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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, thanks for reading, I'm after a little advice, my girlfriend is fully bi and I have been 'dabbling' with my bi side, I absolutely love my cock and bum being played with, licked, kissed, sucked etc etc, although I dont like the idea of being fucked in the bum I don't mind being fingered and licked, anyway, the advice I'm looking for is this, I have tasted my own pre-cum but not my own cum, I'm not too sure whether I would like touching or 'tasting' another guy, if you know what I mean, I suppose I would have to find a willing participant in a couple that would go into a dark room with us, anyhow, how would I go about doing that? Thanks in advance, Paul x

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

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If its a pitch black room you may well get it up your bum accidentally. I would stick to low lighting then you can see what is approaching what orifice in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, thanks for reading, I'm after a little advice, my girlfriend is fully bi and I have been 'dabbling' with my bi side, I absolutely love my cock and bum being played with, licked, kissed, sucked etc etc, although I dont like the idea of being fucked in the bum I don't mind being fingered and licked, anyway, the advice I'm looking for is this, I have tasted my own pre-cum but not my own cum, I'm not too sure whether I would like touching or 'tasting' another guy, if you know what I mean, I suppose I would have to find a willing participant in a couple that would go into a dark room with us, anyhow, how would I go about doing that? Thanks in advance, Paul x"

Contrary to popular belief much guy on guy bi play does not involve anal at all.

My suggestion is to find a guy that both you and your gf are comfortable with and to share him between you.

You could also try a male orientated bi night where there is no pressure or expectation and you only need go as far as the mood takes you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you're not sure about whether you'd want to touch or taste another guy OP how would going into a dark room make a difference?

If you're curious enough to want to explore that side of your sexuality, why not go along to a bi night at a club with your partner - there'd be no pressure to "do" anything but you could play with your girlfriend while watching others and if you felt comfortable enough take things further with others - most guys in that environment would be happy to go at your pace if you explained, and if you didn't feel totally comfortable you could potentially have a straight MMF anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If its a pitch black room you may well get it up your bum accidentally. I would stick to low lighting then you can see what is approaching what orifice in advance x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Contrary to popular belief much guy on guy bi play does not involve anal at all.

My suggestion is to find a guy that both you and your gf are comfortable with and to share him between you.

You could also try a male orientated bi night where there is no pressure or expectation and you only need go as far as the mood takes you."

Thanks

yeah I know a lot of guy bi play doesnt involve anal, I was just mentioning that I dont think I would like it, I've been looking at bi nights at clubs, suppose I'd have to just go one night and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're not sure about whether you'd want to touch or taste another guy OP how would going into a dark room make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you're not sure about whether you'd want to touch or taste another guy OP how would going into a dark room make a difference?

I'm not sure going into a dark room would make a difference really, dont know why I put that lol

I think a club bi night is probably the way to go

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

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How would you know you had experienced a man sucking you if you were in a dark room? It might be a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies, looks like a bi night at a club is probably the thing to do, need to find a local club to me that hold bi nights, probably at weekend as I work during the week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you know you had experienced a man sucking you if you were in a dark room? It might be a woman. "

Already answered that one Sally

Plus, I dont mind men sucking me, just not sure the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contrary to popular belief much guy on guy bi play does not involve anal at all.

My suggestion is to find a guy that both you and your gf are comfortable with and to share him between you.

You could also try a male orientated bi night where there is no pressure or expectation and you only need go as far as the mood takes you.

Thanks

Good luck

It can be a very erotic and exciting experience. Most of my best bi experiences have been in clubs on bi nights. For some reason the vibe tends to be much more relaxed and friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you more you make a deal of it, the bigger an issue it will be.

Talk to guys, explain your limits and your fears, meet and see what happens.

To me, the best meets are the ones where all parties know and respect the others boundaries but aren't scripted in any way beyond that.

It will either feel right or it won't

I am not interested in male on male bum fun, I certainly don't take cock but, in the heat of the moment, I have fucked guys.

I would never take part in a meet that me fucking a guy was expected though - only if it felt right with him at that time.

I can't really comment on the cock sucking cos I like that either way and prefer to receive a facial or a mouthful for my troubles that have it on my chest / belly

So I am kind of over the hump in the spunk tasting worries. Not all taste nice though. I will just say that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you more you make a deal of it, the bigger an issue it will be.

Talk to guys, explain your limits and your fears, meet and see what happens.

To me, the best meets are the ones where all parties know and respect the others boundaries but aren't scripted in any way beyond that.

It will either feel right or it won't

I am not interested in male on male bum fun, I certainly don't take cock but, in the heat of the moment, I have fucked guys.

I would never take part in a meet that me fucking a guy was expected though - only if it felt right with him at that time.

I can't really comment on the cock sucking cos I like that either way and prefer to receive a facial or a mouthful for my troubles that have it on my chest / belly

So I am kind of over the hump in the spunk tasting worries. Not all taste nice though. I will just say that."

Thank you, thats what I needed to know, I cant say whether I would fuck a guy or not but at the mo definitely not, you never know in the future tho, thats what I was a bit concerned about, sucking cock and the taste, I'm a fussy eater so dont like all tastes lol, thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck

It can be a very erotic and exciting experience. Most of my best bi experiences have been in clubs on bi nights. For some reason the vibe tends to be much more relaxed and friendly."

Thank you x

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

It's that old problem of, you are really keen to try the taste when you are sexually excited, but the split second you have cum the reality kicks in, (it should be really easy to taste your own, but it isn't,) two solutions, get your missus to dip her finger and stick it quickly in your mouth while you are still cumming, or next time you are giving head tell the guy to hide his orgasm from you till it's too late to remove your mouth, either way makes it not your fault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's that old problem of, you are really keen to try the taste when you are sexually excited, but the split second you have cum the reality kicks in, (it should be really easy to taste your own, but it isn't,) two solutions, get your missus to dip her finger and stick it quickly in your mouth while you are still cumming, or next time you are giving head tell the guy to hide his orgasm from you till it's too late to remove your mouth, either way makes it not your fault.

sounds good, and quite horny too

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