FabSwingers.com forum: MMF - first arranged one imminent

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, having had some +1 experiences in a club (when attending as part of a couple - sadly no more), I'm now arranging my first pre-arranged MMF meet (looking like it'll be this weekend).

Now I know there's a few permutatiuons wrt an MMF meet (venue, format), but nevertheless, just wondered what the usual etiquette is? (it seemed a whole lot easier in a club format!)...it'll be at their place.

Take a bottle of wine?

Is it usual to sit around & chat for a 'polite' short while "So, that Amber Rudd is a miserable looking old trout isn't she" (I jest...ok?!)...or should I assume that pretty soon after getting there, it'll be a case of kit off "Oooh, that's good ...lick my lovepump Mrs Jones" (I'm not being serious)

Anyway, I welcome input from seasoned MMFers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think taking your clothes off and asking the lady to lick your love pump is the perfect way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few mfms and don't expect the guy to bring anything but a bottle of wine would be gladly accepted especially if you were planning having on a glass too.

We usually chat for a bit, settles the nerves if it's a first meet, nice to catch up if it's an old friend but more often it's general chat and comparing stories and experiences to date rather than politics.

Sometimes if we're meeting for the first time and a guy is a bit concerned about misreading signs we've come up with the suggestion that if I (T) do or say x then he's good to make a move if he's comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been the single male on a few occasions in a MMF and they’ve always been at mine but I think a bottle of wine is definitely a good idea. Usually, when meeting for the first time, we all sit down for a chat and a drink, try to have a laugh, usually over previous meet experience, funny stories etc. In my experience, the hubby has suggested that things get going when they both feel comfortable. Everyone is different with one hubby saying “take her to the bedroom and get to know each other and I’ll join you later” to “I can’t believe you’ve still got your clothes on!” When speaking to his wife. It’s sometimes difficult to get things moving when the couple are on the sofa and you’re in a single chair, when the time is right suggest that hubby and you swap seats so you’re sitting next to wifey, it doesn’t take long for the old hand on leg routine and then things will take their natural course!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We'll normally chat for a while and the Jill will sit between us guys on the sofa where her hands begin to wander

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"We'll normally chat for a while and the Jill will sit between us guys on the sofa where her hands begin to wander

Never had the pmeasure of MMF meet would lve to hear your feedback

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