FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback

By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely fucking not

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Personal preference and all that. I just prefer the feeling of condoms.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We had that off one guy, told us he’s the cleanest on the site, said no but was asked again. Blocked, end of discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, no

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Big No from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope only person I'd bb with is a very regular play partner or a partner

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No way

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is all good . No one should put there health at risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no

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By *arkman54Man
over a year ago

walsall

damaged done I expect

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By *arkman54Man
over a year ago

walsall

Play safe all, it's not worth it.

Have a good Xmas & Happy New Year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, got to know them well and full trust before even considering bare back

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe "

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?"

Was wondering this also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You risk catching all manner of infection and disease just so they can rub there thing against your inner lining...

Result

Best case scenario you spend the next few months doing tests panicking and thinking why the f!@# did I do it...

Worst case scenario

Your shopping for head stones...

Tell them to go have a wank and don't bother with them again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter the situation or how d*unk I am the rain coat goes on no matter what

After a few unpleasant encounters as a young man ending up with me suffering the dreaded pogo stick down the Japs eye it is now firmly ingrained into my subconscious

It's just not worth it.

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

So do you all use protection when performing oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you all use protection when performing oral?"

No as it carries much much less risk although if I'm receiving I do bag up

Giving oral to a female no

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Oral carries no less risk for certain sti?

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you all use protection when performing oral?

No as it carries much much less risk although if I'm receiving I do bag up

Giving oral to a female no"

Yup...there's a super gonorrhoea bacteria now. Nurtured by bacteria from the back of the throat.

Bagging up is no guarantee of protection an infection. It just reduces the risk. Condoms are not the be all and end all 100% guarantee of a dose free sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do you all use protection when performing oral?"
u have to avoid it in order to protect urself from oral transmitted disease like (hsv)herpes simplex virus very contagious can transmit easly by kissing some one

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic

Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11

Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85

Transmission of measles, 1 in 100

Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100

Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200

Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000

Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000

Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100

Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098

Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000

Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000

Death by murder, 1 in 100 000

Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000

Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000

Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000

Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763

Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000

Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter

Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women

Genital Herpes, 30%, 30%

Gonorrhea, 25%, 50%

Chlamydia, 20%, 40%

Syphilis, 20%, 30%

Chancroid, 15%, 30%

Genital Warts, 10%, 10%

Hepatitis B, 5%, 10%

HIV, 0.9%, 1%

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Incidentally recent surveys found that shaving the pubic region increases the risk of catching a STI by up to 400%

Something to seriously think about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic

Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11

Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85

Transmission of measles, 1 in 100

Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100

Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200

Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000

Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000

Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100

Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098

Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000

Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000

Death by murder, 1 in 100 000

Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000

Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000

Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000

Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763

Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000

Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter

Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women

Genital Herpes, 30%, 30%

Gonorrhea, 25%, 50%

Chlamydia, 20%, 40%

Syphilis, 20%, 30%

Chancroid, 15%, 30%

Genital Warts, 10%, 10%

Hepatitis B, 5%, 10%

HIV, 0.9%, 1%

Chances for getting laid on fabs as a single bloke; 4.3 quintillion to 1

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

If was someone I was meeting, they could beg & plead all they wanted, never going to happen.

Only something I'd consider with someone I'd already established a relationship with, knew very well, totaly trusted & was positive (both of us) checked & clean.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

Sounds like he doth protest too much. Avoid with a wide berth for a meet let alone bareback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALWAYS be aware though that even with a condom you are not protected 100%.

Having regular tests is so very important if you have an active sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a certificate of sexual health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a certificate of sexual health! "

A certificate means jack shit. The genital wart virus can stay dormant in the skin for years before symptoms, ie warts..

and you can't test for them at an sti clinic. Visual examination only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?

Was wondering this also

Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Incidentally recent surveys found that shaving the pubic region increases the risk of catching a STI by up to 400%

Something to seriously think about

Ahh now there’s a statistic I can get on board with. I’m so over the totally bald look!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Mattress and pillow stat surprised me. I'm not certain what was going on there. I love bb mmm filth, guess I'm the lucky one, never had an STI, check 6 monthly without fail. Guess it's not only about who and what but how many too....food for thought for the more promiscuous on here.

PS for the more cerebrally challenged on here, 2 negative people cannot give each other a disease as there's not one there to begin with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?

Was wondering this also

Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,"

Why does a dog lick his balls?

Because he can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?

Was wondering this also

Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,

The safest sex is to pleasure yourself

Why does a dog lick his balls?

Because he can!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

needless to say we didn't meet. I'm no medical expert so don't know if the first bit was true or not but we wouldn't meet people who start talking bareback as we assume they'll just raise the subject again when you meet.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

Ginger "

Isn't that how a vasectomy works?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

Ginger

Isn't that how a vasectomy works? "

Well if it is they've cocked Fred's up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it Brad Pitt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always better to be safe rather than sorry

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Such a riveting question??

As if you don't know the answer OP

Guess you must have been bored last night....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

Yeah I'd let 'em.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

Ginger

Isn't that how a vasectomy works? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this lot I think I'm gonna go invest in a flesh light and a mains powered vibrator...

Merry Christmas ya cheerful lot

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"This is what I want to hear . Far to many people be there straight bi or gay . Putting themselves at risk and other people. Rubber up and stay safe

Why do you want to hear this? Serious question. You've made your choices, so why do you need to discuss this with others?

Was wondering this also

Like asking a dog why he licks his balls ,"
Not really. Dogs lick their balls because they can, and don't care who's watching. Starting a thread about your choices, on a controversial topic? That's attention seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To each their own I suppose.

personally i wouldn't play with strangers bareback, id have to have established a long term exclusive relationship and everyone been tested. (in twelve years i've only got to that stage once with swinging and only three times with long term subs who were not swingers)

Testings Not foolproof by any means but as safe as you can be, obviously the HPV virus is a bit of a wildcard.

Nothing in life is 100% risk free, we just all have different levels we consider acceptable.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic

Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11

Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85

Transmission of measles, 1 in 100

Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100

Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200

Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000

Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000

Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100

Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098

Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000

Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000

Death by murder, 1 in 100 000

Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000

Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000

Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000

Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763

Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000

Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter

Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women

Genital Herpes, 30%, 30%

Gonorrhea, 25%, 50%

Chlamydia, 20%, 40%

Syphilis, 20%, 30%

Chancroid, 15%, 30%

Genital Warts, 10%, 10%

Hepatitis B, 5%, 10%

HIV, 0.9%, 1%

What if the person you play with doesn't have any of those? What are the percentages then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So here is one. What if the guy has a medical condition where he orgasms but does not produce semen due to prostate being removed.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Everybody says no they wouldn't do bareback but in the heat of the moment anything goes ...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP, you know you're parents fucked bare, right?

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West

No way. It is tempting on occasions, in the heat of the moment. But we've always stuck to our rules and played safe, every time.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

No.

As soon as a guy even hints at anything other than protected sex, he's history.

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just wanted to know if people put there health at risk just for sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I a8lso wouldnt fuck anyone who begged. How pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they begged and pleaded.......

Let me think now......

Puppy dog eyes too?

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only play bareback so they would not need to beg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't although it seems to go on a lot on here.

I was blocked for saying that I wouldn't meet a couple go round fuck the wife and cum inside her bareback no way would I consider this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

Ermmm no

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I just wanted to know if people put there health at risk just for sex . "
Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are adults. Life is about choices .

Some Bareback some don't

Some drink and drive some don't

Some take class a drugs some don't

Some smoke 20/40 fags a day some don't

Some drive to fast some don't

Some people live in bubble wrap some don't.

.......

People live by their own choices of what is deemed safe for them or not.

A lot do overdramatise the safe Sex thing though lol

Usually from a serial smoker too

Each to their own and live how you feel

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"So here is one. What if the guy has a medical condition where he orgasms but does not produce semen due to prostate being removed."

And he didn't care what he catches?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic

Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11

Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85

Transmission of measles, 1 in 100

Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100

Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200

Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000

Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000

Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100

Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098

Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000

Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000

Death by murder, 1 in 100 000

Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000

Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000

Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000

Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763

Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000

Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter

Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women

Genital Herpes, 30%, 30%

Gonorrhea, 25%, 50%

Chlamydia, 20%, 40%

Syphilis, 20%, 30%

Chancroid, 15%, 30%

Genital Warts, 10%, 10%

Hepatitis B, 5%, 10%

HIV, 0.9%, 1%

Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance!

I see no reason why people cant play protected. The 'pleasure' is a minimal different in the bigger picture of the whole night.

I think that bareback is something for a long-term partner, and personally I believe that it kinda makes it more special.

Call me old fashioned, but maybe the old 'no sex before marriage' should now be 'no bb before serious relationship'?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

IF someone pleaded/insisted and I wasn't comfortable - NO

IF I had gotten to know the person well and got a good vibe and he pleaded/insisted - NO

IF I had gotten to know the person well and got a good vibe and he otherwise behaved normally, didn't plead/insist - YES, I like bareback

People who insist raise red flags. I'm not talking about expressing a preference, I'm talking about you not being willing and he still insisted.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

No... Any guy who won't respect my choices and worse pleaded with me to change them would be out the door in seconds. . Probably propelled by Cal

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom?"

I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So here is one. What if the guy has a medical condition where he orgasms but does not produce semen due to prostate being removed."

Are you under the impression that it’s only the ejaculate that carries sti’s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

Of course not, and frankly if anyone was pushy on the subject we would refuse to meet them. Nothing I like less than someone who doesn't understand no.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Been thinking about this after an accusation.

I have a wife and family, I will not enter into a bare D/s relationship unless there has been tests, there is trust and a a total openness about each parties other sexual contacts, so there is choice, for everyone involved.

Honestly and openness is a reciprocal thing.

I’ll stick with my values, they have kept me and my family safe, while still having fun.

Experience comes from open minded consensual trust.

Some have it, others, well.

Looking forward to a stunning new year.

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By *EONA100TV/TS
over a year ago

st neots

Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site

This is only my opinion

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By *EONA100TV/TS
over a year ago

st neots

Totally agree .block no question

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site

This is only my opinion"

Why?

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site

This is only my opinion"
Bearback? Is that because they're bipolar? (this is a bear joke, by the way, don't take offence...)

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

No way on God's Earth!

Someone with half a dozen STI's isn't going to say "I have herpes, ghonorea, HIV... Would you mind if I had unprotected sex with you?" are they?

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Anyone asking for bearback should be band from the site

This is only my opinion"

I’m confused , are you forming a band dressed as bears ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If yer wanna go paddling you got to wear yer wellies. Simple enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance x

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

There is an unusual medical condition called retrograde ejaculation, but some STI risk is carried simply in the skin and tissues, so condoms would always be desirable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

There is an unusual medical condition called retrograde ejaculation, but some STI risk is carried simply in the skin and tissues, so condoms would always be desirable."

He claimed it was due to cancer when he was younger but he still fathered two children afterwards. He could have been telling the truth but it set alarm bells ringing.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is of course a risk as there is for everything in life but we must be sensible about the risk and not panic

Getting three balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11

Dying on the road over 50 years of driving, 1 in 85

Transmission of measles, 1 in 100

Dying of any cause in the next year, 1 in 100

Annual risk of death from smoking 10 cigarettes per day , 1 in 200

Getting four balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 206

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a can, bottle, or jar , 1 in 1,00

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

Probability that you get something bad from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sexual intercourse,1 in 3,000

Wearing protection only improves the odds, 1 in 6,000

Death by an accident at home, 1 in 7100

Getting five balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 11 098

Death by an accident at work, 1 in 40 000

Death playing soccer, 1 in 50 000

Death by murder, 1 in 100 000

Being hit in your home by a crashing aeroplane, 1 in 250 000

Death by rail accident, 1 in 500 000

Drowning in the bath in the next year, 1 in 685 000

Getting six balls in the UK national lottery, 1 in 2 796 763

Being struck by lightning, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from new variant Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease, 1 in 10 000 000

Death from a nuclear power accident, 1 in 10 000 000

Risk of Infection (%) from One Unprotected Encounter

Risk percentage for men followed by percentage for women

Genital Herpes, 30%, 30%

Gonorrhea, 25%, 50%

Chlamydia, 20%, 40%

Syphilis, 20%, 30%

Chancroid, 15%, 30%

Genital Warts, 10%, 10%

Hepatitis B, 5%, 10%

HIV, 0.9%, 1%

What if the person you play with doesn't have any of those? What are the percentages then? "
Can you get an STI from having your balls in the lottery

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By *penminded28500Man
over a year ago

derry

Being a guy id 100% not even try. Value my health above everything.

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By *robertsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

So how far do you go ?

When people say on their profile "safe sex only" most would assume that they mean that for full sex - condoms are a must .

But do they mean for everything and if so are there any people here that use condoms or dams for oral or is that classed as a step too far ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Natural all the way

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

No chance!

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By *exy-SirenWoman
over a year ago

Fareham

As long as everyone knows condoms don't stop all stds then that's even better. Nor, might I add does a clear blood test mean you are actually clean. Working in a clinic is a massive eye opener and I can tell you that it's frightening how many sexually active adults are clueless about the ins and outs of most stds, excuse the pun.

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By *ewnameCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

why are you asking, its a yes or a no surely you don't need us to tell you if its wrong or right lol

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Interested whether you play oral without protection?

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By *he Sex PistolsCouple
over a year ago

wirral

As much as we Love the idea,no we would never do it, not worth the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely fucking not "
you're ummmmimg and rrrrrring their spit it out

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

Ginger "

Retrograde ejaculation. It is a genuine condition and can be caused by several things. But it's quite common in long term diabetics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needing emergency treatment in the next year after being injured by a bed mattress or pillow,1 in 2000

That's me sleeping on the floor next year then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I'll also occasionally use condoms for men, orally (though not always). I don't use dental dams.

The risks for oral are lower, I just make sure I get tested fully every 6-8 weeks, but I rarely play these days.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"No, we had someone tell us that when he orgasmed he ejaculated backwards into his bladder and he'd wee it out later, therefore didn't need condoms

Ginger"

That would be like saying if a guy says he’ll pull out he doesn’t need condoms. Utter tosh. Wrap it up!

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get . "

Did you tell her the 1980s called and want their ignorance back?

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Lol very good .

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"Not for me. I'll also occasionally use condoms for men, orally (though not always). I don't use dental dams.

The risks for oral are lower, I just make sure I get tested fully every 6-8 weeks, but I rarely play these days. "

What makes you choose when to give oral bare or with condom?

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get . "

Did she mention intravenous drug users too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!

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By *uby slut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

"God just had a woman send me a private message saying it's only us gays spreading hiv. How small minded can you get .

Did she mention intravenous drug users too ??"
no not at all just ranted over gay guys . Has messaged me again and blocked me . I won't be able to sleep tonight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOO better safe than sorry always

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By *agluvrMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't "

As a man I would never beg a stranger for bareback, both for her protection (she doesn’t know where I’ve been) and for mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone wanted to and pleaded with you to fuck you bareback and they told you that they are totally clean and infection free . Would you let them . I know I wouldn't

As a man I would never beg a stranger for bareback, both for her protection (she doesn’t know where I’ve been) and for mine. "

well said

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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago

Exeter

"Nope only person I'd bb with is a very regular play partner or a partner "

Same here. I've blocked people and I've only been on here a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom?

I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons?

Nita"

Very true Nita!

On the other hand not everyone catches AIDS from unprotected sex.

Furthermore, on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death from cancer... 1 in 5. If you smoke why bother to wear a condom?

I take it that you are unaware that smokers don't necessarily get cancer and that cancer occurs for a multitude of reasons?

Nita

Very true Nita!

On the other hand not everyone catches AIDS from unprotected sex.

Bareback for me

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

"on average, 120,000 die each year in Britain from smoking related diseases. In the latest figures (2015) deaths from AIDS related illnesses were 594. More people have sex than smoke so, bareback or a cigarette???

I'll carry on being a non-smoker who enjoys bareback but looks carefully before crossing the road. I'll also carry on not judging others for their choices unless it affects me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll carry on being a non-smoker who enjoys bareback but looks carefully before crossing the road. I'll also carry on not judging others for their choices unless it affects me."

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total abstinence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance in hell. Can't trust anyone so would tell them to jog on.

~Mia

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Given that the only safe sex is no sex

Then the answer is every single person in here takes a risk for the pleasure of their sex life

The only variation is where in the sand that line is drawn for that individual not whether that the risk exists or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given that the only safe sex is no sex

Then the answer is every single person in here takes a risk for the pleasure of their sex life

The only variation is where in the sand that line is drawn for that individual not whether that the risk exists or not "

True but let us not become unrealistic about it...

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