from here you get a discount, I think it's 10%?

Wands are very good, very powerful. I have the lovehoney mains wands, the original one and the new deluxe one.

I also have the satisfyer pro, which is awesome, but not all the ladies I've tried it on have found it works for them, a couple them it did nothing for.

Bullets I find ok but don't bother with now I have the wand.

Fingers and tongues are great, and depending on how she cums best or prefers to be stimulated will depend on the best toys for her.

I prefer toys to stimulate my clit but then if it gets too much I need cock or fingers inside me. The traditional rabbit is not for me.

I'm sure if she can relax that is the main thing

Bun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you go onto the lovehoney site from here you get a discount, I think it's 10%?

Bun "

I wasn't aware of the discount. Thanks for that and all the other advice.

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By *voncouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Try Jimmy Jane the one that has 2 ears available form lovehoney last time I looked. There is a vibratory in each of the ears and they fit beautifully on either side. It's V small but seriously powerful. We wore the first one out after 5 years and replaced. It's waterproof too. The other idea is a Womanizer which is like a tiny suction device. We had great fun with another couple having an orgasm race. Neither of us lasted 3 minutes ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try Jimmy Jane the one that has 2 ears available form lovehoney last time I looked. There is a vibratory in each of the ears and they fit beautifully on either side. "

Thank you. It looks like the kind of stimulator my wife had already mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a bullet it works for me every time has me cumin and cumin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a bullet it works for me every time has me cumin and cumin "

I haven't pay attention on what you said....only pay attention to your boobs

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

Mantrix rechargable wand is good

handy as no cord lasts 90mins on a charge and is not to big or to small and also not to expensive at £60 on lovehoney I got the wife one and she loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amongst many others we have a mains wand which we've added a fin type head from lovehoney and an Ann Summers morgasm contour - depending on how sensitive Mrs Tuth is feeling the wand can be too much, the morgasm is her go-to toy and small enough to go in her handbag and to clubs

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By *evilishone69Man
over a year ago

fleet

The mantrix is no longer than a banana just a bit fatter :p so can go in a handbag to :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mains wand does the job every time,wetter than an otters pocket

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"...Any advice or recommendations?

Maybe she needs a new man

This "

Sounds like shes bored ...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Just bought L a satifyer 2, arrived to day, should be interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

"

Try learning to play the guitar - I was recently assured that it was so much nicer having my nimble fingers exploring those delicate folds of skin than other men’s hands “like a flapping fish between my thighs”.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

Try learning to play the guitar - I was recently assured that it was so much nicer having my nimble fingers exploring those delicate folds of skin than other men’s hands “like a flapping fish between my thighs”."

Never thought of that, plectrums are so cheep, nice one.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is a suggestion a little different to others so far....

Have you tried anal toys? My inflatable butt plug gives me orgasms every single time... even when the bullets and wands fail.

If she's interested, definitely worth a try - then add a vibrator to the appropriate spot for a bit of an extra zing;)

Have fun

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"This is a suggestion a little different to others so far....

Have you tried anal toys? My inflatable butt plug gives me orgasms every single time... even when the bullets and wands fail.

If she's interested, definitely worth a try - then add a vibrator to the appropriate spot for a bit of an extra zing;)

Have fun "

Actually L likes the anal hook inserted forward against the g spot with a wand, just keep the pressure right.

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By *he SurveyorMan
over a year ago

Bury

This is not cheap, but it does the job like nothing else can.

http://we-vibe.com/tango

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought of that, plectrums are so cheep, nice one."

Lol, probably best not to use the pick....

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

An Anne Summers wand...... she won’t stop cumming with one of them x

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and


"Wow! Thanks for all the advice. Lots to investigate there. I think I'll start with the bullet although the Hitachi wand sounds amazing.

As for a new man - I totally agree. I keep suggesting she takes a younger lover but so far Mrs T is not keen "

I bought an Hitachi wand and if im honest Im not keen it makes me sore ???? but im fortunate whith my fella i cum and cum and cum given the chance oh and squirt, he also bought me a lovesence lush which he can control remotely from his iphone and that is amazing

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Satisfyer

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

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Definitely the claw from

Ann summers very good ... thinks it's call the ultimate O...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife rarely reaches a climax when we have sex. I thought a rabbit or a vibrating love egg might help and give my fingers and tongue a rest but she didn't like them inside her. I've ordered a couple of cock rings that vibrate, one has bunny ears. I plan to use them attached to my fingers first.

I considered the gels that are supposed to stimulate but reading this forum suggests they are rubbish or burn.

Any advice or recommendations?

"
i know how she feels.!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Get another person to provide the clitoral stimulation with their tongue, while you provide the penetrative part, pretty sure that will help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, so much good feed back here. Tbh my wife cums in numerous ways and can repeat 20 times. But it was not always that way. We've explored dozens of ways to achieve this. Tongue, toys tickle etc etc. Establish a rapour about this and explore! Unless the lady feels happy to explore nothing will work. She needs to feel special and you need to be really attentive. We have loads of toys including a wand. But nothing kills the mood like hunting for it in the knicker drawer and garden shed for extension lead. Prepare before bed. She has 2 ears but only 1 pussy! Use them in the same proportion! Talk about what she finds horny. Introduce the wand as a surprise in the dark under the covers . Don't jam it on her clit on max power! ! Start on min around other areas and move gently to the hot spots. You'll soon work out what works best. Most of all be loving and patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t struggle to climax during sex, but I have found that the wand I have is amazing. It helps me reach orgasm well and M enjoys watching me play with it, and uses it on me when we’re having our more kinky sessions.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Satisfyer ll, L says it is very quick...

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