FabSwingers.com forum: Issue with my verification's.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I just messaged someone local to me on here. My message was short and polite and had face pics attached. It wasn't rude or presumptive in any way at all.

The message I got back however I felt was a very presumptive and a bit rude. I was told I was a "typical timewaster" with "no intentions of fucking anyone as your verification's attest"! Needless to say I was a bit annoyed at them instantly deciding I was a time waster.

But my question for you all is do my verification's give the impression that I'm a time waster? Personally I'm 99% sure that they don't but thought it can't hurt to seek other opinions.

One is from a couple that I randomly met at a spa and the other is from someone who I'd wanted to arrange something with but was just never able to as life got in the way.

I've had other verification's on a old profile but those people had left Fab when I came back a few months ago. As people know it's difficult for single blokes to get verified on here.

So what do people think do the two verification's I have do anything to give off the impression I'm a time waster or are they fine? Should I not show them or leave them there?

Just asking about the verification's not my profile or photo's as planning to give them an overhaul soon anyway.

Thanks all

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Jesus that’s harsh - it may have been that both of the people were willing to chat and play at a later date.

I have friends in the scene who I will play with and I have friends that I want to play with but haven’t asked yet

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Display your verifications and ignore rude people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sound a bit uptight, be glad you didn't meet as you're not compatible.

Your veri's look fine to me but it's up to you what you have on your profile- like attracts like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think they give the impression you're a time waster. Having said that I do think it's a bit odd that someone was happy to verify you for exchanging smiles!!

I apologise if I've misread it though (your last veri).

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Thankfully not everybody's this nasty. Block and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt take it to heart too much OP.

At times on here your dammed if you do,dammed if you dont (sending 1st polite contact message)

At least you have some verifications,more than some have,and plenty newbies here seem to see a 1st veri as a badge of being genuine.

A verification just shows that you and they met(or cammed ) and its their take on you,what you and they got upto is between you and them

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If someone didn’t like our veri’s for whatever reason, I suspect they are the type of people I don’t want to meet anyway.

Saves so much time if you let it go and it gives you another tick in your block box.

What’s the point in wasting energy on something that will never stimulate you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think they give the impression you're a time waster. Having said that I do think it's a bit odd that someone was happy to verify you for exchanging smiles!!

I apologise if I've misread it though (your last veri)."

Yeah I can see why that might sound a little bit odd. They messaged me later in the evening asking if it was me they'd seen at the spa, we had a pleasant little exchange of messages and without asking they just left me the nice veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really annoying when you can't get laid and no one will fuck you because you don't have verifications. What a vicious circle.

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By *avidandjaneukCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

Granted, your veris are not about play meets but that doesnt mean you are a timewaster! Perhaps the person you messaged is having a bad day haha. Shrug it off and move on.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I was pretty sure there wasn't anything wrong with them and that the lady I'd messaged was just being a bit uptight and rude.

Like I said though thought it couldn't hurt to check with others.

Thanks again everyone, it's a shame some people on here can be so rude and judgmental. But good knowing there's still nice well intentioned people on here you can ask for opinions/advice.

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