FabSwingers.com forum: Fakes and set up merchant shaming

By *iMarried2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Near you

I know name and shame is frowned upon but when people are convinced by people spending a LOT of time on the lies just to get people to travel and keep messaging until the person “arrives” then hide, or start silly games that are obviously just for laughs!! “Park on xx street and flash twice and wave your arm out the window and we will tell you the house number”

When two or three or possibly more guys all arrive at the same place obviously all looking at each other and their phones!!! Driving around the same circles its got to get to a point were a simple “report to admin” that has no impact or is even reviewed from single guys, lets face it!!

Something on this site needs to change!!

Rant over!!! But am I alone in this???

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 of you all turned up without having spoken to or seen this person on cam either? its awful to have your time wasted, but isn't pretty basic common sense to actually speak to the person, if only briefly, first?

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Seriously 3 people turned up, did you speak to the others? As has already been said was there no social, no phone or cam contact prior, if not why not? Just block put it down to experience & move on, lessons to be learned here we thinks!

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 of you all turned up without having spoken to or seen this person on cam either? its awful to have your time wasted, but isn't pretty basic common sense to actually speak to the person, if only briefly, first?"

Being messed around isnt nice but its like you said , they all turned up to what could have been any situation setup by anyone . The idea of a row of cars flashing and guys waving their arms around did make me laugh out loud lol

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Admin review every report, it doesn't matter who submits it.

I'll post the action they take in my next post.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately