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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Hi fabbers,

We were wondering if we could get feedback on our profile. I'm aware how hard it is to captivate woman and most messages go unread as most ladies here go straight to profile. We get our share of unsavoury individuals contacting us so we understand.

I know our current pics are far from tantalising and there that one typical scrawny ass man with his dong out, hoping to get some more creative images up in the next few days but normal life first I suppose.

My wife would like to spend time with another lady just as much as I would love to watch her.

We are laid back, open, honest but relatively new to the wonders of inviting other people into our intimate life, we now realise that a wee social meet is more preferred than diving in head first and happy to oblige.

It's early days just now as well I know, still many days of life in front of us where we can meet the right individuals.

Thanks

Mr & Mrs Tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have a very good profile.

Lots of information as to what it is that you are looking for etc.

Maybe more than four pics would help?

Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire

So there’s lots of information which I think could be condensed, less like reading a story and more an advertisement bulletin, we are all trying to sell ourselves on here aren’t we!

And yes, better pics!

Good luck with fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit long imo. Few guys will bother to read it through. Shorten it, make more concise. You are clear on a few things you want. Other than that it's good as it hasn't got the usual don'ts in it. A few more photos may help though I see uve four in friends only...

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Tidied up a little and begin adding more images.

Guys still clearly don't read it though lol.

Thanks for the advice.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Tidied up a little and begin adding more images.

Guys still clearly don't read it though lol.

Thanks for the advice."

You profile comes across immediately as anti single guys. I undertsand why you have put what you have but there are ways of going about it. If you take a look at my write up you can see an example of this. Not saying it's the best profile you will ever read of course lol. I just don't think yours sells you very well.

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"You profile comes across immediately as anti single guys. I undertsand why you have put what you have but there are ways of going about it. If you take a look at my write up you can see an example of this. Not saying it's the best profile you will ever read of course lol. I just don't think yours sells you very well."

Our profile immediately as anti single guy? Please explain that more.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"You profile comes across immediately as anti single guys. I undertsand why you have put what you have but there are ways of going about it. If you take a look at my write up you can see an example of this. Not saying it's the best profile you will ever read of course lol. I just don't think yours sells you very well.

Our profile immediately as anti single guy? Please explain that more.

"

Are you only looking for bi-females too? It does feel a little like any Lady is fine but blokes have a strict criteria. Which is great if that’s what you want!

Do you only play as a couple, are you only looking for threesomes or would you full swap with couples? Would they have to be bi or would you play straight ina full swap scenario.

For me, your criteria leaves me with more questions than answers x

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"You profile comes across immediately as anti single guys. I undertsand why you have put what you have but there are ways of going about it. If you take a look at my write up you can see an example of this. Not saying it's the best profile you will ever read of course lol. I just don't think yours sells you very well.

Our profile immediately as anti single guy? Please explain that more.

"

One paragraph saying ladies we know you will read our profile which is clearly a hint that men won't. Next paragraph you are having a go at men who pretend to be bi when they are not.

I am not saying what you say is rubbish. But those 2 paragraphs take up about 50% of your profile. I just think you could use that amount in better ways to sell yourselves.

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

To long, to short, to much or to little info, straight guys bitching because we won't meet them.

Says on our profile that we're looking for bi woman.

As a couple we would expect people to meet us a couple not alone, our interests are listed on our profile just the same as others.

Pieman300 from reading forum posts we've learnt that most single ladies will read a profile BEFORE reading a message and from most of the ridiculous messages we get it's clearly the larger majority of men DON'T read profiles.

As for guys pretending they are bi sadly we've had a guy that said he was bi but when he got here he was suddenly straigh.

Totally at a loss here, feel like deleting everything I've written lol

Mr. Tease

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"

To long, to short, to much or to little info, straight guys bitching because we won't meet them.

Says on our profile that we're looking for bi woman.

As a couple we would expect people to meet us a couple not alone, our interests are listed on our profile just the same as others.

Pieman300 from reading forum posts we've learnt that most single ladies will read a profile BEFORE reading a message and from most of the ridiculous messages we get it's clearly the larger majority of men DON'T read profiles.

As for guys pretending they are bi sadly we've had a guy that said he was bi but when he got here he was suddenly straigh.

Totally at a loss here, feel like deleting everything I've written lol

Mr. Tease"

It just needs tweaking. I only meet couples with my partner. I would assume from your profile you don’t want to meet couples at all, only bi-singles? But it’s an assumption as it’s not clear.

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

I'd be able to tweak better if I had access to pc/laptop but I'm stuck using my phone just now which is a nightmare.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"

To long, to short, to much or to little info, straight guys bitching because we won't meet them.

Says on our profile that we're looking for bi woman.

As a couple we would expect people to meet us a couple not alone, our interests are listed on our profile just the same as others.

Pieman300 from reading forum posts we've learnt that most single ladies will read a profile BEFORE reading a message and from most of the ridiculous messages we get it's clearly the larger majority of men DON'T read profiles.

As for guys pretending they are bi sadly we've had a guy that said he was bi but when he got here he was suddenly straigh.

Totally at a loss here, feel like deleting everything I've written lol

Mr. Tease"

The things you don't like about fab and indeed in swinging in general aren't going to change. I just think you should put all the positive things you want to get across in and lose the negatives. It will be obvious from messages you recieve who and who hasn't read your profile. And I would just make the rule about bi males only take up less space in the overall scheme of your bio.

Thus.

Only meet as a couple. Bi males only please.

One liner covers both.

Use the rest of your bio to get across all your positive points. People ignoring your profile won't see it either way. Those who do read will see it more positively.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I'd be able to tweak better if I had access to pc/laptop but I'm stuck using my phone just now which is a nightmare."

O yes. I do feel your pain on that score! So much easier with a proper keyboard.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

More together as a couple! For me is important to see the couple together .

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"More together as a couple! For me is important to see the couple together . "

We only ever meet as a couple, social or fun. Annoys us when folks mail and try to meet just the missus or me together, no that's not going to happen.

Even had a guy saying he would pick her up in his car and drop her off where she was going , she was heading out to meet friends.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"More together as a couple! For me is important to see the couple together .

We only ever meet as a couple, social or fun. Annoys us when folks mail and try to meet just the missus or me together, no that's not going to happen.

Even had a guy saying he would pick her up in his car and drop her off where she was going , she was heading out to meet friends.

"
I meant more pictures as a couple !!!! Ops!!! Sorry the pictures of your profile , looks like two individuals , who put their pictures together .

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"More together as a couple! For me is important to see the couple together .

We only ever meet as a couple, social or fun. Annoys us when folks mail and try to meet just the missus or me together, no that's not going to happen.

Even had a guy saying he would pick her up in his car and drop her off where she was going , she was heading out to meet friends.

I meant more pictures as a couple !!!! Ops!!! Sorry the pictures of your profile , looks like two individuals , who put their pictures together . "

Ah that makes more sense, yeah I agree. It's difficult to get snaps as a couple though lol.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" It's difficult to get snaps as a couple though lol."

Why is it difficult? I would never arrange to meet a couple without seeing some pics of them together.

I also think your profile ends up feeling negative - "we are not here to provide a service" etc

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


" It's difficult to get snaps as a couple though lol.

Why is it difficult? I would never arrange to meet a couple without seeing some pics of them together."

With me being 5"4' and really slim my wife feels uncomfortable seeing pictures of us together because she thinks it makes her look really fat as people would compare her size against mine. It's getting the right picture of us together that she will approve and I'm not going to put any up that she isn't happy with.

This is where the difficulty lies but I do understand what you mean.

As for the last statement, yeah got annoyed at the flood of guys who act like people are prostitutes providing free service.

Hidden our profile just now till we have a chance to sit down and restructure it.

Mr. Tease

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By *randMrsTease OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Fingers crossed with the new update, think I've managed to remove all negativity.

Will try and get some more pics of us together up this week.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Fingers crossed with the new update, think I've managed to remove all negativity.

Will try and get some more pics of us together up this week.

"

Love it!! Couple of photos together & you’re set!!

Xx

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