FabSwingers.com forum: 2018 coming out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought "

Life’s to short to not be who you are.

However you do it/or not just be true to yourself.

Good luck sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming out is a brave step for anyone to do.

You should be able to live your life for who you really are.

Good luck OP and hope you get the support you need from those people who matter to you the most.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Good luck op. I've always been bi and my friends and family know.

Do what you need to do for yourself, people how truly love you will accept you for who you are x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op.

I found it to be much easier than I imagined and pretty much everyone has been very supportive.

It’s pretty well documented on here my journey.

I was the dj in local pubs for nye the past two years and once people picked their jaws up off the floor we had outstanding nights.

The first person you tell is the hardest. It gets easier and eventually so liberating after that.

Go for it xxx

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought "

are you gay or bi or just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought

are you gay or bi or just curious"

Have you not looked at his profile ?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought

are you gay or bi or just curious

Have you not looked at his profile ?"

His profile isn’t really in question But he says gay but refers in the text to looking for women. How he runs his profile wasn’t the question.

When a family friend told us he was gay many many years ago it was tough on him. We all knew of course and it barely registered for us. If you feel the need to tell people then just do it but really it’s nobody’s business. The rest of us don’t go round confessing we are straight.

Maybe spend some time coming to terms with what it means for you and when you feel comfortable with how you feel you’ll be confident telling others if you want to.

Good luckk

V x

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought

are you gay or bi or just curious

Have you not looked at his profile ?"

Hi, to be fair - he has chosen ‘gay’ but then says this

‘and how to make a woman tick by getting a feeling for her body’

So it’s a little confusing

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This year I am thinking fuck it I'm gonna come out

Try and find a guy and date him

I am a pretty masculine type of guy and I work in area which I feel I could lose respect for doing it

Plus I have a daughter and her mum to tell

Anybody find it tough or easier than they thought

are you gay or bi or just curious

Have you not looked at his profile ?

Hi, to be fair - he has chosen ‘gay’ but then says this

‘and how to make a woman tick by getting a feeling for her body’

So it’s a little confusing

Xxx"

I suspect he’s decided to come out, selected ‘gay’ but hasn’t had a rewrite yet.

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