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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone on here find it can be very one sided (couples or singles), it irritates me as the female half of a couple to find so many people are only interested in women for example there's quite a few that want the whole 'bi' experience it the elusive ffm (now I don't class myself as bi or bi curious as I'm passed being curious but I'm not attracted to women I enjoy playing with them occasionally)...

I'd love to watch my hubby with a woman but that very very rarely happens tbh as they are only on here looking for a woman to play with the amount of times we've spoken to couples to be told "I'll play with you but not your husband , although you can play with mine while your husband watches " as for constant can I play with your wife alone?

One of the things I'd love to happen personally is for my hubby to go off and meet alone but everyone then thinks it's him on a single profile (even with our verifications clearly talking about us both )

I feel sorry for the god knows how many men on here obviously meets do happen but i find its very 'Female orientated/based' if that makes sense and as much as I enjoy it I can't help feel that it's one sided no matter what we try its not just about the women it's about experiencing things as a couple not just women being a plaything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We thought the whole idea of meeting couples was about everyone having fun??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s more that you don’t accommodate is maybe cutting you’re chances.

The odds are always stacked against men on sites like this even within couples.

Just a fact of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree! G messages ladies on here & they will chat politely but most are a bit aloof, like they’re doing him a favour by giving him the time of day! I have a single profile too, for hosting, so I get how many messages they get but either ‘no thanks’ or chat & meet would be better!! He does play at Townhouse but if we are together, the play tends to centre around me.

I only get to see him play when we swap as a couple!! I love hearing about it after he’s played at club but I really love watching him & the chances are few & far between!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We thought the whole idea of meeting couples was about everyone having fun??"

I suppose it depends on the couple's definition of what is 'fun' for them. I ma often asked by couples, to have sex with the man, while the woman watches him enjoy himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the op . .The amount of couples that are really only looking for the female half of the couple is getting more common ...we're here as a couple not for one if us to be the spectator that's not what we are about..everyone involved any underlying motives then it's not for us..

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I agree with op were the same if your not interested in both then your not for us we do this as a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s more that you don’t accommodate is maybe cutting you’re chances.

The odds are always stacked against men on sites like this even within couples.

Just a fact of life! "

We don't mind accommodating sometimes but its not so way with kids (especially older teenage kids) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong we have fun when it happens just sometimes it comes across as the woman half of a couple is expected to do the work while everyone else gets a floor show (not sure how to word it )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the opposite problem with couples. Couldn't find one I liked where the man would be joining in and fucking us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it's not just us. Finding it hard to find a couple to play with for both our pleasure, while i'm not bi I am curious.

I don't understand the single guts that message asking for me to play alone.

No, Tom is always there and plenty of gorgleous single ladies using the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we speak to a couple, we expect to meet a couple. If we speak to a single, we expect to meet a single.

When it comes to playing, we don't mind if only one of us plays.

We often get a couples account saying via a message, "Just the guy available" and we've had a single guy wanting his mate to join in. That just results in an immediate block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone on here find it can be very one sided (couples or singles), it irritates me as the female half of a couple to find so many people are only interested in women for example there's quite a few that want the whole 'bi' experience it the elusive ffm (now I don't class myself as bi or bi curious as I'm passed being curious but I'm not attracted to women I enjoy playing with them occasionally)...

I'd love to watch my hubby with a woman but that very very rarely happens tbh as they are only on here looking for a woman to play with the amount of times we've spoken to couples to be told "I'll play with you but not your husband , although you can play with mine while your husband watches " as for constant can I play with your wife alone?

One of the things I'd love to happen personally is for my hubby to go off and meet alone but everyone then thinks it's him on a single profile (even with our verifications clearly talking about us both )

I feel sorry for the god knows how many men on here obviously meets do happen but i find its very 'Female orientated/based' if that makes sense and as much as I enjoy it I can't help feel that it's one sided no matter what we try its not just about the women it's about experiencing things as a couple not just women being a plaything"
women rule and they rule every situation ,men sit patiently waiting

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