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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone suggest ways of helping me with this site. Im not new as ive been around before but so few people even reply to me.

Im as polite and nice as possible but im treated to just deleted messages and well... No chances.

ahh well. Maybe im just too young for anyone to be interested.

Will

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suspect it is a lot to do with your age. There's no cure for that but time I'm afraid .

Your profile is brief but informative, you've got pictures, you're obviously making an effort by putting up a social meet.

Stick around and maybe join in the forums to get chatting to people that way.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suspected correctly then :P glad im going the right was about things.

Thanks for the nice reply. I will do my best to age xD

all the best

Will

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I think the biggest barrier you face is your age.

The problem is many people have children, or in some cases grandchildren your age. They just don't feel comfortable meeting someone so young.

Don't give up though, there are sure to be people who will meet you. It's just going to take time, patience and perseverance to find them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah thats fully fair. I dont mind that. Its just on occasion a reply saying so or even just a chat would be appreciated.

Thanks though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I suspected correctly then :P glad im going the right was about things.

Thanks for the nice reply. I will do my best to age xD

all the best

Will "

Don't be in any hurry to age. It's not all its cracked up to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha I know. lifes not all its cracked up to be really. Making the best of it I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops.

Thought you were a van driver without a sat nav

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh rachel. Wish I was... ah well

only me :P

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Youre 20

Get down to Yates Wine Lodge - chat with girls, flirt with tbem, get rejected, get laid.

Plenty of time for these shenanigans later on in life.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Get out there and have fun ....mwah

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'd have to agree with the others, not only are you quite young in the context of this site, but you actually LOOK much younger than you are. I work in a school, and you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things OP. Have you seen sites rules, stating no reply means no thanks?

Second, why not get yourself to steamers quay club in Torquay? It's a chance to meet people and show how mature and friendly you are.

Christ I wish fabs had been around when I was 20!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the ladies say age, it's code talk for, "We're old and couldn't withstand the stamina of a 20yr old"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When the ladies say age, it's code talk for, "We're old and couldn't withstand the stamina of a 20yr old" "

It's not code for that although I'm well aware I couldn't keep up with a 20 year old. I'd be bashing out the zeds and they'd just be getting started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was gonna be a story about a van driver and his tale of broken sat navs and lost maps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Two things OP. Have you seen sites rules, stating no reply means no thanks?

Second, why not get yourself to steamers quay club in Torquay? It's a chance to meet people and show how mature and friendly you are.

Christ I wish fabs had been around when I was 20!! "

I have read the rules. But at the same time. Courtesy is nice. Its just nice to recieve, for example, "Thanks but youre too young". I do the same for others. But there is again. No obligation to do so. so *shrugs*

I would if i had the time and the ability. Im only here for christmas at the moment. :P

Im surr Fab would have treated you very well if it was them aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree with the others, not only are you quite young in the context of this site, but you actually LOOK much younger than you are. I work in a school, and you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal"

I wish i could grow a beard... the best ive got is bradley wiggins side burns... I cant help looking youngish but certainly 11 is a bit low there :P I dont get Id'd that often.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd have to agree with the others, not only are you quite young in the context of this site, but you actually LOOK much younger than you are. I work in a school, and you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal

I wish i could grow a beard... the best ive got is bradley wiggins side burns... I cant help looking youngish but certainly 11 is a bit low there :P I dont get Id'd that often. "

Lol bless you! At least you have a sense of humour x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal

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I wish i could grow a beard... the best ive got is bradley wiggins side burns... I cant help looking youngish but certainly 11 is a bit low there :P I dont get Id'd that often. "

I didn't mean you look 11 but school year 11 so 15-16... which is much better.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal

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I wish i could grow a beard... the best ive got is bradley wiggins side burns... I cant help looking youngish but certainly 11 is a bit low there :P I dont get Id'd that often.

I didn't mean you look 11 but school year 11 so 15-16... which is much better.

Cal "

Ahhh I see... well ill take it as a compliment. Even though *grips heart* it pains me so *cough*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree with the others, not only are you quite young in the context of this site, but you actually LOOK much younger than you are. I work in a school, and you would look right at home in year 10 or 11.

Maybe you could grow a beard? that would make you look older.

Cal

I wish i could grow a beard... the best ive got is bradley wiggins side burns... I cant help looking youngish but certainly 11 is a bit low there :P I dont get Id'd that often.

Lol bless you! At least you have a sense of humour x "

At least I have that :P

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

take the plunge and go to a club ..otherwise just be patent.. must be lots of younger girls on here ..or older ones looking for a toyboy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"take the plunge and go to a club ..otherwise just be patent.. must be lots of younger girls on here ..or older ones looking for a toyboy "

I know. Im trying to get the courage to do so.

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