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Best way to approach MMF threesome with my wife

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By *anchesterjammin OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

How’s everyone!

I’m looking for advice on how to approach my wife on the thought of her fucking another man.

It’s a massive turn on for me and I really want to introduce her to the idea without upsetting her. I’ve got mixed thoughts on her feelings on this. Sometimes I think she would be up for it sometimes I think she would go mental if i mentioned it.

Best way to approach people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do it openly whilst having some intimate time

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By *urious shy wifeCouple
over a year ago

Alford

I guess most people have had the “tell me your fantasy” conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We where playing one of those sexy board games and the Mrs got one of the cards where she had to lie back and have her pussy rubbed and I said bet you would love to have a couple of guys do this to you. She said how would you sort that out. So I told her about cupids in Manchester and how you d seen it on the internet. She said show me so I did and she got very turned on. The sex that night was amazing. A couple of days later I asked her if she wanted to go to cupids and she said she would go. We went along and finished up in a room being watched by a black guy who she asked me to ask him in and to shut the door. She asked him to lick her pussy and rub it while she played with my cock. She went on to fuck him and loved every second of it. We went on to go to other clubs and always had great mmf. Good luck hope she comes round to it it’s great fun.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Give her a late Christmas present of some sexual favours passes, maybe three cards each giving her a free pass to explore any fantasy she can think of, without repercussions or the choice for you to say no, then just do as she tells you, if you are lucky she will come up with your wish, if not maybe you will get three wishes back for your next birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange to meet someone in a hotel bar, lots of flirting n drinks then suggest or invite the person back to your room. In the heat of the moment I'm sure your wife will just go for the spontaneity and bingo it's done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way is communication. Ask her gently when you're having some sexy time together, not just outright, but start a fantasy conversation and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... after reading your profile and nothing about the wife knows etc... and 24 previous meets on an old account... why not get her to join here ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How's your sexual communication? Can you talk about your fantasies with each other quite easily? If not work on that. The only way to approach swinging is by chatting about it with her. If your communication isn't good and honest then swinging will cause problems anyway.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"How’s everyone!

I’m looking for advice on how to approach my wife on the thought of her fucking another man.

It’s a massive turn on for me and I really want to introduce her to the idea without upsetting her. I’ve got mixed thoughts on her feelings on this. Sometimes I think she would be up for it sometimes I think she would go mental if i mentioned it.

Best way to approach people? "

We were watching porn while fucking (am porn, not professional crap) and during a MMF clip I said "Wouldn't you like that?"

To my surprise (delight) she went "Mmmm yeah!"

As soon as that door was open it was easy to walk through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always show her your profile and see what she says?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Arrange to meet someone in a hotel bar, lots of flirting n drinks then suggest or invite the person back to your room. In the heat of the moment I'm sure your wife will just go for the spontaneity and bingo it's done"

Ha ha! Yeah, that's not a gamble in the least.

This is real life not a cheesy 70s porn video.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Arrange to meet someone in a hotel bar, lots of flirting n drinks then suggest or invite the person back to your room. In the heat of the moment I'm sure your wife will just go for the spontaneity and bingo it's done

Ha ha! Yeah, that's not a gamble in the least.

This is real life not a cheesy 70s porn video."

And no man would want to expose his wife to that kind of situation without her express consent...would he?

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By *issgoerCouple
over a year ago

acton

My man just said it to me when he was d*unk I was well up for it just waiting to for it to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about talking to her about it? Radical, I know.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Another amazing husband ! Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How’s everyone!

I’m looking for advice on how to approach my wife on the thought of her fucking another man.

It’s a massive turn on for me and I really want to introduce her to the idea without upsetting her. I’ve got mixed thoughts on her feelings on this. Sometimes I think she would be up for it sometimes I think she would go mental if i mentioned it.

Best way to approach people? "

Show her the pictures on your profile, especially the bare back ones...i'm sure she'll be delighted

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By *issgoerCouple
over a year ago

acton

Very radical

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

Show her your profile and tell her how much fun it is. She'll jump at the chance.

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"How’s everyone!

I’m looking for advice on how to approach my wife on the thought of her fucking another man.

It’s a massive turn on for me and I really want to introduce her to the idea without upsetting her. I’ve got mixed thoughts on her feelings on this. Sometimes I think she would be up for it sometimes I think she would go mental if i mentioned it.

Best way to approach people?

Show her the pictures on your profile, especially the bare back ones...i'm sure she'll be delighted"

That probably is her, imagine how turned on she's going to be knowing her puctures are out there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always show her your profile and see what she says? "
haha and display the veris

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

I asked mine she said yes

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over a year ago

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

I’ve been with my wife 11 years and always chickened out of asking for fear of her thinking bad of me and thinking I don’t love her respect her for wanting to share her!

Last year I admitted like most blokes I’d love to see her fucked! To really let her hair down and enjoy herself would be the ultimate for me!

She said no!

But we do go to clubs and play together in that electric environment with couples fucking everywhere and I love it!!!

We don’t go enough maybe 3 times a year (I’d go every week given the chance)

She knows what I’d like and that she can do anything she wants on those nights so if one day she decides to play then happy days if not I’m still happy just going and playing together, I still figure I’m one of the lucky ones and so nice to have it out in the open and no secrets,so tell her it’s a fantasy and see how she reacts

Good luck

Mark

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Plenty of porn related to what you would like, while there playing talk, suggesting I bet you would love to be her fucking him right now, I bet you would love another cock to play with etc.

If you can't talk about it then it's not going to happen.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Unfortunately your best and easiest opportunity was before you decided to play on here alone.

Has the idea of getting your own wife involved only just become exciting?

I would think you’d find it a very difficult situation if you have played as much as you have, to now start with your wife. It’s a very small community out there and the risk of bumping into someone you’ve met alone

And I’m speaking from experience - this happened to me with my last partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just show your wife your profile, you never know she might even be on here as well .

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I’ve been with my wife 11 years and always chickened out of asking for fear of her thinking bad of me and thinking I don’t love her respect her for wanting to share her!

Last year I admitted like most blokes I’d love to see her fucked! To really let her hair down and enjoy herself would be the ultimate for me!

She said no!

But we do go to clubs and play together in that electric environment with couples fucking everywhere and I love it!!!

We don’t go enough maybe 3 times a year (I’d go every week given the chance)

She knows what I’d like and that she can do anything she wants on those nights so if one day she decides to play then happy days if not I’m still happy just going and playing together, I still figure I’m one of the lucky ones and so nice to have it out in the open and no secrets,so tell her it’s a fantasy and see how she reacts

Good luck

Mark"

That’s a gem of a wife.

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

During sex mention things like how hot it would be if someone knew what you was up too..

Stumble upon you..

Watch you..

Join you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your 2 nd best friend to ask her and lend him a hard hat

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Talk things through with her, then change your profile to a couples profile with her, that way you get to keep any verifications you already have, making the assumption that she knows you are on here? Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the power of subliminal suggestion

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By *ife to play withCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Next time she is giving you a b/j ask her if she would like to be fucked from behind at the same time,

That's how we started LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always show her your profile and see what she says? "

Was waiting for this...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just be open.

Explain that it's a fantasy that you would love to explore.

Her reaction will let you know if it is of any interest to her.

Good luck, it's great fun with the right people.

Mr

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By *anchesterjammin OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

That’s a belting idea

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood


"I’ve been with my wife 11 years and always chickened out of asking for fear of her thinking bad of me and thinking I don’t love her respect her for wanting to share her!

Last year I admitted like most blokes I’d love to see her fucked! To really let her hair down and enjoy herself would be the ultimate for me!

She said no!

But we do go to clubs and play together in that electric environment with couples fucking everywhere and I love it!!!

We don’t go enough maybe 3 times a year (I’d go every week given the chance)

She knows what I’d like and that she can do anything she wants on those nights so if one day she decides to play then happy days if not I’m still happy just going and playing together, I still figure I’m one of the lucky ones and so nice to have it out in the open and no secrets,so tell her it’s a fantasy and see how she reacts

Good luck

Mark

That’s a gem of a wife. "

Thank you yes she is

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Gotta get it out in the open be a shame if you both wanted to but neither spoke up!

Lot of fun to be had out there and life’s to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How’s everyone!

I’m looking for advice on how to approach my wife on the thought of her fucking another man.

It’s a massive turn on for me and I really want to introduce her to the idea without upsetting her. I’ve got mixed thoughts on her feelings on this. Sometimes I think she would be up for it sometimes I think she would go mental if i mentioned it.

Best way to approach people? "

Put some MMF porn on and ask her if she likes the look of trying it with a toy first, then if she likes it ask her if she would like to try it for real.

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