FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile."

It looks fine. Simple, straightforward and not too wordy. Pictures are ok and gives a good impression of what is on offer.

However your verifications are only from TV/TS... if you want to attract a wider base, you may want to meet and get verified by couples, single (cis) women, etc.

I get loads of men who contact me and their profile say they are straight and no sign they are into TV/TS (no TV/TS verificationsm no TV/TS "Friends" nothing!). And when I ask them if they know I am trans, they say "yes but I don't put that down because it puts other women off me"...

It is refreshing that you don't pander after those kind of women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi All, I’d be grateful for some advice on my profile.

It looks fine. Simple, straightforward and not too wordy. Pictures are ok and gives a good impression of what is on offer.

However your verifications are only from TV/TS... if you want to attract a wider base, you may want to meet and get verified by couples, single (cis) women, etc.

It is refreshing that you don't pander after those kind of women?"

Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps explain why you can’t accommodate otherwise we’ll presume you’re attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps explain why you can’t accommodate otherwise we’ll presume you’re attached "

Thanks changed setting.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along."

For sure, and as I've said, get a mix of meets and verifications from Couples, single Females etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks, not sure what I can do to improve opportunities for meets. Will just keep plodding along.

For sure, and as I've said, get a mix of meets and verifications from Couples, single Females etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per the advice on the thread you initially tried to hijack;

“Your profile pic is of a cock - maybe lose that, we know what one looks like!”

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Agree with above. If you are looking to meet women and couples you need a different profile pic.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty OP it's a very generic profile not that different from most other single male profiles on here - you need to make yourself stand out, inject some of your personality into it.

People will often read a profile before reading a message to try and get a flavour of the profile owner, so by not giving a lot of detail and using the get out "any questions just ask" you may be putting people off.

Doesn't have to be a life story, but should include some detail about who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly a reason as to why someone would want to meet you over the next person.

I'd ditch the cock pic avatar too - from your public pics you've got a decent body - show that off and not your cock. Also learn how to use the timer on your phone's camera to avoid the taking pics in a mirror with a flash going off effect

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I agree with the above - if I get a message & the profile pic is a cock, it’s an instant delete.

Aside from that, it’s pretty generic but you have a diving photo so there’s clearly interesting stuff you could put in your profile.

Think of it like a CV - if it’s forgettable, are you going to get the job?

Clubs and socials are also a good way to get more veris, so maybe try that too

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