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"Best to have a look at the club reviews for the area you would like to visit. Most have comprehensive websites." This, good luck and have fun x | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol " Most people felt that way on their first visit. Only one way to get over that feeling | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol " OP pretty much everyone feels this way when they first go, it is normal to be nervous. Do some research on clubs beforehand. Many have strict rules fir single men, require you to become a member and some have a waiting list for men to join. Be respectful, friendly, chatty and sociable - it's not just all about the sex. Don't fall into the trap of becoming one of the "wanking zombies" who just follow ladies and couples around and make no attempt at conversation. If you have good social skills and are comfortable talking to strangers in a non-sexual environment then you will get on fine at a club. | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol " Most will give you a tour out of opening hours, but even in opening they will show you what is what and what the etiquette is. Basically the same as a China shop, don't touch unless invited to. | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol " they give you a towel my recommendation would be to drop it accidentally whilst in the play area | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol they give you a towel my recommendation would be to drop it accidentally whilst in the play area " Not all club's are dress down club's. I prefer to go dressed and take things at my own pace. club's generally do tours if you arrive soon after opening, there will be more chance to have a leisurely tour and ask any questions. | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol they give you a towel my recommendation would be to drop it accidentally whilst in the play area Not all club's are dress down club's. I prefer to go dressed and take things at my own pace. club's generally do tours if you arrive soon after opening, there will be more chance to have a leisurely tour and ask any questions. " Lovely answer. This is what is love to do. Hope that whenever I ‘ go for it ‘ there are people that understand that they were once there too | |||
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"But the issue is I'd feel rather awkward as I've never been to one and wouldn't know where to start sorry for being such a amateur lol they give you a towel my recommendation would be to drop it accidentally whilst in the play area Not all club's are dress down club's. I prefer to go dressed and take things at my own pace. club's generally do tours if you arrive soon after opening, there will be more chance to have a leisurely tour and ask any questions. Lovely answer. This is what is love to do. Hope that whenever I ‘ go for it ‘ there are people that understand that they were once there too " I went on my own the first few times but I'm a chatterbox with an engaging smile | |||
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