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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone give us any pointers on what we are doing wrong on our profile as we are not getting any interest from couples or women, only men.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

You have no photos just friend only ones, so I don't know what the male or female look like so not sure if we would be attracted to you's so I wouldn't contact you's. D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We did have them public only just moved them friends tonight due to many a picture collector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hint that you want bareback will put some off as will you saying happy to meet while your children are in bed will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did have them public only just moved them friends tonight due to many a picture collector "

You’ll struggle to attract couples without any public pics, just put a couple up which can’t ID you to give folk an idea.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The fact that the male has had the snip, so no worries about getting pregnant. Most people on here are not happy with bareback sex.

The fact that you have meets with your children upstairs, is another fact people are not keen on.

You have a few requirements, but don't say much about why you would appeal to others.

To be honest, you say what you want, but need to think about why the people reading your profile would get in touch with you.

Hope that's not too blunt, but you asked for advise

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Your profile reads a bit ‘odd’ and demanding... oral must be with without condom, sex CAN be safe - sort of says to me that you’re not bothered if you play safe or not, as does when you say ‘mr has had snip so no chance of getting pregnant’, definitely says that you don’t play safe.

It’s all a bit demanding and with no public pics I would pass your profile by

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"The hint that you want bareback will put some off as will you saying happy to meet while your children are in bed will "

Interesting that I picked up those two points too. You wrote it more concisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd pass a profile with no public pics by, and if we did come across you in the normal course of things even with pictures the suggestion of bareback meets would put us off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks we’ve changed things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The hint that you want bareback will put some off as will you saying happy to meet while your children are in bed will

Interesting that I picked up those two points too. You wrote it more concisely "

Why thank you kind lady x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

OK, so now the problem is your profile is dishonest.

You now say 'safe sex only', but we all know on this thread that you haven't played safe before posters gave you their feedback. You clearly don't believe in safe sex.

You've adapted your profile to suit what people have said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the fact we are willing to try new things is being dishonest. We cannot win either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have no photos just friend only ones, so I don't know what the male or female look like so not sure if we would be attracted to you's so I wouldn't contact you's. D "

Sorry for poaching, ^ your a hot couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the fact we are willing to try new things is being dishonest. We cannot win either way"

I think you need to be honest.

Dishonesty shines through so you’re better off admitting you bareback as there are lots of others who do too.

People told you what things, such as that, that put them off. They didn’t say you have to hide what you like.

Your selection of pics, in my opinion, is the reason why you’re attracting so many men rather than couples. You have gone for the homemade porn pics that many men will like.

When we swing as a couple we want to see you guys as a happy, smiling couple. Pics together either dressed or in a state of undress. A few of you separately perhaps. Something erotic, sexy, not pornographic.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"You have no photos just friend only ones, so I don't know what the male or female look like so not sure if we would be attracted to you's so I wouldn't contact you's. D

Sorry for poaching, ^ your a hot couple "

Thank you, love your photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks might change some though as don’t want people thinking we’re creating a porn show as that wasn’t the intention x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't find the bandaged knee especially erotic. Could you crop it put of the pics?

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