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Tips for writing profile demands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone. I have been on here for a while now. I have a few demands on my profile but I think they come across as grumpy and aggressive. Any tips on how to re-word them so they are still clear just less...demanding? Any help would be appreciated! X

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

All looks ok to me. I’ve seen a lot worse but you’ve not been too grumpy or demanding at all. I don’t think xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I have been on here for a while now. I have a few demands on my profile but I think they come across as grumpy and aggressive. Any tips on how to re-word them so they are still clear just less...demanding? Any help would be appreciated! X"

I think you are quite direct in what you seek so I wouldn’t change it?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The bit at the top is where it seems 'here are the rules now bloody read them'. But points 1 and 2 are already covered in the rest of the text. Points 3 and 4 could be added at the end and embedded into your profile text like points 1 and 2.

If you started your profile from the About Me section it starts off with a positive rather than a negative. This is who I am, this is what I want, this is how I use fab etc. Factual rather than demanding.

I get why you put the rules bit at the top. Totally. But in my experience people that don't read profiles still won't pay attention to that even when it's front and centre like that - and it could be off putting to those who do and you might be compatible with in the long run.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe put the list of demands at the end of your profile and don't use capital letters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone. I have been on here for a while now. I have a few demands on my profile but I think they come across as grumpy and aggressive. Any tips on how to re-word them so they are still clear just less...demanding? Any help would be appreciated! X"

When you set such a high criteria, your audience becomes limited. Tinker with your criteria so you're happy with the number of meets you get.

With us, personality is of equal importance to height, weight etc.. so we're happy to meet everyone and take it from there. Each to there own though, that's the important bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t read it all - but it seemed fine - made slight changes as your caps lock had PlEASE for example

PLEASE READ THIS BIT!

1. I will only send a face pic after talking for a few days

2. I only accept friend requests AFTER I have met you

3. Due to bad experiences, I only meet at townhouse for the first couple of meets.

4. I ONLY USE FAB. I don't have or will not use phoning/Kik/Skype/what's app/snapchat etc.

Right, now that I have advised you on my preconditions, I hope you will respect my limits (or you risk being banned).

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Given what you're looking for (and who, by extension), I don't think you come across as too demanding. You need to be very particular, clear, and strong in stating your desires, because I'd assume that men would flood your inbox otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough sex can attract rough people so you need to come across as in control,your profile comes across that way so all I will say is be careful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at some past posts on here, based around a similar topic, I do think you may be limiting your target audience. It does come across as a bit demanding to me. I know there will be some who will take a dislike to the slightly aggressive attitude and avoid messaging. There is a way to make your demands, but to soften the blow of your words, I believe. Injecting a little humour can sometimes work. It takes the edge off a little. The ones you don't want to message you, are probably not reading your profile anyway. So I would suggest sprinkling a little bit of honey on it, for the ones who do take the time to read it. Good luck OP .

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I certainly like it a bit long but you hit the nail in the head ! I hope I said it right! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your tips guys! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually nice to see a profile with enough info that to be able to gauge what you are looking for.

Good luck OP.

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